I need to start paying more attention to usernames/less attention to avatars. I was about to call out TheBlackMarvel because of this post:
Yeah I have to keep reminding myself that dude isn't Black Marvel.
I need to start paying more attention to usernames/less attention to avatars. I was about to call out TheBlackMarvel because of this post:
I fucking love Amy Schumer
That's definitely the problem, especially when it comes to black women ("I prefer x group over black women" being the most heavily used version of the phrase) and the excuses I hear from people who say this on this forum. But a lot of posters want to deny that these preferences are being influenced by society/media/outside factors and aren't natural, especially for a group as diverse as black people.
Preferences are now a problem? No matter how they are created, I don't see a preference being a problem.
I think it was imm0rtal or harSon but someone put me on to the Cookie dough flavor of quest bar and I just got some today...I've never tasted a more delicious protein bar in my life.
Preferences are now a problem? No matter how they are created, I don't see a preference being a problem.
Saw this and figure we can get some use
still allergic to pussy said:Saying you prefer a race over another is not racist. Its personal taste and purely subjective. You're not valuing a race's ability to love as being superior to another. That would be racist.
sub said:That's pretty much the very definition of racism. Aesthetic preferences are one thing, but specifically tying preferences to "inherent" racial qualities is definitely racist on some level. Example:
1. "I don't like girls with frizzy hair." Not racist.
2. "I don't like black girls." Definitely racist.
3. "I don't like black girls because of their frizzy hair." May not be worth grabbing the torches and pitchforks for, but it is still racist by a baseline standard.
For one, not only are you making assumptions about an entire race and likely tying projection and personal experience to it unnecessarily, but you're also using small numbers of people as spokespeople or representatives for an entire race, aka stereotyping. Even if you may not consider it offensive or derogatory or whatever in the way that actively subjugating someone to prejudice because of race is, it's absolutely a racist thing to do, even if subtle. "I normally don't like spanish guys, but you're pretty cute," "you're so polite for a Scotsman," "this is the longest I've ever been with a black guy," etc. are all no-nos. You're absolutely allowed to have preferences, for example wanting someone with red hair or freckles or glasses or even being tan, but the second you actually tie those qualities to a race, positively or negatively, it's absolutely racially-charged and by extension racism.
I had a small debate about the preferences thing in LGBTGAF a while back. Thing is, there's nothing inherently wrong with preferences, but...
Sorry, they're nothing special to me. I prefer women of color.
Me.
I was raised by my mother /and/ father and they are still together after almost 49 years. Black Love, yo.
Alright, alright, alRaw.
Happy black history month.Have any of you heard this South African tourism commercial they just started playing on the radio?
Heard it on ESPN radio going home from work. It starts off like your run of the mill radio commercial with a super WASPy married couple talking about the beauty of South Africa, but then it went places.
After bringing up your standard beaches and natural beauty the wife brings up seeing where freedom was born at the Mandela exhibit, wasn't expecting it but whatever. Then the husband comments on his wife learning tribal dances, she brings up him learning some moves from the natives as well. Which culminates in him saying "Bet you didn't know you married a Zulu warrior". The combination of the content and the extra WASP delivery, made me want to drive my car into a snow embankment.
Here's my thing over posting in that kind of topic.... you can get banned for ignorance in an instant
I'm still grateful for Gaborn and shidoshi being extremely patient with explaining trans/cis stuff to me when I was starting the discussion with absolutely no knowledge. However, most of that was PMs and off-site. I wouldn't even talk about it here. Be racist for years, project your atheism as superiority, be an internet detective - but don't even risk coming off wrong (you're still wrong for not knowing more than you do, obv) in a thread centered around trans issues.
Yeah I have to keep reminding myself that dude isn't Black Marvel.
I think it was imm0rtal or harSon but someone put me on to the Cookie dough flavor of quest bar and I just got some today...I've never tasted a more delicious protein bar in my life.
Here's my thing over posting in that kind of topic.... you can get banned for ignorance in an instant
I'm still grateful for Gaborn and shidoshi being extremely patient with explaining trans/cis stuff to me when I was starting the discussion with absolutely no knowledge. However, most of that was PMs and off-site. I wouldn't even talk about it here. Be racist for years, project your atheism as superiority, be an internet detective - but don't even risk coming off wrong (you're still wrong for not knowing more than you do, obv) in a thread centered around trans issues.
like - just look at the back end of that thread right now. it doesn't even make fucking sense
I had a small debate about the preferences thing in LGBTGAF a while back. Thing is, there's nothing inherently wrong with preferences, but...
Yeah, Opiate seemed to want to engage that guy in good faith but some other mod must've been feeling a little less patient.
There is ironacen, which I get. But there are a good bit of people that post in "That is the way I see it, anyone that says otherwise is wrong". Lets call it proud ignorance. And it is the always the folks that live in a bubble.
DD, i wouldn't keep poking that cage
That's generally tied to being young too. But hey, videogame site...
Well I want them to know they fucked up. Will reddit ban a sub for doxxing if they've doxxed the wrong person?
This kind of stood out to me a couple days ago
Is there anything wrong with that?
The thing about ignorance is that you don't know you're ignorant. Its why I kinda get irritated on race topics here when I see guys absolutely itching for the chance to jump down someone's throat for saying the wrong thing.
Like, what the fuck does that actually do? Unless they're being straight up hateful, which you won't know unless its painted clear as day in the first post if you haven't even allowed them to go on with their train of thought, then talk. Explain. Teach. What does kicking an ignorant person out of the room do other than make them be ignorant somewhere else? Congrats. You moved sand from one side of the beach to the other.
just let them stay wrong and ignore it
yal are really acting like people from this site haven't been physically stalked and harassed. ain't shit about this place worth that
Have any of you heard this South African tourism commercial they just started playing on the radio?
Heard it on ESPN radio going home from work. It starts off like your run of the mill radio commercial with a super WASPy married couple talking about the beauty of South Africa, but then it went places.
After bringing up your standard beaches and natural beauty the wife brings up seeing where freedom was born at the Mandela exhibit, wasn't expecting it but whatever. Then the husband comments on his wife learning tribal dances, she brings up him learning some moves from the natives as well. Which culminates in him saying "Bet you didn't know you married a Zulu warrior". The combination of the content and the extra WASP delivery, made me want to drive my car into a snow embankment.
I feel you. It's why I either discuss things or leave it alone all together. You're absolutely correct that there are plenty of posters chomping at the bit to dog pile on someone for having even a toe out of line.
I think there is much value in discussion and educating. Going straight to shitting on someone for their (probably wrong) opinion does no one any favors. In this particular person's case though, he was a bit staunch in his position (like slayven said, "proud"). I see why a mod just went for the kill instead of breaking it down for ol' boy.
My big issue with that is how the trigger is faster on that topic than others. Check out any thread about the current violence in Iraq, Syria, Pakistan, etc - you will see immediate, plain to see, vile shit aimed at Muslims and Islam in general. And you have really good posters trying to explain, in exquisite detail, how they are mistaken only to be called everything short of terrorist sympathizers.
Like actually look at any thread where religion is a focus and compare it to one where transgender issues are a focus. They're handled almost entirely differently.
It's because religion is not biological, in addition to many on this forum believing religion is "wrong"/the world would be better without it. Not saying the mistreatment is right, but there is a clear line that's being drawn into what groups are "ok" to go in on. Xbox fans? Republicans? Christians? Cool. Women, Ethnic Groups, LGBT people, no.
Like actually look at any thread where religion is a focus and compare it to one where transgender issues are a focus. They're handled almost entirely differently.
Religion, political ideologies, things of that nature are handled much less stringently than things like race and gender identity. Fat shaming is just now becoming frowned upon in this community. The reasoning is that a person controls their religious beliefs (or lack thereof) - same with political affiliation - which opens those topics up to criticism. So you're not going to recruit the same expediency in moderating with those threads unless some one is making a particularly special ass of themselves.
At least that's how mods have explained the double standard before in the past. And you don't have to tell me how religious threads go. That "Atheism > Religion, facts only" a few days ago was a chore to get through.
Haven't read any euro threads where they talk about the invading brown hordes?
post on gaming side brehs
post on gaming side brehs
Haven't read any euro threads where they talk about the invading brown hordes?
I don't even post in trans threads.
and expect rational mature discussion too
Just fucking realized its all-star weekend. My interest deflate every year. Whose in the dunk contest? Whose fucking in the east and west?
Is Bron playing? Is Kobe playing?
Fuck the Knicks with their shitty record.
Do any of you have shaky relationships with your parents.
you do youI fucking love Amy Schumer