Actually, that is a great example of the double standard:
If someone says something that inadvertently triggers another person, intent does not matter, only effect.
If someone says something that COULD potentially trigger someone but does not, effect does not matter, but the intent was informed by racism, so it is offensive.
There is a double standard everywhere.
Meanwhile, they are able to say that working hard and planning for the future are aspects of white culture- and for some reason the likely effect- destroying black people’s chances of success- does not matter since it had what is being interpreted as a good intent.
The insidious part is they've already taken the time to also establish
what your intent was. So yeah, one dude says "effect matters, not intent", but they will also go on long rants about how they
know what conservatives are thinking, they
know what GamerGaters are thinking, they
know what white cis males are thinking, they
know what gun owners are thinking, they
know what Trump supporters are thinking, etc etc. The result after awhile is they get tricked into believing
is racist or
is racist or
is racist or whatever.
We see so many brainwashed mind-readers who -- almost without realizing it -- use the language of the True Believer, the zealot who knows your Evil Thoughts before you even think them. (
So you're saying... ) It's a bit better now but they used to infect GAF like a plague. NPC was a fitting descriptor, which is probably why Twitter banned it because you can't allow your biggest customer base to be mocked.
You said something offensive to me, a person of color? Racist.
No? I misunderstood and you're not a racist? Unconscious bias / racism. You may have not meant to be racist but something about your upbringing, your gender, your religious system, or even your skincolor (white fragility) has caused you to accidentally be racist.
No? I misjudged your skincolor and you're not "white" but actually a levantine? Oh well. Systemic racism. Whiteness. White privilege. You may not be racist or even "white" but your appearance puts you on the same side as the White Europeans, so bend the knee anyway or you're racist for supporting a racist system.
No? You'd rather not have anything to do with me and my race-baiting rhetoric? You'd rather not respond to me at all?
Well. Silence is Complicity.