Roscoe said:
So you are suggesting I crawl into the mind of a child rapist to empathize with him? Fascinating.
Would you live with a pedophile for a year if one needed a room? Would you want to raise a kid next door to a pedophile. I don't think ghetoizing them with the law is the answer, but people are justified in a NIMBY position.
Some people are just broken, and getting down with babies/children would be an indicator.
A pedophile I have had a long relationship with and trust to not act on his (not a her cause coed living arrangements suck) urges, with whom I've had conversations about his control of said urges or his emotional state, yes.
If I was living next door to a pedophile, the only reason I'd know that is if they had been convicted of a pedophile-related crime. If it was molesting a child then no, I wouldn't want to live next to them. But I don't think those people are the majority. Some may not like the example, but 40 years ago how many people would be comfortable living next to an openly gay neighbor? There is still a stereotype about the sex lives of gays and how exposing children to gay people will confuse them or some silly thing. But the overall view on gays has become more 3-dimensional. In the meantime, every pedophile is portrayed as a ticking molestation time bomb
I'm not saying that everyone needs to go hug a pedophile, but I think there are a good percentage that make an effort to fit in and not give in to whatever urges they might have.
Maybe this is like saying "hey guys, I don't think every gay guy has AIDS and throws wild, indiscriminate sex parties" in the 80's. Maybe it'll be a couple decades before anyone else agrees. But right now it's not even a case of NIMBY, people don't want pedophiles anywhere. Well... Where should they go? The current paranoid, persecutive environment isn't helping anyone.