Reys progression was unearned. Jedi started as toddlers and become Masters when their 30s? Rey went from "what the fuck is the force?" to Jedi Knight in mere hours.
Now if you say shes special and shes just easily influenced by the Force its still unearned and robs Rey of any kind of victory or accomplishment.
Rey's accomplishment is that she was able to survive on a desert planet by herself since she was 6-7 years of age.
Unlike Anakin or Luke she had to grow up pretty fast in order to not only make a living, but to defend herself from any threats that may come her way.
Combine that with the patience and hope that her family would return, Rey's inner strength was leagues ahead of Anakin's and Luke's.
The force doesn't work better depending on how strong you are. And with Kylo Ren's crash course training, Rey used that flight or right instinct she's honed throughout the years to not only survive A jedi mind grape, but to turn it around and use it on her attacker.
Despite what the prequels told you this his how to get the most out of the Force.
Yoda: Yes, run! Yes, a Jedi's strength flows from the Force. But beware of the dark side. Anger, fear, aggression; the dark side of the Force are they. Easily they flow, quick to join you in a fight. If once you start down the dark path, forever will it dominate your destiny, consume you it will, as it did Obi-Wan's apprentice.
Luke: Vader... Is the dark side stronger?
Yoda: No, no, no. Quicker, easier, more seductive.
Luke: But how am I to know the good side from the bad?
Yoda: You will know... when you are calm, at peace, passive. A Jedi uses the Force for knowledge and defense, NEVER for attack.
I want Luke to live, unless you mean he dies the same way Anakin "did" when he went by the name Darth Vader
Luke Skywalker is dead, there is only Darth Joker