Frankie Thinks Lesbians Chose to Be Lesbians: During a discussion about sexuality and sexual orientation, Frankie recently admitted he strongly believes women who like other women chose to be lesbians. This is odd because Frankie believes he was born a gay man. "Any lesbians choose to become lesbians later in life," Frankie told his housemates. "Women who have been with man after man after man after man choose to become a lesbian later in life. Gay men it doesn't work so much that way. It's usually they're like, Oh OK, no, I'm gay"