Thank you
EviLore
for sticking out your neck and bringing some common sense to the twitter sphere.
I respect David Jaffe, but I feel like if he wants to have a discussion about this he should pay us a visit and lay down his arguments. Taking cheap shots from twitter, the same platform that is fostering the wanton destruction of other people's lives and reputation through ochlocracy and the court of public opinion is disingenuous at best and hypocritical at worst. Especially considering that Jaffe himself found himself in the cross-hairs of the same mob mentality.
I'd like to know how exactly the table he takes issue with, which merely presents the facts from the postmillenial article in another format, is different from what he had to say to Ben Kuchera a couple of years ago. ZQ decided to make these accusations public, are we just supposed to take her tweets at face value considering her more than questionable past?
Alec H. was literally executed by the twitter inquisition and some dude on NeoGAF taking his time to aggregate public information in a more digestible manner is what he cares about? Either ZQ's tweets were honest back then, which means that her recent accusations were a hyperbolic misrepresentation of the truth, or she lied about it in the past. No matter which way you look at it, the fact remains that she still lied and it only stands to reason that her accusing somebody of "something really f*cking awful" (to employ Jaffe's own words) should be met with scepticism.
At the very best their failed relationship was the mere result of them both being mentally unstable human beings who probably did shitty things to each other. The question of who's more guilty doesn't really matter anyway and is a moot discussion. What people are concerned about is a person's public social media execution with ZQ knowing full well that Alec dealt with serious depression. What's equally as bad is the fact that Alec himself was not allowed to talk about his experiences, as per his own words:
I'm sorry, but I'm just not willing to suspend my disbelief for somebody who's obviously unwilling to let other people speak in a self-serving egotistical attempt to hold hegemony over the truth. ZQ did the same to Alec what she did to Eron under threat of law and that alone should make everybody suspicious of her true intentions.
Lastly, nobody her in this thread is clamoring for the public execution of ZQ. She brought this mess upon herself by making these half-arsed twitter allegations in the first place because she saw another opportunity to put herself back into the limelight. No, when people on here say that they want justice for Alec, they mean a real trial that not only serves justice to the accuser, but to the accused as well. The simple fact that ZQ never bothered to contact the police, is not because of the purity of her heart, but because she knew full well that Alec would be heard and her hyperbolic claims would be scrutinized.
It doesn't take much effort to write a couple of tweets and to ruin somebody's life. Unfortunately, Alec is dead now because of this and he will sadly never know justice. What Gaffers really want is to make sure that something like that never happens again.