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Woman are giving up on woman *lol*

GeorgPrime

GeorgPrime

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Edit: I thought i got the right forum... can someone move it to offtopic?

When even the female match makers are giving up on matching women because they just want Mr. Perfect but Mr.Perfect is annoyed by Mrs. Perfect and just settles with a normal woman that doesnt annoy him lol

 
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JeremyEtcetera

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I feel like this type of experiment helps someone with extremely high/stubborn standards to become more empathetic and down to earth.
 
Reality Czar

Reality Czar

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All of feminism is basically about giving up. It is about negation of responsibility and the natural order. This type of thing is only inevitable.
 
ArtemisClydeFrog

ArtemisClydeFrog

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Virt McPolygon said:
There's a Youtube channel called Better Bachelor that makes cringe videos and asks for PayPal donations?

Some of the topics here today are getting to be pretty pathetic lol
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Incels gonna incel.

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Pejo

Pejo

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Boy that video was tough to get through. I agree that women sometime set their standards too high, but holy shit that guy sounds exactly like a lot of incel complaints I've seen. Dating is not fair, it will never be fair, and it's not nearly as hopeless as these guys will have you believe.

There was a guy that worked for me in the past. Late 40s, bald, fat, poor hygiene, constantly had boogers hanging out of his nose, had a creepy laugh, creeped out damn near everyone around him. This mother fucker had 4 (FOUR) fucking kids and was married/divorced and was then dating a college girl. She was certainly no prize, but after I saw that dude's existence, I knew that anybody saying that they can't find someone is full of shit.
 
GeorgPrime

GeorgPrime

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Pejo said:
Boy that video was tough to get through. I agree that women sometime set their standards too high, but holy shit that guy sounds exactly like a lot of incel complaints I've seen. Dating is not fair, it will never be fair, and it's not nearly as hopeless as these guys will have you believe.

There was a guy that worked for me in the past. Late 40s, bald, fat, poor hygiene, constantly had boogers hanging out of his nose, had a creepy laugh, creeped out damn near everyone around him. This mother fucker had 4 (FOUR) fucking kids and was married/divorced and was then dating a college girl. She was certainly no prize, but after I saw that dude's existence, I knew that anybody saying that they can't find someone is full of shit.
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Aside from the guy....

The only problem dating has is:

Women looking mostly for equal partners based on their own standing
Men looking mostly for non equal partners based on their own standing.

The female doctor wants a male doctor equivalent.
The male doctor mostly looks for someone below his own level like a nurse. (its maybe not as annoying as having a more demanding women of equal standard)

There were a lot of studies about that topic and thats one of the main reasons most women stay single nowadays because they are searching for a partner that is not searching for them.

But as always.... their are a few exceptions now and then that dont relate to the rules.

The other factor is that women are mostly emotional connected to their best ex-partners and men arent that emotional connected to an ex partner. When i have a ex girlfriend i try to avoid most girls that are almost the same and try to look for something different lol
 
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Pejo

Pejo

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GeorgPrime said:
Aside from the guy....

The only problem dating has is:

Women looking mostly for equal partners based on their own standing
Men looking mostly for non equal partners based on their own standing.

The female doctor wants a male doctor equivalent.
The male doctor mostly looks for someone below his own level like a nurse. (its maybe not as annoying as having a more demanding women of equal standard)

There were a lot of studies about that topic and thats one of the main reasons most women stay single nowadays because they are searching for a partner that is not searching for them.

But as always.... their are a few exceptions now and then that dont relate to the rules.

The other factor is that women are mostly emotional connected to their best ex-partners and men arent that emotional connected to an ex partner. When i have a ex girlfriend i try to avoid most girls that are almost the same and look for something different lol
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I can see your point with this. I think the last 10 years fucking up traditional gender roles have left a lot of problems in the dating world too. There used to be some sort of general guideline to getting through the "getting to know" phase of dating. Now there's a whole minefield of things for both men and women to wade through just to properly gauge the mindset of their date. I sure am glad I don't have to depend on shit like Tinder and other online dating sites.
 
nush

nush

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GeorgPrime said:
There were a lot of studies about that topic and thats one of the main reasons most women stay single nowadays because they are searching for a partner that is not searching for them.

But as always.... their are a few exceptions now and then that dont relate to the rules.
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I've seen this with some older single women. They take so long and are selective that thier standards actually start going UP the longer they are single because they want all that time to "Payoff". I've bailed on some older women just in the texting stage due to hints of their over-inflated sense of value.
 
BigBooper

BigBooper

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Not being entirely facetious, this might contribute to the rise in trans men?

Not gay, but It feels like it'd be easier to get along with a spouse if they were a dude.
 
FreedomOfSpeech

FreedomOfSpeech

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Women have let themselves get conned into thinking they need anything other than youth to snag a man.

So now they compete with men for jobs, slogging away the years, in order to get a nothing special salary, letting their eggs dry up and losing sexual market value every day. All the while complaining about normal joe schmoe who isn't good enough anymore. No storks bringing kids for these women any time soon.

And instead of recognizing the error of their ways, they double down and accuse men of not wanting the right things. Or if they are clasically clueless, they plain insult them.
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Be young, plan your future a little and none of these things need be your problem.
 
ArtemisClydeFrog

ArtemisClydeFrog

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FreedomOfSpeech said:
Women have let themselves get conned into thinking they need anything other than youth to snag a man.

So now they compete with men for jobs, slogging away the years, in order to get a nothing special salary, letting their eggs dry up and losing sexual market value every day. All the while complaining about normal joe schmoe who isn't good enough anymore. No storks bringing kids for these women any time soon.

And instead of recognizing the error of their ways, they double down and accuse men of not wanting the right things. Or if they are clasically clueless, they plain insult them.
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Be young, plan your future a little and none of these things need be your problem.
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LokusAbriss

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ArtemisClydeFrog said:
happy pip GIF by South Park
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Well, he is not wrong. Men have their own problems with high expectations and lazyness. The difference and big problem comes in the subject of creating a family. As a man, you can get your shit together in your 30s, 40s or even 50s. Finding a younger woman is not a big of a problem, because your value, if you take care of yourself, rises in comparison to women, where it declines really fast past 30 years old.

This youtube trend with "batchelors" is a bit over the top, but women are much harsher in discussing men. Most know people who have it hard to find a partner or who dont even look for one, because of their ideologies and standards. You feel bad for them, because you know they could find somebody with small adjustments to their mindset.

A great amount of women dont want to work. Another big amount of women want to raise kids. These women are pressured into careers they dont want and are beeing looked down by other women.

I live and work in an environment where I can see zero disadvantages for women in comparison with men, but they still push the subject of gender inequality and are getting advantages in getting hired.
 
Soodanim

Soodanim

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The problem with all of this shit is that if you’re quick to group people and start saying women this and man that, then you’re going to be assuming everyone is the same.

How about you remember people are individuals and judge them based on their own merits? These conceptual “women” and “men” don’t mean anything in the real world.
 
Cyberpunkd

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LokusAbriss said:
Well, he is not wrong. Men have their own problems with high expectations and lazyness. The difference and big problem comes in the subject of creating a family. As a man, you can get your shit together in your 30s, 40s or even 50s. Finding a younger woman is not a big of a problem, because your value, if you take care of yourself, rises in comparison to women, where it declines really fast past 30 years old.

This youtube trend with "batchelors" is a bit over the top, but women are much harsher in discussing men. Most know people who have it hard to find a partner or who dont even look for one, because of their ideologies and standards. You feel bad for them, because you know they could find somebody with small adjustments to their mindset.

A great amount of women dont want to work. Another big amount of women want to raise kids. These women are pressured into careers they dont want and are beeing looked down by other women.

I live and work in an environment where I can see zero disadvantages for women in comparison with men, but they still push the subject of gender inequality and are getting advantages in getting hired.
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This touches on a really complex subject, but the take is actually correct - a lot of women were pressured by the society and also by other women that they 'can have it all', be great in a professional setting and personal life. Sometimes it is true but as a general rule not - you have limited time during your day that you can dedicate either to work or to kids (or other things), the day will not magically go to 48 hours.
If society would have been a little more realistic and actually cared for women this would have been adjusted to giving single-earner households a massive boost so that if one party wants to stay home and raise kids the other party can concentrate and reap benefits of working, including things like calculating the value of raising kids (which by default is 0 right now) and correctly structuring retirement plans, etc.

The paradox is raising kids is crucial to maintaining social structure - in Europe you literally need kids since by social contract their work will generate retirement money for pensioners in 20, 30, 40 years from now. Yet most countries are awful at supporting women that have kids. You give short maternity leave - women are pressured to go back to work unprepared and when kids require the most care (in France the maternity leave is 10 weeks post-birth). You give long maternity leave - employers will think twice about hiring someone in the reproductive age since possibly they can be out of work for 12-24 months, and at the end of the day you are obliged to keep their position.

Add to that the fact in many countries careers are very skewed and front-loaded e.g. France. You are supposed to make it to management in your early 30s by working your ass off, then you can cruise (given you manage to be in a good company). Afterwards it is really hard to advance since you are 'boxed' in. This normally might not be a problem, but it requires you to execute perfectly - having smart parents that teach you all that at the age of 15 helps.
 
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amc

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Soodanim said:
The problem with all of this shit is that if you’re quick to group people and start saying women this and man that, then you’re going to be assuming everyone is the same.

How about you remember people are individuals and judge them based on their own merits? These conceptual “women” and “men” don’t mean anything in the real world.
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All the long diatribes I see with regards to this shit seem to come from a place of either someone who has had a bad relationship experience, maybe more than one, or someone who is the classic incel type who blames their failure to meet a women on the women (you know, instead of looking at why perhaps they aren't meeting women successfully, normally due to not cutting the mustard in many ways themselves).

They delve deep into their woman conspiracy and over think every aspect. Reading more and more echo chamber type stuff. Until bingo, the reason for their pain or failure is completely due to some long winded woman coming out of the kitchen bullshit.

Are some women like what they believe, of course, are most like that, no. All this type of shit that gets posted is mainly due to the poster's own failure or negative experience.

Fuck, if you can have the relationship breakdown I had and the fact I haven't had my nuts in a long time (not due to lack of interest from women, far from it, more due to my own lack of interest) and look at all this stuff as cognitive dissonance then even a raging incel should have the power to break their loop.
 
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UnNamed

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Woman have to be conquered.
Every woman says she prefers men blond, tall, muscled, long hair, short hair, etc but they really have no idea of what they really want, especially when they are younger.

A man who say he can't have any women because they want different men are only incels who deserve to have no women.
 
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JimmyRustler

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Soodanim said:
The problem with all of this shit is that if you’re quick to group people and start saying women this and man that, then you’re going to be assuming everyone is the same.

How about you remember people are individuals and judge them based on their own merits? These conceptual “women” and “men” don’t mean anything in the real world.
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Well, if we would look at humans like that we would have made NO insight in our psychology at all so far, right? Because everyone is different.

Only, that is not how it works. There are no statistics that will apply to everyone but you can very well look at a group of people and their behavior and then draw certain conclusions. Naturally this will not apply to every single person in said group but nonetheless you can learn something valueable from it.
 
Soodanim

Soodanim

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JimmyRustler said:
Well, if we would look at humans like that we would have made NO insight in our psychology at all so far, right? Because everyone is different.

Only, that is not how it works. There are no statistics that will apply to everyone but you can very well look at a group of people and their behavior and then draw certain conclusions. Naturally this will not apply to every single person in said group but nonetheless you can learn something valueable from it.
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Of course, I would never dispute that. But people get too caught up in the broad strokes and let it cloud their judgement. That’s how these YouTube channels get so many followers, or how incels spiral in their communities. They get sucked in by convincing sweeping statements. I‘ve seen posts by ex-incels who say as much, and it takes something or someone reminding them of the balance to shake it off. After all, statistics mean nothing to the individual.
 
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