Vincent Alexander
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Obviously. Which is why this thread is still going on . . .And I would say you're obviously wrong.
Obviously. Which is why this thread is still going on . . .And I would say you're obviously wrong.
You don't even attempt to take in account natural instinct, which is to retaliate especially depending on someone's background and whatnot.
But it is.
Flord state law define self defense as the use of force under a reasonable belief that it is necessary to defend against an imminent threat.
She raised her fist. How is that not an imminent threat?
Sincere question, could what she was doing be considered assault or battery? If so, might that not actually mitigate his legal burden?No it isn't. Provocation doesn't excuse assault.
That goes both ways.If you assault someone I don't give a fuck what mitigating circumstances there is , you better be ready to deal with those consequences for putting your hands on someone.
Plain and simple
Yes? Are you going to explain why I can't?
But it is.
Flord state law define self defense as the use of force under a reasonable belief that it is necessary to defend against an imminent threat.
She raised her fist. How is that not an imminent threat?
How is this not sexist against females? You are basically calling her a delicate flower.
He pretty clearly grabbed her before she threw that punch. He definitely started that, you don't just grab people like that. Him throwing and landing that punch basically seals the deal of it being full blown assault. No sympathy for him there.
You sure about that? He grabbed her before she threw that punch.
He grabs her after threatened. Should he have just let her hit him? And when he lets her go she immediately attacks him.
Pretty infuriating to see people talk down on others as if they're superior over cultural differences.
In my culture from a very young age you are taught to fight back if assaulted no matter the circumstances. Parents and peers both preached this. In my culture it's okay to physically discipline your child. These things are okay where I was raised, so why does someone raised in a nice neighborhood with parents who were at work all the time so never disciplines them gets the right to talk down on people who were raised and taught differently. It's such a superiority complex in these people's minds that it angers me.
I could show all my friends and strangers the GIFS in OP and they would all commend the guy for striking her. But people from a different angle of life will call him a thug, violent, and uncivilized and talk down as if they don't have cultural faults.
Exactly. The heat of the moment.
I've been suckered by someone at a club once and felt furious. Punched the guy back and it was broken up. But that feeling is almost uncontrollable when it happens to you under varying circumstances. I really wish people could take a punch and walk away but it doesn't happen every time.
I'm not saying it's correct or "proportional", but you can't expect someone to act accordingly in these situations. Clearly, this can lead to potentially horrible outcomes for everyone involved but don't expect the rational response and blame one party for not doing the "right thing".
He could move, he could attempt to continue restraining her as he was or restrain her some other way, he could push her in any number of different way, etc.
Yes? Are you going to explain why I can't?
And I would say you're obviously wrong.
Because hitting her in the face is not a reasonable or proportional response.
First an irrelevant point and then a strawman.
That goes both ways.
So let me get this straight: you're saying that if someone comes from a terrible background or is just plain stupid they should be permitted to forgo rational thought when confronted with adversity?
Sincere question, could what she was doing be considered assault or battery? If so, might that not actually mitigate his legal burden?
He grabbed her because she raised a fist, which is a threatening gesture.
The prosecution is going to have to convince a jury that this helpless lass who then wrestled free in order to successfully land her originally planned blow, was a victim of a vicious assault.
She threatening to punch him when he grabs her wrist. She literally aiming her fist at him.
Wait, people are blaming the girl???
Sad.
I like Florida State(not been a fan for a long time though) but this guy is your typical grade A scumbag.
And why did she punch him? Because he grabbed her.
I have no idea what was said or if he was being threatening there, but that argument is basically a "dehumanizing stare" type of argument.
And why did she punch him? Because he grabbed her.
I have no idea what was said or if he was being threatening there, but that argument is basically a "dehumanizing stare" type of argument.
Since he obviously got to watch and dissect a video replay of her punch before responding with his own punch, we can clearly confirm that he knowingly overreacted.Are you being intentionally obtuse or is this just how you roll? You have a basketball avatar, would it be sexist of me to say that she won't be winning a 1 on 1 against a collegiate athlete based on her airballing a free throw granny style? Because that's what we're talking about here.
I think people are saying neither party is innocent.
I don't think so. I've never known a person who was truly unfamiliar with physical violence to start immediately punching and kicking groins.
Look at her body language. She's ready to get physical the second he bumped into her.
We'll have to agree to disagree.
Since he obviously got to watch and dissect a video replay of her punch before responding with his own punch, we can clearly confirm that he knowingly overreacted.
Pretty infuriating to see people talk down on others as if they're superior over cultural differences.
In my culture from a very young age you are taught to fight back if assaulted no matter the circumstances. Parents and peers both preached this. In my culture it's okay to physically discipline your child. These things are okay where I was raised, so why does someone raised in a nice neighborhood with parents who were at work all the time so never disciplines them gets the right to talk down on people who were raised and taught differently. It's such a superiority complex in these people's minds that it angers me.
I could show all my friends and strangers the GIFS in OP and they would all commend the guy for striking her. But people from a different angle of life will call him a thug, violent, and uncivilized and talk down as if they don't have cultural faults.
She didn't know he was an athlete and he didn't know if she was drunk (assuming she even was drunk). Throw those things out and what we have left is a woman trying to prevent a guy from standing next to her, raising her arm as if to punch (for no apparent reason other than him wanting the space next to here), being restrained from throwing the punch, throwing a punch, and then him immediately retaliating. She's an asshole just like him. She escalated it and he may have overdid it, but his response was directly related to her initial actions.Because the belief isn't reasonable. He's a college athlete (and a football player at that) and she's a drunk girl.
It's called being a drunk asshole at a bar. I don't know man, you're going to need some soaring rhetoric to make her out to be a feral, vicious attacker. In no way is that a justified reaction to her mushing her hand against his face.
Because the belief isn't reasonable. He's a college athlete (and a football player at that) and she's a drunk girl.
Florida law requires a reasonable and proportional use of force when defending one's self. He was not reasonable in believing the level of force used against him required the level of force he responded with.
What is your culture, where do you come from? Do you know Tyler Durden?I was taught to defend yourself if struck, even by a weaker opponent. That is how I was raised, just because you were raised differently doesn't make my way irrational and yours rational. It's a cultural thing. It's only irrational to you to strike a woman because you were told otherwise/haven't fought a strong woman before. The law permits self defense, so don't know wtf you're even talking about with the rational argument, if what he did was so barbaric then there wouldn't be such a clash of opinions in the topic.
And why did she punch him? Because he grabbed her.
Guy started it, normal guys don't punch females unless their life is in danger, people don't have a clue.
You really need to watch the video again. He grabbed her hand because she was about to punch him.
Balding up one's fist is not the same as a dehumanizing stare
wait I guess it is the same if one is from a black male and the other is a poor white girl who doesnt know shit about getting physical according to people itt
Guy started it, normal guys don't punch females unless their life is in danger, people don't have a clue.
And you're saying that a single, reactionary punch is disproportionate because he's an athlete, even though it's blatant that there is hardly any swing or much force behind it and the fact the "victim" didn't sustain any serious injury?
Am I getting this right?
I disagree completely.
She's not going to be charged. He will be. I could have predicted that without even reading it from the article. An athlete detonated a woman's face after she threw a punch that wouldn't hurt a wet tissue. What other outcome were people expecting?They should both be charged or neither. At least, that's how I see this situation.
even though it's blatant that there is hardly any swing or much force behind it
Am I getting this right?
You really need to watch the video again. He grabbed her hand because she was about to punch him.
LOL fucking please, get out of here with that garbage. Next you're going to tell me about the SJWs and "race baiting", right?
He was already pushing her pretty damn hard, and not only does he grab her fist, he pushes it inwards further towards her. I have no idea how you don't see that this is pretty clearly textbook assault on his end.
So now we're arguing pre-emptive measures as self defense? And I disagree about the "about to punch part".
And "normal" guys is some outline that you made up in you're head or the people you hang out with, not the rest of the real world.
Everyone just ignoring that pushing can be construed as assault?
Equal doesn't mean what you think it does here.
He was already pushing her pretty damn hard, and not only does he grab her fist, he pushes it inwards further towards her. I have no idea how you don't see that this is pretty clearly textbook assault on his end.
I think people are saying neither party is innocent.
Guy started it, normal guys don't punch females unless their life is in danger, people don't have a clue.
LOL fucking please, get out of here with that garbage. Next you're going to tell me about the SJWs and "race baiting", right?
He was already pushing her pretty damn hard, and not only does he grab her fist, he pushes it inwards further towards her. I have no idea how you don't see that this is pretty clearly textbook assault on his end.
"Mushing her hand against his face."
Is that what we're calling closed fist punches these days?