Oh boy...I wasn't trying to be aggressive, lol, but I'm sorry if I came off that way? I can be a rude bitch sometimes but I genuinely wasn't meaning to.
It was calling me "deliberately obtuse" and implying I was purposefully avoiding discussion topics that I took as aggressive, or at least unduly rude. But no worries, conveying or interpreting tone over the internet can be tricky sometimes.
Well, the Grounders went after the Sky People because they invaded their territory first, but sure. It's not unreasonable to assume that conflicts will arise in the future, but that happens in basically any of the available scenarios anyway. Such as the coalition falling apart after the defeat of Mt. Weather. She ultimately got hundreds (or thousands) of people out of the mountain scot free, versus sacrificing potentially all of them for a potential military victory against an entrenched enemy that wasn't really guaranteed. Shrug, I guess.
If it was thousands of Grounders that were set free I can understand the argument a bit more. Really from what we saw it seemed more like dozens, but that could just be the show's budget constrictions.
Also from the situation when the turn happened, it really seemed to me that victory was basically assured, though there would have been casualties.
Really what it comes down to in my mind is that Mt. Weather logically represented too big of a threat to be allowed to continue. A treaty between the Sky People and the Coalition makes sense because, while the Sky People are strong, they aren't
too strong, and the Coalition could destroy them if they had to. Mt. Weather, however, has always dominated the Grounders, and except for this one opportunity, they probably will always have that ability. Letting them continue seems like an incredibly poor decision, and paints Lexa as weak, worried too much about how she could fail, rather then seizing the opportunity in front of her. I'm surprised there was no scene with the other leaders of the tribes, demanding the war continue. Maybe that would have been a good opportunity to have Lexa explain her reasoning.