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[D'ultimate]

I'm still shook up that Tupac is dead. Everyone else...Meh.

 

[dog$]

I use http://www.soosed.com/lj all the time.

Thanks to this, I am now more angered by celebrity deaths than anything else. It's like hearing news in perpetual echo for 24 hours. I know Reeves is dead. I know, I know, I know, I know, I know, I know. Now will you all move on and shut the fuck up.

 

[Pimpwerx]

All I know is I got banned for badmouthing Jonathon Brandis' shoddy filmwork during his death. Hey, I firmly believe that bad movies like Ladybugs haunt you in life AND death. :lol I thought it was a fitting epitaph for the guy, but I think one of the mods is president of the Brandis fanclub, and they banned me good. It took a good bit of groveling to get back after that one, so I've stayed away from most death threads unless they actually mean something to me. That said, I think it's crazy that some people are calling Reeve a good actor. I mean, he rocked as Superman, but I don't remember him doing anything else that was good besides that. PEACE.

 

[Saint Cornelius]

I mean, he rocked as Superman, but I don't remember him doing anything else that was good besides that.

Yo, him playing someone who could walk in that one superbowl commercial should've gotten him an Emmy!

 

[Kai Dracon]

Comparisons to all the starving children who die every day, etc, often don't take into account effects of perspective and psychology. I think Christopher Reeve is a particularly good person to examine this with, because he's not a random celeb - he had the honor of portraying one of the most recognized cultural icons of the 20th century (an icon that for many people embodies everything noble about the human race), and when he was humbled by a terrible accident, was steadfast and brave under circumstances were being famous and wealthy don't make your problems go away.

So Reeve was a true symbol for a lot of people. If we examined our feelings carefully, we might find that we're sad not because we honestly think his life as just a human being is more valuable than others, but because of more abstract and symbolic connections.

We feel emotions (or alternately, don't) at things like death for a lot more reasons than just the fact of death. It's very particular to the circumstances surrounding individual instances. This seems not widely understood or accepted though. (With irony, particularly among people with nihilistic attitudes who say we universally -shouldn't- care or be affected by things.)

 

[Tazznum1]

People feel bad for numerous reasons. But it is usually for selfish reasons.


They will never make you _________________ again.



Either laugh, love, feel good, give you a hug etc. ever again.

 

[Cauliflower of Love]

There's a study somewhere that people who watch TV series become "friends" with the actors. It's a kinda freaky connection that's made. You see someone enough for 6 yrs and it seemse they're talking to you or with you they become your friends.

*searches google

 

[darkiguana]

People see them so much that they feel like they know them; they feel close to them. It's like a neighbor or casual acquaintance dying-- you wouldn't be completely distraught, but you'd be shocked and a little upset.

That is about the best explanation I have heard. When a celebrity or athlete that I have followed dies I am not depressed or anything, but I am a little bummed out. I don't cry or anything, but I am a little down. Especially when I see new stories or read articles about it.

darkiguana

 

[Fatghost]

I don't care when celebrities die.

Unless they were important people who might affect the stock markets.

 

[Drinky Crow]

Can't imagine caring when a celebrity dies. Sure, it's sad and all, but it's not like their work dies with 'em. You can still enjoy what they've done.

I swear, some people just look for an excuse to get all maudlin and sentimental, like experiencing sadness makes them feel more real or human or something.

 

[JackFrost2012]

I remember when Jim Henson died and everyone got all maudlin and I just didn't really care. I felt bad.

The only celebrity death that's really "hit" me is when Douglas Adams died. Mostly cause it was just such a shock and he was still writing and doing good work. Hopefully the movie will be a fitting tribute.