It's kinda funny how you can go from a well known player to an absolute nobody on WoW. In Vanilla, I knew like 90% of the server because I was in a well known guild and newbies admired my gear (I know it creates an ego, but there's something fun about people whispering you about your gear :>). Hell, we even did MC in the weekend with random people just so that they could get epics and experience raiding.
Fast forward to BC and everyone did heroics with me and my guild. There was a real sense of community and everyone still knew everyone. After the first few months though, people were starting to quit WoW. People you'd never think would quit this game. Hell, a veteran player quitting back then still felt weird and for every player that quit, you actually felt like you lost a good friend. Just thinking about those nights when we were raiding SSC while our eastern officer was singing My Heart Will Go On from Celine Done makes me sad. He and his brother quit because they were going to play that Warhammer MMO for a while, only to never return. I spent countless of nights with his brother in Karazhan because we were put in the "lesser second raid group" which was filled with trials and such. About 6 or 7 of them while we had to learn them stuff and judge them as trials. We ended up downing Malchezaar before the main raid group, which was funny as hell back in the day. The raid after that, a lot of trials made it to member and we were put back in the main raiding group lol.
That's probably part of the tragedy in WoW. You often spend so much time with people on ventrilo etc doing raids for weeks, months... so much that when they finally decide to quit, it gives you the same feeling as if a real life friend suddenly abandons you. Yeah, you could add them on teh facebookz (or msn back then) but after a while, you end up not chatting anymore. In WoW at least, you had a common goal and you had a reason to log in every day and have fun with each other.
I even ended up taking a break from WoW myself. About a year before Wotlk. Too much people were quitting and it just wasn't fun anymore. When I finally came back (Wotlk launch), my server felt different. A few of my friends returned, but I also noticed a lot of unknown names in the usual places (Orgrimmar, Dalaran). My server was filled with new faces.
My entire guild though... when I left, it wasn't going as good anymore. They were still making progress, but they raided less and it was going slower as well. I still checked the forums/site several months in my break and they were doing good again though. A lot of experienced players joined them, they were sweeping through progress and they were in the top 3 again. When I finally played again though, the guild was ruined. The only thing left was its name and about 5 or 6 members. All the big names were gone and suddenly, everything was just... gone. Our legacy on our realm? Gone. Nobody knew our guild when I started talking to people. Nobody knew me either. Except for the 3 or 4 ex-guildies that still played.
Thing is, when your big and famous guild is gone... you're just a nobody on your realm. My guild was replaced by different guilds and I didn't knew a single one of them. I ended up applying to some of them, but they acted really elitist and didn't even believe me when I told them about my experience. Mind you, achievements were added late BC, but the time stamps are worth nothing because the older stuff is all set to 2008 I believe. Our entire guild site was offline as well so I couldn't bring up pics. I couldn't even use my own pics, because only then did it hit me that I never actually made pics of the bosses I downed in vanilla and early BC. And yeah, I only had gear from Wrath heroics. I was just a shitty unknown rogue to them. Didn't even give me trial status to test me. I didn't knew a single one of them and they didn't knew me either. It was really a good example of the newer elitist community Wrath introduced to my server. I know vanilla and BC had their fair share as well, but my server was a lot better in those days. A real sense of community I'd say.
In the end, I transferred to a different server. Switched from horde to alliance and suddenly, I was a human rogue. Started all over with a new guild that was pretty casual/mid core. Downed Naxx and then they disbanded. I don't remember exactly what I did after that, but after a while, I transferred again. This time, I went to a RP server. Argent Dawn (EU). I didn't really expect much (RP always seemed dull to me, especially eRP). I started to level an orc shaman and when I hit lvl 15 or so, I saw a group of RPers in Razor Hill doing some kind of duel ceremony. Basically, it was a tournament and instead of actually duelling eachother... you had to /roll and anything above a certain value meant your attack was succesfull. And then you had to /emote type an actual attack. I ended up participating and it actually was a lot of fun. Playing this game in character actually ends up being. You had to make up a backstory for your character etc and the RP on this server was really active.
That particular guild was made up of orcs who prefered peace over war, yet they still held tournaments for money and such. I ended up leaving the guild for Moklohn Command, a war horde guild, and my previous guild kinda became hostile at me. Only in character mind you, but it was fun. This newer guild was A LOT of fun and they held several events each week with promotion here and there if you serve the horde well. We'd be thirty or forty guys in Orgrimmar while the guild master would speak against each and everyone. We all had our tasks etc and some people were guarding us, completely in horde guard gear. And everything looked the same. They even gave you a set when you joined them so all the recruits looked the same. The officers themselves made some kind of unique sets and if you joined their squad, you'd be given the same outfit. I eventually made it quite high in the ranks and we even did a huge RP battle with the alliance in the castle south of Ratchet. I was truly amazing to witness such a large battle (100 vs 100 or maybe more) with such coordination. Officers of both sides met eachother and not a single soldier of each side made a move before the battle started. It's one of the reasons I'm really glad I could experience RP. (Although you also had them eRP bars in Silvermoon with nekkid belfs guarding the bar).
I eventually left them after quite a while, since a new officer joined the ranks and he was a little too serious about stuff. I don't even know if he was still in character at tmes, but he took events too seriously and after a while, our entire squad hated him lol. I was the only soldier he could trust, he told me. He knew the others were plotting something. Damn, I still get a smile if I think about that now. Eventually, the highest squad member (friend of mine) challenged him to a duel, but he lost. And he didn't take that very well. If he'd won, he'd be the new squad officer, such were the rules. I stayed neutral though, but in the end I left them for a more mature and "spiritual" guild. And then I went inactive again.
Eventually, one of my class mates IRL told me about his WoW account. He wanted me to play on his server. This was quite a few months after the RP stuff. This guy was a goddamn underwear model irl and a bodybuilder who was very fit... And he was a scorpion lord on WoW with several server firsts on his belt. He was also in the best guild on his server. You'd never guess it by his appearance irl. So yeah, I transferred once again and made my rogue an orc again since he was horde. Couldn't join his guild for lack of obvious experience and gear, so I joined a guild when some warlock was looking for people for his new guild in trade chat.
He was just a random guy at first and, just like me, he transferred from a different server to start over with his swedish friends. He had uber gear, but after a long and friendly conversation, I got in. He even bought me high lvl gear from the AH. We talking bout 40-50k stuff etc. I couldn't believe people like this still existed in WoW. I liked this guy a lot, and not because he bought me some stuff. Naw, it was like my first guild back in Vanilla. We were having shits and giggles on Ventrilo and after a while, I met his swedish friends as well and before I knew it, I had a group of friends again on WoW. We were constantly joking about stuff while doing ICC (like they always calling me Bulgarian, because I was the only Belgian in the guild and Bulgarian was some kind of inside joke because people always forgot I was Belgian and not Bulgarian). To top it off, there was a swedish lesbian couple in the guild who me and another guy from the guild did a lot of stuff with... I think the lesbian thing was only an act though, to keep them horny WoW guys from them. In the end, that other guy went to Sweden and one of the girls became his gf. They're still together I think. Pretty cool if I think about it. Like every previous guild I've been in though.... it was starting to break after some months. It was sad, since I really had some friends in there, but that is the way of WoW I guess...
I was browsing the forums of my original server and a new guild transferred there. They were looking for a rogue. They had a lot of experience, but they wanted a fresh server to play on. I decided to transfer back to my old server after they were impressed by my application. Once again, I found an awesome bunch of people. One guy in particular, Deathtime, also known as DT, was by far the funny guy of the guild. He died a lot in raids if I remember correctly (just like me, because I was teh threat meter rogue) but he was also very funny in general. And the guild was filled with nice guys in general. Raid leader was a woman, but she was very experienced and just. I basically got every single ICC achievement with these guys and also my ICC 25 drake. Also the ulduar drake and some other stuff. They made Wotlk endgame a lot of fun and they're partly the reason I have such fond memories of Wotlk in general. As all my previous guilds though, it was bound to happen. The woman, I believe, was in a relationship with an officer but it went to shit all of a sudden... And so did the guild. It survived a couple of months after that and even made it into Cata, but it wasn't the same and like the rest of my guilds, it's completely gone these days.
That's basically where my raiding/guild story ends. I haven't been in a decent guild since then. Haven't played Cata that much either. Two or three months at best perhaps, with most of my time spent lvling, doing a daily quest/hc here and there and deathwing raidfinder. It's the same for MoP these days. I log in, do a daily or something and a few dungeons or raid finder... mayhaps some pet battles or some achievement. Then I log off and leave the game for a few days or even a week. I transferred to Twisting Nether (EU) btw, because my original server died off when my last guild disappeared. So yeah, I'm basically playing this solo again.
TL;DR: "short" story from a guy who experienced the game from vanilla till now
/end