You know why people are all tired of pronouns and such ? Because it never fucking ends.
At first, it was people identifying as the opposite gender, which is perfectly fine and understable.
Then, you had the "they" fad being added to the mix. After that, the "non-binary" shenaningans. Now you have "gender-neutral" pronouns and it doesn't even stop there.
I mean :
Then, you have to factor the "gender-fluid" persons, who will just tip-toe between genders and pronouns depending on the mood of the day. How do you even keep up with that ?
At some point, you might just call some people attention-whores and be done with it. That's pure lunacy and if you expect everyone to follow you in that loony rabbit hole, you might actually be the problem and the reason why so many reasonable people are fed up with all that bullshit.
Struggling with your identity doesn't give you a pass for being a full-blown entitled asshole. Your identity is mostly your problem and no one is forced to solve it for you or adapt his daily life to make you confortable. You want to identify as the opposing gender ? Do it and stop bothering other people if they don't care ?