He straight.
Though it's odd that people always forget that Star Wars, Marvel, and Pixar are all Disney movies too.
Nope, not to me. The only Disney I know is the one from the 90s and early 2000s.
Anyways, I wanted to talk to some of you about interracial dating.
Back in the Midwest, I had no problems meeting and hitting it off with black girls. Some of them were strange, to say the least, and some were just drama queens, but I still got along with them well.
Now that I'm back in California, I feel like the black (college age) girls here feel like they're too good to date a black guy. I've come across the "I only date white guys." type of girl so many times out here. I don't know what I expected, but I know it wasn't along the lines of this. I think it has something to do with success and social status from being able to go to college and live in the Bay Area.
Anyways, black girls here (black people in general.) are a rarity in the Bay Area considering how washed out the demographics have been getting the past few years (especially since my parents moved to Missouri.). I tried online dating and I've had no success. The black girls that I approached via that form of communication just brushed me off or were looking for some kind of sugar daddy. That said, I basically deleted all of those online dating sites/apps from my phone.
As I've mentioned, black girls super rare here, and honestly, it's not comforting knowing that I can go a whole day not seeing a black person. Due to the cramped demographics, I've been somewhat pushed into talking to the majority, which is Spanish and white. (Asian girls don't give the fucking light of day.) I honestly feel bad that I can't find a girl of my own skin color out here.
The thing I absolutely hate about interracial dating is the fact that some people are sensitive to the discussion of race, but don't mind dating a black person. Like now, I'm talking to this girl who is German American. We talk a-lot (mentioned her in Dating-Age quite a few times.) and out of all of the discussions that we've had, we haven't even talked the slightest bit about race.
I hate dancing around racial discussion. A place the the SF Bay Area is considered to be progressive, but these mother fuckers get so uncomfortable when discussing race. In addition, when it comes to dating, the girls get so fucking flaky when they realize that a black guy is interested in them or that they have feelings for a black guy. I've seen and experienced it so much.
My brother and I had a discussion over winter break about interracial dating and dating and general. He said: "I just stay away from the ones that don't date black guys." He mentions that he can tell by the way that some girls act if they don't like black guys.
Man, this is turning into a rant, but fuck. I feel like a fucking token. These kids look at me like I'm a joke, but when I open my mouth, I don't say loaded bullshit. They get defensive when I say something precise and to the point. They feel like they're put on the spot. (In multiple instances, I wanted to punch this Asian guy in the throat for telling me that "I defy my stereotype.)
Yeah, being black in the Bay Area is interesting.
Do any of you have any experience with interracial dating or having to deal with 'social elite' black girls? I really want to hear your opinions and experiences with their friends and family possibly.
I just want an idea.
(Sorry if this comes off pretty strong off for my first couple of posts in this thread, I'm just wondering.)