Yeah. English born. Don't feel like I belong here anymore though.
Yeah. 2/3 years is a long time to get some headway. I'm also lucky that I'm in a decent paying job, at least for now. I just got to work and save and do as much as I can to increase my skillset. Doesn't change how shit this all feels atm though.
Ill say this, what motivated my brother was watching his friend die on a sports field while they were both playing, the mental shift was unbelievable, he knew he had to change or it was just going to be how it was the week before and the week before that and maybe he, like his friend, would get unlucky one day and run out of time before he even tried.
This could be a whole lot worse, we could be leaving in 4 months and then options would be severely limited in regards to emigration, but 2 years, I honestly believe the vast majority of people could work there way around it in 2 years and very very motivated people can do it in less.