DY:
I'm guessing that you would move if you could but can't because your money isn't right? All I can say is that you have o let this do go, I know he's your boy but with the changes you are making in your life you have to distance yourself from this cat.
So, stop feeding into his fuckery because half the time he just wants the attention and the other half of the time he is truly fucked up. The hardest part s going to be watching 'ol girl fall into the trp too.
I had to cut off one of my best friends because he couldn't get his ass our of a bottle. Shit's hard, man.
I wanted his ass out in Feb but the girl is the one who doesn't want him to leave. The girl and myself are probably the only ones still capable of tolerating his shit at all - and she knows it, so she's thinking that if we kick him out he might drive off a cliff on the way back to his mom's house.
But yeah... shits rough. Having to deal with the fact that he's the most ain't shit person I've ever met (One of my friends back in NC, best basketball player I ever knew growing up made a fool out of me when I used some of my connections interning for the Bobcats to get him a try out for D-League team by not even getting out of bed - this guy now is worse) AND my transition out of active duty is just too heavy some times.
I'm glad I invested in the girl though. I'd probably be volunteering for deployments non-stop to keep from calling my family if it weren't for her. Hell, she actually got me
liking people again. I can't remember the last time I got excited to meet new people. That was a HUGE problem for me - even before the military.
I mean, the guy IS cut off from me mentally finally, but today was just the first time I went off on him for just being a lying dirtbag leeching fuck. Like... no "get your head in the game, I need you to be on top of your shit to keep me on top of my shit". Just
fuck you.