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Plywood said:
Great thread, would read again if I ever want more undiagnosed depression.
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Agreed, damn what a thread guys lol. Most of my social issues stem from being overweight most of my childhood and teen years. I've lost a significant amount of weight now, but I still have a good 20 to 30 lbs. I need to drop to be truly happy with myself. That's probably the main reason I haven't put myself out there is because I'm super uncomfortable about how my body looks.

Currently I'm 20 and I'll be 21 in March, this thread has definitely lit a fire under me. I don't want to be a virgin for too much longer.
 
encephalon said:
Sounded exactly the same way to me.
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I don't know, but it's scary. When someone type stuff like this and

~Kinggi~ said:
Ill be 29 in 7 days, and i plan to kill myself in a fashion that you will all care. This image is only semi accurate.
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You have to wonder what the fuck he is going to do. Might be better to warn the police or something, even if we don't know his whereabouts. People should stop talking about this virgin stuff and look at his posts seriously.
 
Bisnic, I'm initially inclined to say, "it's just talk, don't worry about it." But isn't that what we always say without the benefit of hindsight?
 
NinjaBoiX said:
Bisnic, I'm initially inclined to say, "it's just talk, don't worry about it." But isn't that what we always say without the benefit of hindsight?
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Exactly, we have to take every hints seriously before something bad happen. And i think the hints are pretty clear here. It's not simple "I plan to kill myself alone in my bedroom" posts that i see here, am i right?

If this guy is planning another mall, movie or school shooting, something has to be done here to help prevent it. This shit happen way too often to take these hints lightly i say. And i bet many of those killers in the past put plenty of hints on forums like this one anyway.
 
Bisnic said:
Exactly, we have to take every hints seriously before something bad happen. And i think the hints are pretty clear here. It's not simple "I plan to kill myself alone in my bedroom" posts that i see here, am i right?

If this guy is planning another mall, movie or school shooting, something has to be done here to help prevent it. This shit happen way too often to take these hints lightly i say. And i bet many of those killers in the past put plenty of hints on forums like this one anyway.
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Well again I hope he talks to someone pronto if he's feeling that way because it definitely sounds like he plans to do something crazy to me. Perhaps a moderator can contact the local authorities and at least have them check up on him. Worse case scenario they find out he's just trying to be funny. But these days you can't take that chance with how people seem to be so willing to off themselves.
 
mac said:
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Heh, what a bullshit image
 
Normally I do ignore this kinda nonsense on the internet but gaf is a..special..place when it comes to these people and he's making posts like these in other threads as well:

~Kinggi~ said:
Dont worry rich, us, the actual poor, will kill your asses when we experience what it is actually like to not be able to live with less monies. Soon enough, your suffering will be over.
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Proactive mods, gogogogogo
 
Bisnic said:
Exactly, we have to take every hints seriously before something bad happen. And i think the hints are pretty clear here. It's not simple "I plan to kill myself alone in my bedroom" posts that i see here, am i right?

If this guy is planning another mall, movie or school shooting, something has to be done here to help prevent it. This shit happen way too often to take these hints lightly i say. And i bet many of those killers in the past put plenty of hints on forums like this one anyway.
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Wot will u do?
 
IceDoesntHelp said:
Looks like you're grabbing for attention...but what do I know?
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I must admit, when every second post is, "men call me ugly all the time", it's kind of hard to continue to take it seriously. I don't really believe it either, which doesn't help.

For a start, she's quite a pretty girl, secondly, I don't know anyone who would randomly call a woman ugly to her face, it just doesn't happen, and thirdly, we're led to believe that this happens all the time.

Sorry Leeness, I'm sure you are lovely, and I don't mean to be nasty, but it simply sounds like fishing for compliments.
 
I remember reading a thing that said only 1/5th of people had had sex by the time they graduated high school, so this whole thing about being over the hill once you hit 20 is completely nuts.

Kurdel said:
You say you aren't a virgin anymore. Don't you remember walking on sunshine the next day?

In the end though, it doesn't matter and after a few days you realize pre to post virginity means jackshit, but you cannot deny that the first time warrants some kind of "Achievement unlocked" for awesomeness.
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I just remember being really really relieved afterwards to the point of just laughing. I'd worked up 'not being a virgin' into being this huge deal and then I just realised it didn't really mean anything. Nothing changed.
 
Kimawolf said:
Well again I hope he talks to someone pronto if he's feeling that way because it definitely sounds like he plans to do something crazy to me. Perhaps a moderator can contact the local authorities and at least have them check up on him. Worse case scenario they find out he's just trying to be funny. But these days you can't take that chance with how people seem to be so willing to off themselves.
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Just look at his posts, he's not willing to talk to anyone. He hates people. He hates everyone. He's not gonna go ask for help.
 
Bisnic said:
Just look at his posts, he's not willing to talk to anyone. He hates people. He hates everyone. He's not gonna go ask for help.
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Yeah... the guy seems to be really stuck in a dark place. Probably best for someone to say something now before he decides to do something.
 
FreeMufasa said:
Virgin in their 20s............how does dis even happen? (Barrin religious reasons )
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Well my excuse is kind of tangentially related to religion. Went to an all-boys Catholic school for high school. Then from 18-20 I was severely depressed and since I had no experience with girls I interacted pretty poorly with them throughout college. My classes suffered too. At 21 I'm going to a technical college where there practically are no girls. A basic proximity factor like even being AROUND girls apparently makes a difference lol

Anyways, at 21 I'm not too worried about it and you guys (and perhaps gals even) shouldn't be either :D I think a lot of |virgin\had sex maybe once or twice| guys my age and older feel bad because they've missed out on life that others have experienced at a younger age which is true but that doesn't mean you're incapable of ever getting with a girl whether it's for a fling or full fledged companionship. Stuff like the first impression you make, getting her to laugh, and such trumps your unfruitful past every time. Aside from making out with a few girls my 2012 was pretty lonely and it was still one of the better years I've had (have a 4.0 in school now, in better shape, and I just got a waiter job at a popular restaurant). I mention those things only to illustrate that sexual conquests are not always a necessary component to being content.

I don't believe anybody has all of their shit straight completely anyways; even guys who get girls have their own respective problems to deal with daily. The important thing is to not become embittered with the other gender or life in general. Lack of sex is one of those things that can exacerbate feelings of alienation and resentment towards society. Those feelings are understandable but not entirely warranted imo and you have to snap out of them. If you can't then you're probably depressed and need help because you lack coping mechanisms and possess unbalanced brain chemical thingies. I know because I used to feel those...feels and they still come at me now and again but there's a point where you can move past them or at least mentally place them to the side while you go on to other pursuits.

At least that's what I think lol
 
Starting to see the trend of a lot virgin gaf being depressed gaf..
 
kinggi, goddamnit just visit a prostitute.

It might suck to lose your virginity like that, but if fucking beats suicide. And it definitely beats whatever "oh but they will" means.
 
worldrevolution said:
Starting to see the trend of a lot virgin gaf being depressed gaf..
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Except the majority of depressed gaf isn't talking about killing themselves in a glorious fashion so people will care.

Lets put aside the obnoxious thread for a moment. Complete with an OP offering hilariously bad advice and generalizations. When someone is openly making these kind of statements (or threats), I think it's incumbent on all of us to take notice and try to help.

Otherwise we can just ignore it and hope the best for him, his coworkers, family, and the general public living around his area.

Between this and Pedophiles posting on GAF, publicly hinting about their CP, I guess nothing really surprises me anymore.
 
Sub_Level said:
Well my excuse is kind of tangentially related to religion. Went to an all-boys Catholic school for high school. Then from 18-20 I was severely depressed and since I had no experience with girls I interacted pretty poorly with them throughout college. My classes suffered too. At 21 I'm going to a technical college where there practically are no girls. A basic proximity factor like even being AROUND girls apparently makes a difference lol

Anyways, at 21 I'm not too worried about it and you guys (and perhaps gals even) shouldn't be either :D I think a lot of |virgin\had sex maybe once or twice| guys my age and older feel bad because they've missed out on life that others have experienced at a younger age which is true but that doesn't mean you're incapable of ever getting with a girl whether it's for a fling or full fledged companionship. Stuff like the first impression you make, getting her to laugh, and such trumps your unfruitful past every time. Aside from making out with a few girls my 2012 was pretty lonely and it was still one of the better years I've had (have a 4.0 in school now, in better shape, and I just got a waiter job at a popular restaurant). I mention those things only to illustrate that sexual conquests are not always a necessary component to being content.

I don't believe anybody has all of their shit straight completely anyways; even guys who get girls have their own respective problems to deal with daily. The important thing is to not become embittered with the other gender or life in general. Lack of sex is one of those things that can exacerbate feelings of alienation and resentment towards society. Those feelings are understandable but not entirely warranted imo and you have to snap out of them. If you can't then you're probably depressed and need help because you lack coping mechanisms and possess unbalanced brain chemical thingies. I know because I used to feel those...feels and they still come at me now and again but there's a point where you can move past them or at least mentally place them to the side while you go on to other pursuits.

At least that's what I think lol
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Easier said than done for a lot of posters here, however.
 
Da fuck can we do? PM a mod and tell them and that's about it. Get that suicide savior guy in here, the one who'll call you and talk you out of it.
 
NinjaBoiX said:
I must admit, when every second post is, "men call me ugly all the time", it's kind of hard to continue to take it seriously. I don't really believe it either, which doesn't help.

For a start, she's quite a pretty girl, secondly, I don't know anyone who would randomly call a woman ugly to her face, it just doesn't happen, and thirdly, we're led to believe that this happens all the time.

Sorry Leeness, I'm sure you are lovely, and I don't mean to be nasty, but it simply sounds like fishing for compliments.
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I'd be lying if I said I didn't think it was some type of troll account at this point. She does seem to post that a lot.
 
jorma said:
kinggi, goddamnit just visit a prostitute.

It might suck to lose your virginity like that, but if fucking beats suicide. And it definitely beats whatever "oh but they will" means.
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I doubt it's going to be much of a help though, it'll just change from 'I can't get laid' to I can only get laid if 'I pay someone for it'.

They're both crappy options.
 
Meh, she had some bad experiences. Nothing unbelievable about that. What's stupid about it is she takes those few experiences and some how builds a world view that all men hate her, think she's ugly, and she can't be with them. That's the definition of being a child. She'll never change that perspective either as long as she locks her self up. Ah well.
 
Well to be fair should could have body dysmorphic disorder and believe, truly believe everyone is actually calling her ugly and when people are walking by or whispering they are talking about every perceived flaw she thinks she has. Nothing unbelievable about that.
 
Dilly said:
I doubt it's going to be much of a help though, it'll just change from I can't get laid to I can only get laid if I pay someone for it.

They both suck as options.
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They both suck as options, but one sucks a whole lot less than the other, and does not end up with people dying.


And no, getting rid of that virginity helps A LOT when it comes to getting sex on a more regular basis. bottle of ketchup and all that.
 
If I was supposed to have sex with someone it would be easier for me to know that they actually are virgins. You don't have to tell me like randomly on a date, but if we are about to have sex it would be easier for me to handle the situation and have more understanding for it if the sex is shit.

If sex is bad and the girl is a virgin/unexperienced = Ok, we an work with this. Things will get better.

If sex is bad and she is experienced = Either she is lying about her sex life or she's mentally retarded or something. Aboooooort.
 
Kimawolf said:
Well to be fair should could have body dysmorphic disorder and believe, truly believe everyone is actually calling her ugly and when people are walking by or whispering they are talking about every perceived flaw she thinks she has. Nothing unbelievable about that.
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If I remember correctly, and I might not be, she said she had a guy say it to her face. I think a guy she approached? Cruel, for sure, but I can see it happening. Chick you don't find attractive comes up to you, you go into cool mode in front of your friends or something, call her ugly. Either way, it's not exactly the end of the world or the final definition of who you are. But, obviously some people take shit like that in different ways.
 
Sniper McBlaze said:
When your dick has tasted the vagina juice for the first time it get's hungry. And you also develop the sense to "feel" which girls want your penis in them.
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Indeed. Women are in fact just penis receptacles, walking around and giving off signals for when they need to be penetrated.

=/
 
Baraka in the White House said:
I'm sure it's not guaranteed if you have serious anxiety issues but getting that first one out of the way does a lot to de-mystify the act. It's like anything else you try, only with added personal and societal pressure.
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Yes, but I can't imagine it turning said person in someone smooth enough to get a one night stand or a lot of dating all of the sudden just because he payed a prostitute for sex.

I can only see it helping with the 'anxiety' of being physical with someone.
 
worldrevolution said:
Starting to see the trend of a lot virgin gaf being depressed gaf..
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With depression, "girl rejects you" turns into "girl rejects your entire being, you'll never have a gf, you should've done things differently, I wasn't meant for this world, girls are stupid and mean cuz they only get with guys dumber or less nice than me".

Depression can be ruthlessly crippling.

jorma said:
And no, getting rid of that virginity helps A LOT when it comes to getting sex on a more regular basis. bottle of ketchup and all that.
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Helps, perhaps, but doesn't guarantee. I have a 25 year old friend who did it with a hooker when he was like 22, but to this day has not been able to get with another girl. There's no doubt that a little momentum could be in the works, though. That first notch under the belt placebo.
 
Heh. I actually had sex for the first time when I was 17. The next time was, I think, two years later. Can't say I had much to win by having random drunken sex out in the cold when was 17 beyond the "hey, atleast I'm not a virgin!". I think that you'll really grow sexually for real when you find someone you fall in love with or atleast can have sex with more than few times. Random drunken sex is shit in the long term and will get you a warped sense of being experienced.
 
worldrevolution said:
If I remember correctly, and I might not be, she said she had a guy say it to her face. I think a guy she approached? Cruel, for sure, but I can see it happening. Chick you don't find attractive comes up to you, you go into cool mode in front of your friends or something, call her ugly. Either way, it's not exactly the end of the world or the final definition of who you are. But, obviously some people take shit like that in different ways.
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Yes and if she had BDD then it would definitely only make things worse in that regards. Why we shouldn't be so quick to judge people.
 
MWS Natural said:
The point of my earlier post was that there is a reason for it. Whether is be hormonal, mental or emotional. It's not normal for humans to desire no sexual interaction with each other or themselves.

Their testosterone could be low (hormonal)
Have anxiety issues (mental)
Poor past experience that made them hate the idea of sex (emotional)
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It's almost sad this needed to be pointed out.


worldrevolution said:
Starting to see the trend of a lot virgin gaf being depressed gaf..
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indeed.


depths20XX said:
I'd be lying if I said I didn't think it was some type of troll account at this point. She does seem to post that a lot.
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Nah. These are just the kind of threads she's interested in (and apparently, us as well). Ladies can have hang-ups about sexuality, too.
 
Sub_Level said:
Helps, perhaps, but doesn't guarantee. I have a 25 year old friend who did it with a hooker when he was like 22, but to this day has not been able to get with another girl. There's no doubt that a little momentum could be in the works, though. That first notch under the belt placebo.
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I'm not issuing guarantees, i'm just giving suggestions that i think are better than suicide by murder spree :)
 
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