Ta-Nehisi Coates got white folks mad with this speech at INBOUND16
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9MPbVUJIQHM
that part about patriotism a la carte was good
nobody wants to take ownership of the evil that was perpetrated by America in the past, because it wasn't them so what do they have to do with it, but everybody wants to celebrate the good things as if they were part of it