Kid Kamikaze10
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I don't mean to pervade, but I just wanted to say that for me personally, it was exactly this. When I was confronted with the idea of privilege I felt it diminished my accomplishments. Like somehow my hard work was invalidated by my skin. I consider myself a hard worker so it felt like a slap to the face, and paired with my naivety and immaturity it made me defensive. I outgrew that for the most part. Though I won't deny there's still that urge to get defensive if I'm told I said something racially insensitive. But I at least try to make my initial response an attempt to understand where that came from, and try to correct it. I obviously can't speak for all white people though just confirming this sentence hit the nail on the head for me, so presumably some others feel the same way.
This is really cool to hear.
And this feeling isn't exactly foreign to black people either. Namely black men who realize that despite the many disadvantages we have, we still carry some privileges for being men.
And you know, straight privilege.