Vice: I Asked Cucks Why They’re Obsessed With Watching Their Partners Cheat

DeepEnigma

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"I want my wife to sleep with randoms, but it's breaking her heart."

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My worst nightmare is the thought of my partner sleeping with another man. Jealousy is my weakness, and it easily consumes me. But there are people out there, cuckolds, who are aroused by these thoughts. They want other men to pleasure their wives in front of them. And while it seems like a nightmare to me, I guess horror to some is pleasure for others.

A "cuckold" is a man, in a relationship, who derives intense sexual gratificationfrom either watching or knowing that his partner is having sex with other people. According to Dr David Dey, psychologist and author of Insatiable Wives, up to 20 percent of men in the United States fantasise about "cheating wives." And neuroscientists, Ogi Ogas and Sai Gaddam, have discovered, in their book A Billion Wicked Thoughts, that cuckold porn was the second most searched topic, after youth, by heterosexuals on English language search engines.

I travelled to a sex addiction meeting to interview three men for whom cuckolding became a problem. I found the guys loitering around a rubbish bin outside a council hall. One of them had a lighter that flashed LED lights every time he lit up, another kept poking his finger into his coffee cup, and the last kept running his hand through his stiff gelled quiff. All three were all dressed in their Sunday best.

Inside, I interviewed them on hard plastic chairs to try and understand the roots of a sexual drive that seemed just so foreign.

Bang my non-existent wife if old.

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People have weird sex fetishes it is what it is. Personally I think its more damaging to most people because all though they think its a fantasy once the reality sets in it probably has greater consequences. This isn't those porno movies where you yell cut and thats it, the ramifications of what happened remain and don't just go away.

But if thats what they want and they are prepared to deal with the consequences then thats for them. As long as no one is forced into anything and its all consensual thats their lifestyle and kink.
 
Maybe i'm weird, but I don't even like watching porn where I can see another guys dick. Why would anyone would want to see another guy's dick in his wife/girlfriend.
 
Back in college I knew this black dude who said he was a vip at a club. Some of the patrons there would make him fuck their wives. Dude was in his 40s and single so I believed him. He had no reason to bullshit to a bunch of (at the time) teenage guys like me.
 
Maybe i'm weird, but I don't even like watching porn where I can see another guys dick. Why would anyone would want to see another guy's dick in his wife/girlfriend.

I don't have the fetish but I think its a power/domination thing. Its the same reason why some dudes get off on small penis humiliation. I mean most dudes would think getting told you have a small dick would be hurtful and make you cry in your pillow but for some guys it turns em on.

They get off on the idea of being so weak that someone can just take their wife from them and bang their wife. I guess also there is some twisted racism in there (since a lot of cuck stuff seems to involve black dudes).

But ya its a very strange fetish. I don't see how this type of thing would lead to a healthy relationship and to me its probably one of those things where the fantasy is better than the reality. Once the sex is done you have to deal with the fact that you watched your partner have sex with someone else and that isn't going to be good for both parties.
 
I can understand swinging, partner swapping or open relationships but a thing where only one person gets to sleep with others seems weird to me, add in the humiliation aspect of it and I just don't get it.

I mean whatever floats your boat but it just seems unfair (even thought the guys get off on it) I wonder how many of these relationships would survive if it was just the guy who wanted to sleep with other women.
 
I can understand swinging, partner swapping or open relationships but a thing where only one person gets to sleep with others seems weird to me, add in the humiliation aspect of it and I just don't get it.

I mean whatever floats your boat but it just seems unfair (even thought the guys get off on it) I wonder how many of these relationships would survive if it was just the guy who wanted to sleep with other women.

I like how the tone of the article starts off with the woman being the victim essentially shaping that narrative early on (which is not to say that does not happen), but more often than not when you hear about these stories it is usually the women coercing the men into it, and you almost never hear of it the other way around.
 
It's sad, I guess everybody's situation is different but I could see a 400 pound guy who loves his wife let her be with someone as long as he could watch. I mean at 400 you can't really fuck.
 
I can understand fantasizing about cheating wives... but not in the context of getting cheated on by your wife. I really hope that's included in that 20%

It's just another fetish I don't understand and can't relate to whatsoever. I'm also saddened that this is apparently the second most popular type of porn out there, though I imagine a decent amount of those searches come from curious people who have to see it to believe it.
 
I can understand fantasizing about cheating wives... but not in the context of getting cheated on by your wife. I really hope that's included in that 20%

It's just another fetish I don't understand and can't relate to whatsoever. I'm also saddened that this is apparently the second most popular type of porn out there, though I imagine a decent amount of those searches come from curious people who have to see it to believe it.
It's not cheating if everyone in the party is consenting. It is adultry and that's a different debate on the morals of that. Honestly, I see nothing wrong with this, it's really the couple's decision.
 
I don't have the fetish but I think its a power/domination thing. Its the same reason why some dudes get off on small penis humiliation. I mean most dudes would think getting told you have a small dick would be hurtful and make you cry in your pillow but for some guys it turns em on.

Yeah, it is definitely a weird way of wanting to be a sub as a guy. Who am I to judge though, cause at the same time I'd have no problem fucking some guys wife in front of him. I get off on being dom :p
 
I don't really care about the fetish in itself, but the people who have it tend to act like it's some sort of "intellectual fetish", and the media laps it up.

It's sort of like how the gaming media constantly whines about "toxic gamers" when it comes to swimsuit fanservice and that sort of thing, but gives these glowing highlights to one of the most demonstrably toxic sub-groups in gaming (shippers, in particular yaoi shippers/fujoshi), such as:

*note: massive spoilers for Persona 5, as noted in article*

https://kotaku.com/persona-5-fans-are-freaking-out-about-akechi-dancing-1826107311

This is somehow worthy of implicit praise, but how dare you look at boobs in a bikini!
 
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I can't claim to understand it, but if everyone involved is cool with it, it's whatever. Live and let live.

I do wonder how many people involved in it are actually cool with it though. I would never date a woman who wanted me to watch her get fucked by some other dood, but I bet there's guys out there that are doing that while secretly hating every second of it, and I bet there's women who are taking stranger dick to please their "cuck" husbands while hating that shit too.
 
I don't get the fetish aspect of it, I could understand being forgiving, giving your partner some leeway if they wind up sleeping with someone else, so long as it was just sex, not falling in love with someone else, an isolated incident, maybe you were drunk, maybe things got out of control, if you and your partner still love each other it might be worth it to forgive.

Of course I would also expect my partner to give me the same leeway, I don't get guys who want their partner to cheat on them but they can't cheat in turn and they get so turned on by being cuckolded, it's bizarre.


How nice of Vice to finally acknowledge and write about their target audience.

Remember when Vice was actually cool? That sure nosedived fast.
 
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I would never let my partner fuck another guy but i do enjoy cuck porn. I would never want to be the cuck but to bang someone elses wife while some loser sulks in the corner would be awesome.
 
This is what a life time of watching porn does to you. You get sexual pleasure from watching some other dude bang a girl.
 
I think that is just wrong. As the banger I would have serious moral problems with it and as the spectator too.

But yeah.. whatever. As long as people are fine with it, do whatever pleases you.

Not sure how to tell this to your wife if you're not already into swingers and Shit like that.
 
Never understood the obsession some people have with other peoples sex lives or trying to shame people for their sexual choices. As long as it's legal and everyone involved is a consenting adult I see no reason to care about what people do in the privacy of their own home or elsewhere.
 
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Because Japanese are most woke among us and they developed whole thing years ago. They can't beat to straight sex anymore they went over rape, tentacles, shitting on each other and finally came up with their greatest fetish, cuckold.

We need to nuke Japan really quick before they will come up with something new again.
 
Because Japanese are most woke among us and they developed whole thing years ago. They can't beat to straight sex anymore they went over rape, tentacles, shitting on each other and finally came up with their greatest fetish, cuckold.

We need to nuke Japan really quick before they will come up with something new again.

That was already tried. Maybe the nuke is what lead them to coming up with all that stuff.
 
I only ever watched the Vice guide to North Korea. I thought it was not bad. Since then, I have only heard weird things coming from Vice. What the hell happened?
 
Yeah, no. I'm very jealous and extremely antagonistic to other males. I can't even imagine myself allowing this.

Then again, i don't feel the same way with other females. I wouldn't mind sharing my GF with another girl.
 
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Yeah no thank you. I won't tell anyone not to do it, but in my eyes those dudes have a problem, not a fetish. But that's maybe because i'm too much of a dom and a thought of anyone banging my wife with me just wanking or watching just makes me cringe.

Then again...
Then again, i don't feel the same way with other females. I wouldn't mind sharing my GF with another girl.
 
Never understood the obsession some people have with other peoples sex lives or trying to shame people for their sexual choices. As long as it's legal and everyone involved is a consenting adult I see no reason to care about what people do in the privacy of their own home or elsewhere.

Omg you're so BORING.
 
I wonder how many women fantasize about watching their man fuck another woman?

Probably some women like the idea of a menage a trois, ever seen the 1982 movie Summer Lovers?

But I can't imagine there's a single women who gets turned on at the idea of her partner fucking another woman and she gets nothing in return or at least it's probably very, very rare.

Sadly I don't, maybe it sucked less than it does today but then again it would be impossible to be worse.

It used to be WAY better, it was a pretty cool website for a while.

I first discovered them in 2007 when they had Shintaro Kago draw the cover for the magazine, an image that is still cutting edge cool over a decade later, but they're SJW trash now same as almost every other website today.

I only ever watched the Vice guide to North Korea. I thought it was not bad. Since then, I have only heard weird things coming from Vice. What the hell happened?

2014 happened, seriously, almost every single website nosedived that year due to the changing culture but also especially Gamergate, Cracked is another example of a site that nosedived that year.

It really makes you wonder if there really is an Illuminati or something that controls all of the media because they all started pushing the exact same narratives and attitudes even though they're not all owned by the same company.
 
Never understood the obsession some people have with other peoples sex lives or trying to shame people for their sexual choices. As long as it's legal and everyone involved is a consenting adult I see no reason to care about what people do in the privacy of their own home or elsewhere.

Well, there ARE sex fetishes that are deserving of some ridicule. Don't tell me you don't laugh at least a little about this guy : https://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/2001236/The-man-who-has-sex-with-cars.html ?
 
Wow, the Vice article, let me put it this way, not very good. He doesn't even have a proper conclusion, just ends it after he interviews the last guy.

They do include links to more serious articles.

https://www.psychologytoday.com/au/...et-male-sexual-fantasy-is-surprisingly-common

One explanation which is sorta in tune with what Greedings said about pornified culture.

Ley hypothesizes that men currently live in a "pornified culture," so that their sexual appetites can hardly help but be influenced by the lustful "realities" they encounter on the Web. As a result of repeated exposure to the seductive exaggerations of Internet sex, why wouldn't their erotic fantasies begin to include images of their wife's being ecstatically "done" by some powerful, oversexed stud (with whom they conveniently identify!)?
It only makes (erotic) sense that if we're now subject to a porn-centric culture, many men—especially young men, whose sex drive is so intense that they have difficulty distinguishing between real love and ravenous lust—would be exceptionally turned on by fantasizing their partner as an enticingly provocative porn star, unrestrainedly exhibiting the wildest excitement in expressing her rawest, most provocative sexuality. And with a super-stud aggressively thrusting his oversized penis into whatever orifice she has to offer him.
After all, what would be so abnormal about a man's being markedly turned on by picturing his partner as really, really hot and being feverishly lusted after by other virile males (possibly even more virile than himself)? Unquestionably, there's a great deal of ego involvement here. For the idea of sharing his highly desirable, "temptress" wife (often made much more alluring through his imaginings than might actually be the case) enables him to puff up with pride that, finally, he's the one that retains ultimate "ownership" of her. Chauvinistic as it may be, what could possibly boost a man's testosterone level and excitement more than indulging in such a narcissistically exhilarating fantasy?
 
ugh whenever someones like lifestyle or whatever comes up everyone always starts their opinion with a "as long as they dont hurt anyone!" . i mean the whole cuck thing is making themselves feel like shit right haha

anyways my personal opinion on it is its fucking hilarious. i think its like comically pathetic
 
This is an interesting question, and I'd wager it's near 0.

Most women are subs, they want to be in that position- cause i'd argue subs hold all the power. I don't think it is 0 though. I am sure there are dom women who get off on the idea of humiliating a guy through cuckoldry - and what is more humiliating for a man to see his woman being taken by another man? Not one I'd date, but I respect it. The thing is, not many dom guys would want to humiliate their sub like that. Dom men are very dedicated to their sub. Her pleasure is all they care about. It is symbiotic.

But maybe you are right, no sub woman wants to see her man fucking another woman.
 
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what i've learned from this thread is that submissive women are winners
Well they kinda are, because a dominating man that has... Peculiar fetishes and fantasies (not cucking) has to really, really take good care of their woman, outside of their sex life, to enjoy his fetishes whenever he wants.
 
They get off on the idea of being so weak that someone can just take their wife from them and bang their wife. I guess also there is some twisted racism in there (since a lot of cuck stuff seems to involve black dudes).
I don't think it's this at all, I think it's that they see their wives as general purpose sex objects, and seeing someone else "use" the object just drives this home
 
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