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Teenager charged with manslaughter for encouraging friend to commit suicide.

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Vilam

Maxis Redwood
Wow... I entered the thread thinking "well that's a stupid thing to charge", but man... That chick is fucking disturbed and shouldn't be around others.
 

daniels

Member
She clearly presented herself as being anti-suicide.

That was after he committed suicide.

If this is true...
This is armchair and all that i know but it seriously sounds like she wanted attention
and if she is "personally affected " by a suicide of someone "close" to her she would get it...
I dont even know how to say this but thankfully he didn't delete the conversations...
 

params7

Banned
I don't think she was genuine. The way she was forcing him to do it, almost taunting him if he doesn't - that's nowhere near what I'd call genuine empathy. This was more like an exciting power trip to her. Probably promoted anti suicide stuff out of fear of being caught or guilt (not likely), or maybe that's just who she is on the inside. She needs help.

I wish people would show similar empathy in other cases of murder. Very few people calling out for her death sentence (the way it should be). But even more typical murders have people often suffering from the same kind of psychological illnesses.
 
I would have believed that she was just mentally fractured herself (given that she did spend time in a psych ward) and didn't think her actions would be one of pain to him, but that suicide would actually free and save him from his pain. I'd buy that, a lot of suicidal people believe that.

However she then spent the months following his death starting a suicide prevention charity, using his name to get into Red Sox games, going to prom and speaking out about the ills and pain of suicide and how you can't bring back the dead.

I think she either didn't think he'd go through with it (which is ridiculous given the conversations between them) or wanted the sympathy and attention she got after his death because she herself was mentally damaged and needed that attention and validation.

Needing validation and support is one thing, but sacrificing another human beings life to get it means she is devoid of empathy herself.
 
well wow. didn't know about the twitter page and charity plan when i first posted. that's even worse than i first thought.

narcissistic personality disorder.
 
I don't think she was genuine. The way she was forcing him to do it, almost taunting him if he doesn't - that's nowhere near what I'd call genuine empathy. This was more like an exciting power trip to her.

Yep. Reads to me like someone on a sick power trip and then the way she exploits him after his death. People are fucking insane. That's the takeaway from today
 
Sounds more like murder than manslaughter but I doubt that chain of messages tells the whole story

They can nail her on manslaughter. It'd be tough to get murder. The defense could argue that she didn't physically force him and didn't shoot or stab him, she only talked to him.

Coincidentally, assisted suicide (the benevolent kind) in some states is a manslaughter charge. It's not a light charge by any means.
 
CARTER: Are you gonna do it now?

ROY: I just don't know how to leave them, you know.

CARTER: Say you're gonna go the store or something.

ROY: Like, I want them to know that I love them.


CARTER: They know. That's one thing they definitely know. You're over thinking.
This part killed me.

How can people be like this, man. And she had the nerve to say that she loved him.
 

Dai Kaiju

Member
Interesting. The girl reminds me of someone I know who is basically Wile E. Coyote personified. Always scheming and equally prone to self sabotage. The kind of person who would swallow a bottle of pills just so they could tell someone they swallowed a bottle of pills and claim someone drove them to it.
 
Is there a precedent for this? Has anyone ever been charged and found guilty of manslaughter or murder by only using words and/or text?
Im out of the loop because I never knew there were legal ramifications for saying something or messaging someone things.
She's a piece of shit, but I find this very strange. Im sure this exact thing has happened literally thousands of times by now.
 

Wookieomg

Member
Those text logs are some of the most disturbing things I've read in a while. Fuck. This girl is a sociopath and needs serious help. Awful, awful situation altogether. Fuck...
 

coleco

Member
Is there a precedent for this? Has anyone ever been charged and found guilty of manslaughter or murder by only using words and/or text?
Im out of the loop because I never knew there were legal ramifications for saying something or messaging someone things.
She's a piece of shit, but I find this very strange. Im sure this exact thing has happened literally thousands of times by now.

Inciting someone to commit suicide (aiding, pressuring, etc.) is a crime in some countries.

I don't know if there's a precedent as clear as this one, though.
 

ramparter

Banned
Thankfully people know what she did and that shame can follow her.

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When someone vulnerable and hopeless reaches out to you, you don't push them off the edge. I can't believe how heartless she was.
Shame? This woman is evil. From the text I believe she was trying to get ready of him for some reason and the only way she found was to make him commit suicide.

She shouldn't be charged with murder. This should be a new kind of very serious crime called manipulation when you fucking with someone's mind's and vulnerabilities.

Also this is what the story reminds me of:
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Kettch

Member
Yeah, I started off thinking this charge was crazy, but if they're able to show that her encouragement was malicious rather than a misguided way to help him, then I'm actually ok with a jail sentence here.
 

Pejo

Gold Member
They charged her with the right crime IMO. I usually don't get into these arrests news threads, but that's completely messed up.
 

Fink

Member
I thought this thread would be about someone who understood the feelings the guy was going through and didn't stop him from committing suicide when she could have. But holy shit she was outright encouraging him.
 

Aske

Member
That's not dumb, or stupid. Came into the thread ready for a strange, confusing situation with someone being incorrectly charged...blown away.

This girl is fucked, both mentally and legally.

Yep. I'm almost aways on the side of protecting free speech in situations like this, but I'd consider what this girl did to be criminal. Very easy to differentiate between empathy and/or a philosophical belief that suicide is the right answer, and the aggressive encouragement purposefully goading a specific individual to kill himself displayed in these texts.
 

Lonely1

Unconfirmed Member
I thought this thread would be about someone who understood the feelings the guy was going through and didn't stop him from committing suicide when she could have. But holy shit she was outright encouraging him.

Pressuring him to would be a better description.
 

Zomba13

Member
Wow. I kinda thought it'd be like "kill yourself" in a text or something, like a not serious thing but wow. She really wanted him to kill himself and really pushed for it. Not even in a "it's for your own good, you're in pain" way but in a "well you said you were gonna do it, don't flake out, I just don't get it, you should do it because you said".

Such a horrible, horrible person. Definitely manslaughter.
 

Lonely1

Unconfirmed Member
OMG, this is sad. Do you think she did it for the lulz or because she thought it was a viable solution? I don't understand where she was coming from, what the hell man?

My inexpert opinion is that this is akin to mother poisoning their kids to get attention from others.
 
Jesus what is going on today? Those are some of the most heartless, horrific things I've ever seen one human being say to another. This is some straight-up Johan Liebert shit.
 
Shame? This woman is evil. From the text I believe she was trying to get ready of him for some reason and the only way she found was to make him commit suicide.

She shouldn't be charged with murder. This should be a new kind of very serious crime called manipulation when you fucking with someone's mind's and vulnerabilities.

Also this is what the story reminds me of:
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Manslaughter is probably the right charge but how little jail time people can get for it is extremely stupid.
 

Richie

Member
Let her rot in jail. I'm not one to ask for such things but I'm gonna be so pissed if she's let go with a slap in the wrist.
 

Newlove

Member
That's so fucked up and unimaginable talking to someone like that. 18 years old and going to prison for encouraging someone to kill themselves. Dumb kid.
 

Lashley

Why does he wear the mask!?
Pure evil.

Can't even imagine what the family is going through. Suicide is bad enough, but the fact he was coerced?
 

jb1234

Member
The part that really shakes me up is how she's like, "Kill yourself or I'm gonna get you help."

I just can't even conceive of the type of person you'd have to be to even think something like that. It's just chilling.
 
Its fucked up what she did but I'm not really sure I'm comfortable with calling it manslaughter. These kind of crimes would seem to fall better into some sort of cyber bullying domain.
 

Timedog

good credit (by proxy)
I thought it was gonna be some shit like "I hate you! I wish you were dead!", but this shit is...wow. Fair charge.
 

antonz

Member
This is an example of someone who is pure evil. Roy was clearly troubled but everything he typed out clearly indicates he was looking for support to get through what he was facing in his life. Instead all he got was get was someone who was actively pushing him to kill himself.

I cannot even begin to understand how someone could be that demented. I mean indifference to the plight of strangers can happen but to be that vile to someone you know directly. When you hear about how she made a big deal out if it with events etc afterwards I half want to say she pushed him to do it for her own selfish desires. His death got to get her lots of limelight until her role in it came out
 

Dai Kaiju

Member
I would hate to be this woman's lawyer. How do you defend such an evil act?

You don't. You convince the client to plead insanity and collect payment for representing them even though you're aware the judge won't have any sympathy. I feel so bad for that kid. I was a victim of something similar. I wasn't made to attempt suicide but I drank so much I did permanent damage to my pancreas...which can be fatal so it's effectively the same thing.

You know someone is a psychopath when they send you a picture on snapchat of a glass of wine filled to the brim knowing full well you're a recovering alcoholic who just got out of the hospital for alcohol withdrawal and pancreatitis.
 

Dai Kaiju

Member
Sure would she get jail time for this? Or more likely suspended with medical treatment for her, cos she sounds not right in the head.

Really hope she does get jail or being put in a mental institution or whatever.

Can the courts section her? Or just jail time?

ITT: OP is stealthily trying to figure out how much trouble they'll get in if they do something similar.
 
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