We come here but we pretend like we're back there.
Good lord is
The Big Sick good [dir. Michael Showalter]. Haven't seen an Apatow-produced romcom drama this good since...
Forgetting Sarah Marshall (2008)? Equal parts heart-wrenching and uproarious laughter, even during the heaviest of moments. I was expecting to laugh a lot from a Kumail Nanjiani co-written screenplay along with his wife Emily Gordon who's played wonderfully by Zoe Kazan, but I wasn't expecting to cry quite a bit, too. The film explores the generational, cultural, and religious divides of such a relationship between a pakistani muslim guy and a white girl. Surprisingly, Kumail's family is hilarious, and it was nice to see Adeel Akhtar again since the stunning
Utopia, playing the more favoured brother ("You have to end it now or mom will fucking ghost you"). The film is full of memorably hilarious moments and specific nuances ("There's a strict hierarchy: there's doctor, engineer, lawyer, hundreds of jobs, ISIS...and comedian") that I could see it as being a modern romcom classic for a good while. The cast is great, especially Holly Hunter and Ray Romano as Emily's slightly distant parents. Kumail's comedy troupe deserve praise too, with Bo Burnham, Aidy Bryant, and the at-least-he's-trying comic Kurt Braunohler. The more impressive part of these ups and downs the two have to go through is that it's partly autobiographical. I had only known about Kumail and Emily through their Indoor Kids podcast but I wasn't aware of the hardships and on-and-off dynamics their relationship went through. Great romcoms don't come that often, so if you haven't seen this yet, keep it on your radar.