If GAF will permit me a rant...
High-class places, who have an explicit dress code, won't refuse people who show up in shitty, ratted-out jeans and tees. This is the Toronto we live in. Actually, it's not just Toronto.
People show up to opera and theatre in crappy tees and torn jeans, they go to places like Harbour 60 and Sotto Sotto - which have expected dress codes - in worn-out running shoes, and wear dresses that reveal their wiggly bits to weddings.
I'm a snobby Torontonian: I don't do any of those things, and, admittedly, my initial thoughts on those who do aren't kind. But ultimately, people dress how they will dress and there's not a damn thing I can do about it. And neither, apparently, can proprietors of classy establishments.
I don't wear a suit to Jays' games, and I don't wear an evening gown to dine at McDonalds. Apparently, however, it's too much to ask for others to consider the venue.