Since we're talking about "blackness", are there any dark-skinned folks around? I can't count the numerous times I've been asked what country I'm from despite not giving any indications, I have no accent, etc. It's not that I have a problem with people asking where I was born, as that's a pretty normal question for anyone, it's just the assumptions people make. One of my friends Mom actually asked the first time we met immediately, "So what island are you from?" I replied, "Alabama Island". The confusion was grand lol. Another friend's uncle asked me, "So how are things in the old country?" Me: Wha? Him: Ya know, with your tribe, etc. Me: Uhh, my annoying cousins are still annoying in Birmingham. Fun times.