I was more a Native Tongues guy.
lol..twas a very private affair (I'd go the Take 6 route
). Went all out the night before. Next morning was with my boys at the DMV picking up an I.D. There's a tip for you youngins. Get your shit on your wedding day..you'll never forget the date!
Dude, always talk. Even if she doesn't want to, even if YOU don't want to. Talking is the key to happiness. Honesty truly is the best policy. Keeping shit in is the death of the relationship.
Take walks, hike, sit by the river/lake/ocean. Enjoy a quiet room together. Don't let money be the thing that y'all use to enjoy life (This excludes gaming systems and things like that. I mean, this IS GAF).
Make some space for yourself..it helps. On my regular routine, I bike daily a minimum 40 miles. Helps my health, weight, and general attitude towards life. I enjoy spinning while listening to shit from Rush to Run the Jewels. Nothing like blasting Cruel Summer while riding in 20° weather.
What I'm saying is, just enjoy her and the time you have..we're all here just like that mc rib, for a limited time only.