It's crazy how there's so many angry and psychotic threads and they're all late 30s-40s year olds who never did anything with their lives and are angry and malicious because of it.
yes you nailed it. this also explains their hatred of kids. there was a thread once that asked if a ship was sinking and a lifeboat only had room for one would you save a dog or a child, most of them went for the former.
they hate what they can never have. they can never have kids, because they are all adult babies who are too dysfunctional to have a stable heterosexual relationship, so they hate people who do. this is why they hate heterosexuality and why they hate families and children.
since heterosexuality is bad, they have rebranded their "toxic male" biological urges as "trans lesbianism". so they pretend to be women in order to shield their behavior, and it works for them, most of the time (at least inside the ever-growing bubble). unfortunately, many old school feminists openly call them out on this, so they respond with more hate. "vile TERF!" they cry. they hate these real women because they are what they are not. they hate them because they are another thing they can never have. (on some level this is all about "LGBTQ+-enabled male privilege & entitlement)
so they have run off the more feminine, traditional influences in their lives in favor of this Drag Feminism. this means the only "women" they know are either trans accommodating multicolor haired SJWs who will never challenge them or (more likely) other deluded men who think they are women. so when they do their performative online activism, complaining about women's costume designs or whatever, they embody the most shrill shrieking puritan butch lesbian stereotype possible.
it's almost like they are doing Womanface, if that was a term like Blackface.
so you end up with "lesbians" who hate the female body and want it covered up and are on a holy crusade to shout it from the mountaintops. on one level this is an over-reach to prove that they "aren't a man" by baptising themselves in wokeism, absolving the sin of "male toxicity" via consumer activism. the goal of all this performance is to cover their insecurity and re-assure the rest of us that they are NOT MEN (look how much they hate women!). not them, totally not, despite being born with a penis and being sexually attracted to women they are TRANS LESBIANS.
the whole thing is a mindfuck. i lurk on another board (not Era) where they regularly have LGBTQ+ discussions and it is a shitshow of inflated egos, tip toeing around saying the "wrong word" or pronoun, AFAB vs AMAB, constant bad faith ad hominems, interfighting as a result of cis/gay/trans sexual preferences existing at all (and them being unable to tolerate sexual diversity), 1,000 word long naval gazing diatribes, etc.. everywhere you look you see the infighting that naturally comes as a result of negotiating a wholly incoherent ideology (of which infighting is a natural outcome - this is why people like McSpook can honestly say "Era is a horrible place for trans discussion"). these SJW spaces themselves are incredibly toxic to the rest of us but also their own communities as well. it's sad.