Ok, the bolded part is a very interesting argument that runs parallel to the Nigger/Nigga debate. I've thought about that, and it does have some merit given huge cultural events such as the Bronner Brothers annual Hair Shows which gives credence to the positives and expressions Ishiibear was saying.
LOL You might have actually changed my mind on it now.
That's all I could ask for really. I was actually in the midst of comparing the subject to women and wearing make up but I'm glad you understand it now. It's all about freedom of expression and that has a positive effect on black women (well all women). It's liberating and fun too.