I was going to make a thread, but I decided I'd ask here. I'm a young black male currently working full time (by units alone) and going to school full time as a CS major. My job at times allows me to work on my course load on the job....
I'm about 24, and I've noticed that while I've never had many black friends to begin with, it seems as if I'm growing more distant from my friends in past years, the main reason is while I work many of them do not. It puts a huge strain on the relationship when I end up going out of pocket when it comes to doing things and hanging out....
Even with some members in my family who are the same age as me seem to have a in and out of job lifestyle... My current job is my second job and I've been here for about 4 years... Having a record of being in and out of jobs, or holding jobs less than 6 months looks suspect and it seems could be causing them (friends and family) not to get jobs.
Anyway, I guess I say all of this to say that there seems to be a huge lack of professional desire among black youth (specifically male) I actually don't even know too many professional black women, but that could just be because of where I work, and what I study. Most of them live at home (which isn't bad) but live at home and are not working, also still don't know what they want to study or do professionally. They don't do drugs or anything or have any trouble with the law, they just aren't motivated.