but like
who says that though?
I'm sure if I said that I married a black woman to have dark babies, no one would care.
Why the double standard?
but like
who says that though?
People that not so secretly hate the face that stares back at them in the mirror.
It's actually kinda sad.
People say it all the time.
They just use code words.
LoL! That's a pretty broad brush you're painting with. There's nothing wrong with wanting your daughter to get the more "attractive" features of her mother.
Haiti-GAF:
Prepare your bodies.
They had me at beef and potatoes
The features are more "attractive" because they are white features?? SMH the self hate is so strong within this one. I don't even know how you look in the mirror each day.
Because you are completely denying a part of yourself. You don't see that as negative? And so they won't have black girl problems? Jesus man. If a white dude was saying the same thing, I would have a problem with it.Well since I'm biracial, I block out half the mirror so that only the right side looks back at me. ;-)
Again, if I were boasting about the Afro-centric features of a black woman, I don't think there would be a problem here.
Well since I'm biracial, I block out half the mirror so that only the right side looks back at me. ;-)
Again, if I were boasting about the Afro-centric features of a black woman, I don't think there would be a problem here.
SO!
I'd like to share I had one of those moments! As you guys may or may not be aware I work at a videogame store.
It was 12/26 aka the busiest day of retail as it's return day! & unfortunately my birthday as well. side note: turned 26, got Rayman Origins (this game is quite ballin'), & went drinking at Ale House the night following. : )
Haitian lady I'm familiar with as she sometimes shops there is trying to return an opened PS3. Claiming she wants her money back. No. Can't return new stuff opened blah blah, if it was too expensive why did you buy it I ask myself. I see the guy I'm working trying to return it. As his supervisor, I tell me no you can't. Then she proceeds to flip out at me & say I lied at store policy.
Mind you it's posted in front of all registers and printed behind all receipts in plain English. Oh you didn't tell me. Folks I do, always at my job; in English, Creole, & what little Spanish I know. So she's making a scene in front of the store. I'm calmly letting her know that she's not getting her way. She's then using choice words with me in Creole(see swearing) As she storms off she makes a derogatory homosexual comment aimed at me. No one understood her craziness aside from myself and a few other Haitian shoppers. Classy!
Because you are completely denying a part of yourself. You don't see that as negative? And so they won't have black girl problems? Jesus man. If a white dude was saying the same thing, I would have a problem with it.
I hope your daughter comes out looking blacker than Flava Flav! LOL You never know how those genes will play out!
Never work in retail. I had plenty of stories from working in century 21 in nyc. I can't do that ever again.
They had me at beef and potatoes
Also, I came across this in a random search. I don't even know what to say lol
no man or child either.I wish there really was a Racial Draft so we could trade fools like you.
I'm far from a white knight but it doesn't matter what she said or did. NO WOMAN desires to get her face beat in like Rihanna did.
as long as she ain't ugly on the inside like you, i'm all for it.LoL! That's a pretty broad brush you're painting with. There's nothing wrong with wanting your daughter to get the more "attractive" features of her mother.
Where am I denying part of myself? I never said I wasn't black, or of black ancestry. I'm just saying that I'd prefer that my daughter look more European than African, for her own good.
he should have gotten a sperm donor... like that dude who was giving it away for free.Oh man.
"Why couldn't both my parents be White? Then my daughter would be 100% correct!"
You gotta love angry Haitian women, that's all I can say. :lolSO!
I'd like to share I had one of those moments! As you guys may or may not be aware I work at a videogame store.
It was 12/26 aka the busiest day of retail as it's return day! & unfortunately my birthday as well. side note: turned 26, got Rayman Origins (this game is quite ballin'), & went drinking at Ale House the night following. : )
Haitian lady I'm familiar with as she sometimes shops there is trying to return an opened PS3. Claiming she wants her money back. No. Can't return new stuff opened blah blah, if it was too expensive why did you buy it I ask myself. I see the guy I'm working trying to return it. As his supervisor, I tell me no you can't. Then she proceeds to flip out at me & say I lied at store policy.
Mind you it's posted in front of all registers and printed behind all receipts in plain English. Oh you didn't tell me. Folks I do, always at my job; in English, Creole, & what little Spanish I know. So she's making a scene in front of the store. I'm calmly letting her know that she's not getting her way. She's then using choice words with me in Creole(see swearing) As she storms off she makes a derogatory homosexual comment aimed at me. No one understood her craziness aside from myself and a few other Haitian shoppers. Classy!
My issue with your kind of thinking is that if your kids inherit some of your black features and look more like you than their mom, you might covertly despite them which will negatively affect their lives.Where am I denying part of myself? I never said I wasn't black, or of black ancestry. I'm just saying that I'd prefer that my daughter look more European than African, for her own good.
Of course you do. "Misery" loves company right?
Then why not be like MJ and pay for some white sperm so she could be pure blood? I don't think you really thought all of this through.Where am I denying part of myself? I never said I wasn't black, or of black ancestry. I'm just saying that I'd prefer that my daughter look more European than African, for her own good.
I fault both of them when that situation first came out. Obviously riri did something for cbreezy to go off the handle and go ham on her face.
I bet we know which side of Measley's family is always "embarassing" him...
"Gaah...why do you all have to always be...so...Black?"
I think his story is already sad. Without the ridicule.
Never work in retail. I had plenty of stories from working in century 21 in nyc. I can't do that ever again.
Also, I came across this in a random search. I don't even know what to say lol
He gets ridiculed so much because he's always trolling.
My friend works at GameStop and that is all the convincing I need to stay far the hell away from retail.
Where am I denying part of myself? I never said I wasn't black, or of black ancestry. I'm just saying that I'd prefer that my daughter look more European than African, for her own good.
Of course you do. "Misery" loves company right?
I'll just PM a mod, no reason for him to be posting in the Black Culture thread if his only focus is on how white he or his off spring can be. He's adding nothing to discussion but trolling and shitting up the thread with his self-hate. It's more sad than anything.Than I think its the equivalent of "don't feed the troll". If he's doing this all the time, don't address him. If he actually means what he says, than its sad and should be addressed without ridicule, but in any case we shouldn't let that muck up what's generally a lively topic.
Exactly.
Focusing on a "black" or "european" heritage is sad racial-focused thinking that will benefit no one.
Where am I denying part of myself? I never said I wasn't black, or of black ancestry. I'm just saying that I'd prefer that my daughter look more European than African, for her own good.
Never work in retail. I had plenty of stories from working in century 21 in nyc. I can't do that ever again.
Then why not be like MJ and pay for some white sperm so she could be pure blood? I don't think you really thought all of this through.
I think everyone should work retail or customer service for one year.
My issue with your kind of thinking is that if your kids inherit some of your black features and look more like you than their mom, you might covertly despite them which will negatively affect their lives.
I have no issue with how I look or my appearance. I rather enjoy being biracial and I would have little problem if my daughter or son looked as mixed as I do.
But what if she just looked black?
World would be a better place with much less jerks in it.
I have no issue with how I look or my appearance. I rather enjoy being biracial and I would have little problem if my daughter or son looked as mixed as I do.
I have no issue with how I look or my appearance. I rather enjoy being biracial and I would have little problem if my daughter or son looked as mixed as I do.
Then why not be like MJ and pay for some white sperm so she could be pure blood? I don't think you really thought all of this through.
I have no desire for my children to be white. I'd simply prefer them to favor a european phenotype over an african one.
This statement makes zero sense.