Big Baybee said:
So i just watched the video of the judge whooping his daughter, and honestly, it doesn't move me one way or another. Maybe is seems worse because he was whooping a girl? Most of you guys got it growing up? I will not spank my kids, but I don't look down on people who do unless its flat out beatings/abuse. Thoughts?
Lol, I know its wrong but the whole time I was watching the video, I was cracking up. When he goes back in and then says, "I didn't get enough" that's when I think he went over the line between corporal punishment and abuse. As a connoisseur of beatings as a kid, I thought the girl did make some rookie mistakes with her beating, first off, don't fight or speak back, it prolongs the beating. Watching others squealing and squirming while being beat and prolonging the punishment at school and at home quickly taught you that when its your turn, you take it and you keep quiet. Second, do whatever the man with the belt is saying, less likely to keep on going if he thinks he has won.
In no way do I condone what the judge did, but if by 16, she had not figured her dad out, then I just don't know
As a kid at home, it was an arms race when it came to spanking. My dad on one side and me and my little brother on the other. We would get up to all sorts of stupid shit, then he would come at us, first with wooden spoons, we soon laughed that off, then belts, laughed off too, rattan canes (actual industry in Accra, any not used for canes go into making chairs, tables and other stuff) came along, took a while, but it didn't have an impact. So then he came up with this
and other variants of it. Needless to say, I stopped that shit quickly. After 30 minutes, I was ready to swear off acting dumb, or well, at least getting caught.
School was a whole different beast, teachers had reps and legends had been passed down from the older kids, so we always knew who not to cross or whose class we could go to.
So yeah, I got it beat growing up, and I hated my dad until I grew up and realized it was out of love, i won't be above a spanking or two when I have kids, but I will not resort to what I got as a kid to be an example.
That said, anyone who did what the judge did and came back because he didn't get enough has issues and that I can't condone.