DoctorWho said:
Have you detailed anywhere in this thread your diet and exercise routine?
Thanks.
I'll start by saying everything I'm likely to type has been said better elsewhere in the thread by more informed folks in better shape. But I'll share anyway in the hopes it helps others.
Step 1: Get fed up with yourself. That helps a lot! Being able to take all those negative emotions you've got about your weight, life, or whatever and focus them into "I'm going to fix this" is oddly useful. This is, of course, mostly a joke, but I'd be lying if I said it didn't factor in some days for me.
Step 2: Recognize that these things are not diets, these things are not temporary fixes. Your goal should be to get in the best shape of your life and stay there. Which is obviously a life-changing outlook. Remind yourself it'll be a long road and there will be peaks and valleys. You'll make mistakes. But keep your eye on the prize and fix those mistakes as you encounter them. You can disregard this step if you're, y'know, Superman or something. In which case, call me, we should hang out and fight crime and stuff.
Step 3: Why am I using steps? I'm not sure. Fix your diet. At the peak of my fatness I was eating fast food sometimes twice a day and that obviously is a terrible idea for a bunch of reasons (surprise: I save a lot of money making food and eating healthier! ...although all this protein I'm buying lately is a bit costly, but that can be ignored). Even if you hate exercise, like many, many folks in here have said... fixing your diet is the bulk of the battle. My one year of heavy (ha!) weight loss stemmed from making small changes to my diet and working out 4-6 times a week. Trying to go from all fast food to a diet where you only eat very healthy overnight sucks and I don't recommend it unless you are, again, Superman. Make manageable changes to your diet and after you get those down, improve your diet a bit more. I went from fast food to buying my own food (largely frozen meals that were slightly less terrible) to making my own food to the point where I cook for myself at least twice a day (over a year's worth of time).
Step 4: Exercise. Anything that you find tolerable and lets you exert yourself physically. Some kind of physical activity along with step 3 (which is more important) will go a long way. It'll suck horribly at first, but it eventually gets easier. And eventually when you start seeing the results, it becomes a little addictive and a lot rewarding. If you can exercise lots and diet well... you'll be where you want to be in no time. Do both if you can, toning up is nice.
Step 5: Talk about what you're doing with someone. Friends, family, GAF... doesn't matter. That's partly why I like this thread so much, it's good to encourage folks. My roommate and I have been pretty good about yelling at one another to go to the gym for a while now and it has certainly helped us both. Chart your progress. I use WiiFit as a scale (and nothing else) because it will log your progress. Graphs are great, especially if you can make the bad ones decrease and the awesome ones increase.
So there, not sure if I missed anything, and it's nothing revolutionary, but maybe it'll help someone. Hopefully it will.