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The Black Culture Thread |OT4| Learn to love the BBC
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doesn't Reigun got that prep school money. Their might be hope.
Edit: maybe being from bmore cancels that out
GotEmRunnin
Member
Wife just text me. She wants to go out to dinner tonight to "talk".....Got my pimp hand ready BCT......Channeling my inner DY to layeth the smack down if need be.
MorisUkunRasik
Member
I can't stand that feeling of not knowing what will be discussed cause my brain is broken. I would call my gf the second I got the text and demand to know what she's talking about.
I honestly got anxious just reading your posts.
I honestly got anxious just reading your posts.
She's pregnant
Enjoy the babby
Looking at the Kayne thread... On day he is going to fuck with wrong pap and get shived
This
I hate this too. If it's important enough that we need to set aside time to meet up and talk about it, it's important enough that you shouldn't leave me hanging.
ViewtifulJC
Banned
She Seeing somebody Else
A woman somebody else
A woman somebody else
TheKaeptain
Banned
Kids are fun.
GotEmRunnin
Member
Glad you boys are optimistic but she's not pregnant. Can't have kids anymore. Her tubes are tied and I'm shooting blanks. two kids was it for me, and she had kid when we met so 3 total for her.
I think she has a issue with me. We haven't been on the same level lately. For the past 3 months at least
In 15 years together she has never locked her phone, now she does.
She works long hours, not long enough for me to be suspicious but she strolls in the house at least a hour after me.
All of this could be my paranoia. I've offered for us to go on couples trips she declines. It's just a lot of shit going on where I feel like she's trying to avoid spending time with me. We'll see what this conversation is about tonight though.
@Immort4l; first thing that popped in my mind bro. Plus she wants to go to Olive Garden on the "good" side of town.
I think she has a issue with me. We haven't been on the same level lately. For the past 3 months at least
In 15 years together she has never locked her phone, now she does.
She works long hours, not long enough for me to be suspicious but she strolls in the house at least a hour after me.
All of this could be my paranoia. I've offered for us to go on couples trips she declines. It's just a lot of shit going on where I feel like she's trying to avoid spending time with me. We'll see what this conversation is about tonight though.
@Immort4l; first thing that popped in my mind bro. Plus she wants to go to Olive Garden on the "good" side of town.
This.
MorisUkunRasik
Member
Oh, it actually is serious. Gotem, are you prepared for some shit emotionally? I'd hate to get some serious life altering news like that in a public place.
GotEmRunnin
Member
Honestly bro I probably would flip if it was something I had did to cause it, but man 15 years, two wonderful kids and a stepson who albeit had problems turned out a damn good person thanks to some of my advice. I'm cool. On top of that I tried to talk to her. Tried to get the counseling stuff going on through my job.
I'll be 34 this month. I beat high blood pressure, currently beating diabetes. I'll beat this too. (if it's anything)
Besides I have no criminal record and I have a 6 figure income. I'll snatch up the first Becky I can find in Raleigh and show up at her family reunion with the chick just because I got nothing better to do.
By the way she's older than me. She 38 so this could be her going through a mid life crisis. Either way I'm comfortable enough with me to where I'll be straight regardless of how the convo turns out.
Damn. Good luck
Byakuya769
Member
Hope the side piece made you see stars, bruh.
Edit - (Actually reads rest of the thread... And like that, I'm an ass.)
You sound like you're in a good place. Just hear her out and reflect on what's being said before emotions take over.
Well you got plan bro.
Chill and dont think of the worst. For all you know she could really just want a vacation..... Hell you could be the luckiest person in black gad you could have won the lotto
Tell her she anit getting support either. Shes in the wrong.
Im taking the cars the kid the house and the dog. I want it all
Nothing unusual about that.
You here that satch slay will put coco butter on to get with you
ViewtifulJC
Banned
People always ask me, "Hey JC, what's up with black people and cocoa butter", and I'm like, "Yo, this shit work, man. Now why do black people like menthols? Who knows"
Best question ever
You'd consider most of the outspoken athiests on gaf high end radical militant atheists?
SousedLouse
Member
I can't put SMT IV down. I thought I'd be done with it in a few days because the retail version came with a freakin' guide, but being able to pick your demon's skills after fusion is a gamechanger. Now I know what all those Persona fans were on about with Golden.
Bay Maximus
Banned
Damn Runnin',
At least whatever the issue is will likely be brought out in the open. The only way to get over something is to confront it head on. Seems like she's been ducking it for awhile now. Good luck man.
Worst Case Scenario: Pull an Al Sharpton.
For the same reason white people drink Natty Ice. When you don't have money but need to get drunk, something's gotta give.
At least whatever the issue is will likely be brought out in the open. The only way to get over something is to confront it head on. Seems like she's been ducking it for awhile now. Good luck man.
Worst Case Scenario: Pull an Al Sharpton.
Slayven said:
For the same reason white people drink Natty Ice. When you don't have money but need to get drunk, something's gotta give.
Vermillion
Banned
That's why people drink Keystone. Isn't Natty Ice a bit more expensive (also, Keystone and Natty Light are garbage, though I've built up a tolerance for the latter)?
Bay Maximus
Banned
It might be. I just know that when I was in the military, my friends would show up with boxes and boxes of Natty every weekend to play some beer pong. Your tax dollars at work.
The Faceless Master
Member
i dunno, does it really go much higher than that? not too many atheists on that next level shit that's on the level of passing anti-abortion laws or blowing up clinics and killing doctors...
Once saw a dude buying 4 cases of natty ice on a Wednesday morning, and one bunch of bananas.
Gotta eat healthy and get that daily serving of fruit.
one for every day and rest on the lords day.
They started pushing Cyborg
Keystone is dat college town beer. Bottom tier shit.
GotEmRunnin
Member
Soooo......
She's not cheating, but some nigga in accounting at her job has been trying to holla. The dinner was to put it out in the open and apologize. She hasn't accepted his advances but she locked her phone so yeah there's that. She flirting with him. I'm no fool.
I ask her what she wanted from me and if she wanted the marriage to work. Her response was she wanted the marriage to work. Then I proceeded to ask her if she wanted the marriage to work because she loves me or because she can't stomach the idea of me moving on with some other woman with the man she's helped create (Since she's been there since I graduated from college) Got silence bro. LOL!!!!
I told her we need to continue this conversation later if she seriously wants this marriage to work and she needs to be quick about it. We have two kids in the middle of this and a 3rd coming home from basic training in less than 2 weeks that we need to help get established. Then she really felt like crap when she realized what I was getting at. The fact that I've been there for her just as much as she's been there for me. Who got her son a car? I did. Who helped the kid get his first job? I did. Who helped the kid overcome bad grades and a abusive father and get his high school diploma? I did.
But hey if you want to throw all that away for a guy who's offering you a trip to the Bahamas and shit on the guy who got your credit score from 512 to 787. The guy who has 15k set aside and counting for the house that you want in Wake Forest. More power to you.
Then I told her as much she plays with the guy in accounting I have double the ratchet ass hoes in Durham waiting for a nigga like me to save them and take her spot. Dead silence on ride back home with the exception of the occasional sob from the passenger seat.
DY mode powering down....
She's not cheating, but some nigga in accounting at her job has been trying to holla. The dinner was to put it out in the open and apologize. She hasn't accepted his advances but she locked her phone so yeah there's that. She flirting with him. I'm no fool.
I ask her what she wanted from me and if she wanted the marriage to work. Her response was she wanted the marriage to work. Then I proceeded to ask her if she wanted the marriage to work because she loves me or because she can't stomach the idea of me moving on with some other woman with the man she's helped create (Since she's been there since I graduated from college) Got silence bro. LOL!!!!
I told her we need to continue this conversation later if she seriously wants this marriage to work and she needs to be quick about it. We have two kids in the middle of this and a 3rd coming home from basic training in less than 2 weeks that we need to help get established. Then she really felt like crap when she realized what I was getting at. The fact that I've been there for her just as much as she's been there for me. Who got her son a car? I did. Who helped the kid get his first job? I did. Who helped the kid overcome bad grades and a abusive father and get his high school diploma? I did.
But hey if you want to throw all that away for a guy who's offering you a trip to the Bahamas and shit on the guy who got your credit score from 512 to 787. The guy who has 15k set aside and counting for the house that you want in Wake Forest. More power to you.
Then I told her as much she plays with the guy in accounting I have double the ratchet ass hoes in Durham waiting for a nigga like me to save them and take her spot. Dead silence on ride back home with the exception of the occasional sob from the passenger seat.
DY mode powering down....
GoTemrun you're a good man. I hope things work out for ya'.
Devolution
Member
GotEm bout to get hit with that d-word.
All jokes aside I hope it's honestly not that =(.
All jokes aside I hope it's honestly not that =(.
Dy would have said "bye".
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