I like Kirk better too, but you listed some of Picard's best character moments and said they were crap.
Yeah, I dunno. I think his best character moments are when he wrestles with his adherence to the prime directive, or when he defends Data's sentience in court.
Also, he is fucking AWESOME in Booby Trap. That's quintessential "Awesome Picard". (also,
Booby Trap has the best soundtrack in TNG history) I think episodes like Power Play, Booby trap, and of course Best of Both Worlds, highlight what I like about Picard. Those are episodes that put his ability as a diplomat and a captain at the forefront, rather than his personal feelings, and when his personal feelings do become a main focus (like in Best of Both Worlds), he's left a bit fragile, and you see some real humanity seep through. Sometimes I think he's too uptight. Sometimes I love him. I kinda go back and forth about it.
I think the issue is that while I always agree with his decisions, I don't always agree with the way he converses with his crew. I 100% always agree with how Kirk deals with his crew. (Maybe I think Picard is TOO professional? Kirk doesn't give no shits)
Also, this evening I was watching that TOS episode "Mirror, Mirror". I assume this is the episode that spawned the cliche that one's evil twin would have a beard? I loved the concept that civilized men can pretend to be barbarians, but barbarians have no hope of pretending to be civilized men. It seems like a throwaway line by Spock, but it does a great job of quickly saying "Look how far we've all come from being fucking cavemen". That sash everyone got in the Empire is mad swag. They should have worn golden sashes on TOS all the time.
I mean, look at this:
That sash is pimp as hell!
(also, I'm so glad they got rid of those god awful turtle necks after Season 1. Those looked awful in comparison to their regular wear in 2 and 3, and everyone on the set must have been sweating their balls off in those things)