Jaeyden -> sure, no problem. But you can acess all clan members from within the game and join the server they are on.
Sea Manky -> i think i will be playing this for a long time too. I bought the game with little faith that i was going to get interested. I was more curious than anything. In fact, in the beginning i didn't like it, i was always getting owned and i couldn't do anything right. It kinda grown on me by now.
I am pretty confident that i think i know almost all weapons positions in all of the maps by now. I am starting to master some cool strategies to make sure i don't get kill very often.
The beginners thing can be pretty annoying, i stoped entering Warhawks for a lift from players who don't have a clan tag on the name, just to make sure i don't end up hovering for 1 min. for nothing.
It's cool when someone aknowledges they still don't understand the game and you say something like "player X please secure this point, i will be back" and he does exactly that while you go get mines or something.
I am also starting to act out as a leader in some sort of way, i notice very quickly what bases the enemy is capturing and since i cannot go to them all, i normally point out to raid base number X or Y or for the closest player to recapture it.
In the meantime, i have yet to enter a server !GAF full of gaffers