I also have a question. Since this is the first time in all the time that I played that I am not in a guild but still want to do some pug raids every now and then...
How the hell do you manage to get in a group? I only see insane things (Ilvl 489+, link achievement) or people just not messaging back. (Resto Druids hated or something?) Sure, I only experienced the LFR versions (and often top them but that means nothing) but I even offer to explain what to expect on fights as a healer since I did my research. Got around 20 flasks ready, food, pots, everything. Still not good enough. Everyone is so damn focused on ILVL or the bloody achievement that you cleared it.
My ILVL is 480, I tanked/healed *everything* in this game apart from most of the Cataclysm stuff. I have all the achievements with dates to prove it to them if they would ask. Surely things in Panda raids wouldn't be shocking to me or is there some insane boost in difficulty that I am not aware of? It seems that mostly DPS that is really tested?
I don't have any of those leadership skills to start my own raids so I guess my only option would be to join a guild again or is there some magic I can perform?
e) the most hilarious thing was one person asking for 490+ ILVL, achievement but then he was in blue gear himself. Made me chuckle and not even bother trying.