stufte
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lots of smart stuff
TwinIonEngines,
I wish I had the ability to argue a point as well as you do. I was going to contribute to this thread, but I can't imagine being more succinct in my wording than you are. Please continue.
lots of smart stuff
TwinIonEngines,
I wish I had the ability to argue a point as well as you do. I was going to contribute to this thread, but I can't imagine being more succinct in my wording than you are. Please continue.
"Beneficial" meaning what? Making you feel good about yourself? If not, then what: say it.
Beneficial means that the conversation contains more than dogmatic proclamations and attempts to belittle the position of the person on the other side of the table, which is 90% of what I see when I read these threads. Beneficial means that both parties leave with a greater understanding of the other side. Beneficial means honest questions designed to understand and unravel the topic at hand, and not attempts to bait or lead your opponent into some sort of trap. Beneficial means that we enter the conversation being willing to consider each other's perspective and we aren't spending the entire time looking for killshots. Beneficial means that I try to understand your views and you try to understand mine, and we don't assume that we know everything about the other because of a label. Beneficial means that we don't enter the conversation thinking that we have some moral high ground and the people on the other side need to be fixed, regardless of whether you're talking about religion, politics, economics, or Call of Duty.
If you want me to sum it up, beneficial means that I'm not wasting my time talking to you, and you're not wasting your time talking to me. If I go into the conversation attempting to convert you, or you go in believing that I'm a raving lunatic, then what's the point? We have to come in with at least some respect for each other as rational human beings for the engagement to be worth having.
Everyone is going to keep ignoring the Count's post, so let me repeat it:
It sure is hard to start with a baseline of respect when you're going to be boiling in blood for all of eternity.
Give you said "it's hard to imagine how it would happen by chance" it usually indicates some sense of being special. I didn't intend to project that though, sorry.You're adding this 'thinking we are special' into the discussion btw...
Kind of funny isn't that we can say the universe happened completely by chance because, "here is the evidence". Pondering the idea that maybe it wasn't by chance is a philosophical error though. Interesting that isn't it?
I'm not saying it is or it isn't. You can call it philosophical error, you can call it what you like, the fact of the matter is, it still is what we observe in our universe.
It doesn't consist of anything. No one is requiring respect be given in mass quantities. It's irrelevant that we need atheist respect anyway. It would be nice and it definitely happens in the wilds of reality, but nothing requires it.
If an atheist wants to remain delusional about how dangerous we are to them or society at large, that just affects them.OK
The internet can skew perceptions. As it stands religions have the numbers, therefore the money, the lobbying groups, the buildings, etc. In many ways it is tyranny of the majority. Many people seem to have conjured this myth of a big bad atheist when nothing about our reality suggests this.
Generally speaking, we are all somewhat equally prone to try to instill our morals and values in others. What I want to know is how much religious belief or lack thereof factors into this. I think religious belief would factor more, it suggests and assumes many positives, many absolutes on poor grounds, where atheism tends more to the "I don't know" approach.
There are no "atheistic values" per se. There is no single atheist manifesto. Nothing you can point to and say "those are atheist values" like I can take the Bible for example and say "these are Christian values". I`ll try an analogy: if a child is a blank surface, religion has all the paint ready to impose it's views on a child, and it's that much easier when religion is the more widespread notion.
tldr; If a child is a canvas, folk of faith have larger palettes.
Give you said "it's hard to imagine how it would happen by chance" it usually indicates some sense of being special. I didn't intend to project that though, sorry.
Anyway, I don't think the universe happened by chance. I think the universe happened. You can only observe chances when you are an outsider that can explore the alternatives. We are not, and moreso, we are even the direct result of any chance that may have occurred in the beginning. It is therefore very hard to reason about whether things happened by chance. The best answer anybody can have at this point is that we don't know.
JGS said:If an atheist wants to remain delusional about how dangerous we are to them or society at large, that just affects them.
Question for atheists: Do you understand that you're on the outside looking in? Why do you feel you're entitled to answers to your inane stream of questions, particularly when you ask them with a particular brand of disrespect.
I'm not going to explain to you why its not immoral to raise my children in a religious household because you're in a vocal minority that doesn't understand.
Its the same reason I don't have to "back up my beliefs" to you. There's no smoking gun that provides the "proof" you're so desperate for. If someone is willing to listen respectfully, I'm happy to explain my own personal journey and beliefs but beyond that, I don't really owe you anything.
RIDDLE ME THIS
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I refuse to believe any of that video is real.
Question #1 was "Why is the world round?".
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What?
I refuse to believe any of that video is real.
Question #1 was "Why is the world round?".
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What?
No theist should offer "respect" to atheists as a prize. We are reminded fairly often that even mentioning that we're atheists results in disrespect. Best-case scenario.This is actually why atheists garner very little respect. They (The vocal ones at least) have primarily shown a proficiency at disrespecting religion. That's hardly the best way to build a resume.
Tolerance is divine.
Respect is not a precondition for fruitful dialogue. Anonymity can encourage sincerity. Though the internet may impose an additional layer of separation between individuals, isn't it also true that much of our social armor is removed? It could be a better bargain than you'd think. I don't know about you, but I'd rather receive a blast of sincere disdain than the gooey drizzle of microwaved pap that people so often feed one another in daily life.Normally I don't wade into these threads, but since you're touching on the precise reason why don't, I might as well toss in my two cents.
When attempting to discuss matters of such a personal nature (i.e., religion or politics), truly beneficial discussion cannot happen without a modicum of respect between the two parties. I find this generally never happens in the anonymous void of internet forums. By contrast, my brother and I have spent hours upon hours going back and forth about all of this (we were both raised Christian; he rejected the faith in his twenties, whereas I'm almost 30 and have continued to fully embrace it). We are still friends, and will always be friends - not just because we share blood, but because we have mutual respect and don't immediately discount each other's dissenting opinion.
Maybe I'm just jaded, but I don't believe that this or any other anonymous forum can provide that sort of environment.
Tell me more about the broadness of this road.Question for atheists: Do you understand that you're on the outside looking in? Why do you feel you're entitled to answers to your inane stream of questions, particularly when you ask them with a particular brand of disrespect.
I'm not going to explain to you why its not immoral to raise my children in a religious household because you're in a vocal minority that doesn't understand.
Its the same reason I don't have to "back up my beliefs" to you. There's no smoking gun that provides the "proof" you're so desperate for. If someone is willing to listen respectfully, I'm happy to explain my own personal journey and beliefs but beyond that, I don't really owe you anything.
If you're admitting to an inherent disrespect for my beliefs what is the purpose of this thread?It's interesting that you assume your beliefs are worthy of respect in the first place. Authentic respect is granted freely when earned, not proffered as a pacifier to silence bawling.
If you're admitting to an inherent disrespect for my beliefs what is the purpose of this thread?
What is the point in answering your questions if you've already closed your mind to whatever I might have to say?
As I explained, I'm neither unwilling nor unable to explain why I believe what I do if someone has a genuine curiosity. I just have no interest in doing it in the face of open hostility.
I can't speak for Monocle or other atheists, however my mind is not closed. It is open to any claim that can be backed up with a proportionate amount of observable, demonstrable evidence. I suspect that other atheists are for the most part just as reasonable as myself and take a very similar stance. Show me reasonable evidence for your god, and you will have my respect.
I can't speak for Monocle or other atheists, however my mind is not closed. It is open to any claim that can be backed up with a proportionate amount of observable, demonstrable evidence. I suspect that other atheists are for the most part just as reasonable as myself and take a very similar stance. Show me reasonable evidence for your god, and you will have my respect.
Then I will never have your respect because the evidence (empirical) is not there. I'm a theist that is willing to be open minded and not dance around this loaded question. As with all threads before and after this one, it's a classic case of faith vs. evidence. A theist, if not ignorant, will understand and appreciate evidence. I'm not too sure an atheist will understand or want to understand faith. After 40 pages of this thread, I'm confident in my statement.
Oh, we by and large understand faith. You are conflating understanding with acceptance and in no way does one inexorably lead to the other(in either direction!).
That's a rather confused (almost, dare I say, openly hostile) interpretation of my comments about respect. I never expressed contempt for your beliefs, which at any rate you've kept mysterious enough to evade attention. It is possible to piece together a notion of what you're about from the hints you've sprinkled here and there, but you'll have to make at least a modest effort to explain yourself openly if this conversation is to progress much further.If you're admitting to an inherent disrespect for my beliefs what is the purpose of this thread?
What is the point in answering your questions if you've already closed your mind to whatever I might have to say?
As I explained, I'm neither unwilling nor unable to explain why I believe what I do if someone has a genuine curiosity. I just have no interest in doing it in the face of open hostility.