Damn, you couldn't even get a notel motel room? Well, since she was opposed to it at first, maybe we should be judging you! Ha! The thing about dating strippers/porn stars is that they mostly work on a totally different life and code than 99% of the population. That "stripper logic" is warped as hell and if you spend too much time around it, you start to believe in it too. I found myself falling into that and had to hit abort.
With that said, I had some of the most fun/crazy nights when I was dealing with strippers/pornstars. Man, the situations I found myself in just because I got up at 1 am because homegirl needed a ride from the club were crazy good. I recommend everyone get a dose of that life and then gtfo. At those times, you learn that sometimes fantasies can come true.
I still talk to one of them. She is long since "retired" from that lifestyle, but that stripper logic is still there. So our communication is strictly texts. Gotta keep that at a distance.