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[kitchenmotors]

Yeah, we broke up that time for a few weeks. It was unrelated to this mess. I went looking out for her and we decided to give it another shot.

So there is more to the story than we originally were told?

 

[mid83]

Yeah, we broke up that time for a few weeks. It was unrelated to this mess. I went looking out for her and we decided to give it another shot.

That post didn't read like that at all.

I'm calling BS on this whole thing.

 

[Via Purifico]

Yeah, we broke up that time for a few weeks. It was unrelated to this mess. I went looking out for her and we decided to give it another shot.

 

[Servbot24]

So there is more to the story than we originally were told?

Pretty sure he mentioned a rough patch and that they had started dating again.

 

[Hagi]

You drank our milkshake OP

SLUUUUURRRPP

 

[AlphaSnake]

Are you the NSA?

No. But I'm a firm believer that if you have nothing to hide, don't put passwords on everything and act all shady.

My phone, Mac, her phone, her laptop, etc have no passwords on them. My wife and I share debit pins with each other. You name it. There are no secrets between us. I once had a girl kiss me 8 years ago on the lips (I didn't reciprocate, I pushed her off) and I still told her even when she was just my GF of less than a year at the time.

Like I said. No secrets. No passwords. No shady business. I hate seeing people suffer and agonize because they don't know if their SO is cheating on them or not. Having that piece of mind is extremely rewarding.

 

[Tadaima]

Yeah, we broke up that time for a few weeks. It was unrelated to this mess. I went looking out for her and we decided to give it another shot.

Skeptical. We're gonna need more.

 

[-duskdoll-]

Yeah, we broke up that time for a few weeks. It was unrelated to this mess. I went looking out for her and we decided to give it another shot.

I ALWAYS BELIEVED IN YOU OP

 

[Hjod]

(10-10-2014, 07:10 AM)

I think you're all getting screwed with.

Well, I've been had. Damnit, so promising.

 

[Delio]

Yeah, we broke up that time for a few weeks. It was unrelated to this mess. I went looking out for her and we decided to give it another shot.

 

[C.Dark.DN]

Yeah, we broke up that time for a few weeks. It was unrelated to this mess. I went looking out for her and we decided to give it another shot.

On 9/25 you say you broke up for good and that she has a 8 year old kid.

Why would you even think about trying to get her fired if she has a kid?

 

[Sai-kun]

Yeah, we broke up that time for a few weeks. It was unrelated to this mess. I went looking out for her and we decided to give it another shot.

 

[Ties]

what kinda witch hunt

 

[kitchenmotors]

On 9/25 you say you broke up for good and that she has a 8 year old kid.

Why would you even think about trying to get her fired if she has a kid?

oop

 

[Revoh]

There we go. Can I ask why you two broke up?

Yeah, we used to fight a lot for trivial things. That time we broke it didn't really feel like "it's over", you know. It was more like... Geez, let me get some air for a few weeks.
Also, I didn't go out with that chick again. I stayed at home watching GoT like the loser I am until we talked again

 

[-duskdoll-]

SLUUUUURRRPP

 

[Goro Majima]

I think this warrants a Lionel Mandrake summary post no?

 

[Azuran]

Yeah, we broke up that time for a few weeks. It was unrelated to this mess. I went looking out for her and we decided to give it another shot.

I love you OP, but I don't think I can ever trust you anymore.

 

[Always-honest]

(10-10-2014, 07:10 AM)

I think you're all getting screwed with.

Oh..not another internet toughguy....

 

[Crabernacle]

are people seriously telling the guy to put its nose on anoher marriage? u live in real life? if your girlfriend cheats you..just leave..dont start any wars..no..it will get worse..just leave man..its just a girlfriend..no your wife..u dont have any children..its a fucking golden bridge to a better future

all the people claming revenge are ....lol people..grow up...real life its not a game

You can put your nose in another man's marriage if he tries to put his dick in your girl. Respect the sanctity of marriage of a dude trying his damnedest to step out? Fuck. That.

edit: That is, if this scenario is in fact real.

 

[Tabris]

Revoh
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(09-25-2014, 05:14 AM)
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#19617
I broke up with my girlfriend for good yesterday.
I'll be honest... I didn't see a future with her.
I'm 25 and she's 28.
She's a single mom (has a kid, 8 years old) and even though we get along really well, things started getting serious and I'm not ready for that kind of commitment. She was devastated, I've never seen someone cry so much.
I'm calm because I know I did the right thing, I had to be 100% honest with her.
Dating single moms is fucking hard.
We dated for 6 months.

Hmmm?

 

[NotTheGuyYouKill]

On 9/25 you say you broke up for good and that she has a 8 year old kid.

Why would you even think about trying to get her fired if she has a kid?

 

[FZZ]

Fuck up the guy's marriage. Especially if he knew you existed.

As fucked up as it is

Do it

 

[Subtle]

I feel betrayed. Almost like I just got emotionally cheated on by the OP.

 

[Battlesmurf]

End it.

This.

Also, I know many people here aren't fans and will say "stay out of it", but the wife needs to know, too. Your (X) is not long term material if she can do that sort of thing to you. She was a stones throw away from physical cheating, but it's still cheating. Cut your losses man, in the long run this kind of stuff is really harmful and there are better people out there that are more honest.

That being said- it sucks that you had to snoop to find out. In the long run, if you stay- you'll probably always have a bit of paranoia- and that wouldn't be fair to either of you. Find a person that you don't have to snoop to get info.

 

[farisr]

Hmmm?

Well with that, girlfriend of 10 months does kinda match up with the timeline.

 

[VanWinkle]

Hmmm?

Hmm. I mean, the timing with the OP does kind of line up, though. It's not too inconceivable to think they ended up getting back together.

 

[bud]

op

don't do this to me

i still believe in you

i choose to believe in you

prove all of these naysayers wrong

prove them wrong

 

[Kieli]

There's more twist and turns in this thread than an entry of Metal Gear Solid.

 

[Tadaima]

I think this warrants a Lionel Mandrake summary post no?

I've been expecting it every time we hit another increment of 50 posts for a while now.

This thread is just getting started.

 

[kitchenmotors]

I feel betrayed. Almost like I just got emotionally cheated on by the OP.

Same.

 

[-duskdoll-]

Well with that, girlfriend of 10 months does kinda match up with the timeline.

 

[jts]

Even if the new facts are true, it's harder to sympathise if it was an on and off relationship and involved dating other girls during the off periods.

CHRISTMAS

RUUUUIIIIIIINNNEEED

 

[Revoh]

I said a few posts ago we had our ups and downs. Are you seriously all having perfect relationships? If so, I'd like to know the secret to achieve that.

 

[Battlesmurf]

You can put your nose in another man's marriage if he tries to put his dick in your girl. Respect the sanctity of marriage of a dude trying his damnedest to step out? Fuck. That.

edit: That is, if this scenario is in fact real.

This, soooo this. There are tons who defend cheaters, I wish I could understand but I can't. The spouse didn't choose to be cheated on- no matter how they are. It's a dangerous game that could serious affect everybody who is involved (stds, pregnancies and such).

 

[NotTheGuyYouKill]

 

[DY_nasty]

how do we even know the OP was still 'with' the woman when he started going through all of her emails,skypes, etc?

 

[Dunkley]

But... why would he lie about this?

 

[Sesuadra]

this shit is getting good. but I have soon go to bed. how about one last story twist for me until I read everything else tomorrow to catch up?

 

[not_so_special]

You can put your nose in another man's marriage if he tries to put his dick in your girl. Respect the sanctity of marriage of a dude trying his damnedest to step out? Fuck. That.

edit: That is, if this scenario is in fact real.

no you cant..and you will a lot of flak with that...revenge histories doesnt end well..just leave...

 

[I'm an expert]

Post the Skype logs and pictures/videos. Make the necessary edits.

 

[Lazyslob]

OP i was about to call you the man but if you are lying to me :'(

 

[kmax]

Yeah, we broke up that time for a few weeks. It was unrelated to this mess. I went looking out for her and we decided to give it another shot.

 

[Via Purifico]

how do we even know the OP was still 'with' the woman when he started going through all of her emails,skypes, etc?

If she even exists

Come on OP speak up and defend yourself.

 

[luckyboyceo]

how do we even know the OP was still 'with' the woman when he started going through all of her emails,skypes, etc?

Would make for a hell of a twist.

 

[Tabris]

Hmm. I mean, the timing with the OP does kind of line up, though. It's not too inconceivable to think they ended up getting back together.

I think I believe that. But there's a lot more facts to the story. He dumped her due to committal issues. She was devastated. She is a single mother.

Maybe she was getting back at him in a shitty way?

 

[kitchenmotors]

But... why would he lie about this?

GAF fame is an addicting drug.

 

[Go_Ly_Dow]

(10-10-2014, 07:10 AM)

I think you're all getting screwed with.

WHAT A FUCKING TWIST

 

[Ninja Scooter]

I said a few posts ago we had our ups and downs. Are you seriously all having perfect relationships? If so, I'd like to know the secret to achieve that.

You dated other girls, she flirted over texts/IM with other guys. You guys are peas in a pod. I wonder if she would try and get you fired over it though.

 

[C.Dark.DN]

Hmm. I mean, the timing with the OP does kind of line up, though. It's not too inconceivable to think they ended up getting back together.

Yeah. It's weird he only mentions the other guys kid and not hers in this thread tho.