Koshiba said:
Well it's an old bikini shot. Lol. I remember before being insulted though but i think it's just at this point.. I've gotten more confidence in myself so I care less now about if other people find me attractive or not since I FEEL attractive. ya know? Not only that, I've been getting out of a "relationship" where the guy has been messing with my emotions/head/etc for the past few months and I finally decided I needed to put a stop to being treated like that since I like myself more than that. :[
Insulted? I'm used to seeing you get hit on in the forum :lol
I am glad you have confidence, and you should definitely feel attractive because you are absolutely gorgeous. You have every reason to feel confident in yourself!
As for your relationship, I've been in relationships with girls who do the same (usually leads to me getting fucked up and taking the breakup really hard when I am usually strong and assertive I become a shell) and I have to say, from what I've chatted with you on GAF, you are definitely better than that.
Drop his ass, he isn't worth the time of day. No one deserves to feel bad and you have every reason to feel good about yourself!
Kinitari -> You don't look terrible, you could use a little toning but your body holds itself well! (although dreds? You can do better! haha sorry... I have female friends getting them now and just... /sigh)
Seriously, a good month of working on toning and you'll be looking great! Definitely do some chest, your body type could use a bit of definition there with your smaller ribs and shoulders.
jenov4 -> Damn, you really did good! And get some self confidence, your body is looking peak! Right now a big thing for you is confidence, although you have enough to go shirtless in public so that's damn good!
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Kinitari said:
Geez man, you have my ideal body! Maybe I should get a treadmill, It's going to be too cold for me to run outdoors until at least March, maybe April.
Cold weather exercising is actually not bad, if you can find a non-icy area to go for a jog/run. You will perspire a lot less in the end and lose less water. The area of Alberta I am in we regularly hit -30 to -40 C but if its -10 to -20 I love a nice cold weather jog. You move enough to stay warm (wear headphones that cover the ear or earmuffs! The wind sucks!) and aren't as exhausted as you would be in the summer!