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[CosmicSmash]

Fuck up the guy's marriage. Especially if he knew you existed.

 

[enoki]

So I'm kinda new at this dating thing. I know how to talk to women, I have no problem doing that. I recently asked a girl out and took her out to dinner, we had a great time and at the end of the night I went for the kiss and she rejected me.
We went out again and had another great time but I didn't go for the kiss because I didn't want to be shut down again (I actually said her this, in a funny way), she kissed me on the cheeks and we called a night.
The thing is, I don't know, I've just broke up with my ex GF a few weeks ago and I'm not looking anything serious, but maybe she is, should I tell her this? I think she is way too innocent and doesn't want to fool around - she wants a BF.
I like the girl but I won't be going on a third date if I know I'm not going to get a little physical with her, at least.

(10-10-2014, 07:10 AM)

I think you're all getting screwed with.

 

[Rur0ni]

OP is only prolonging his own pain by getting involved in another person's marriage. I hope I'm wrong.

Sometimes your fellow man needs help and you get involved. Can't be self-centered all the time.

+1

Let the wife be able to make a good decision for her and her kid just as the OP was able to make one for himself.

If i was being cheated on i would want someone to tell me.

We're assuming people want what we want. Maybe she prefers to be oblivious.

Maybe the wife also cheats. Maybe she abuses the husband. Maybe she cuts herself, and will now commit suicide. Maybe she'll hurt their kid, or husband, or them both. Maybe she'll become so emotionally detached that she neglects her family and this has some long term effect on the kid. Who knows?

I still think the right course of action was to eject and separate entirely rather than inject more turmoil into the situation.

Edit:

(10-10-2014, 07:10 AM)

I think you're all getting screwed with.

There we go.

 

[alatif113]

BTW his username and "GAF" are only there because he redacted his real name and company. Some people seemed to not get this.

 

[kitchenmotors]

Nobody's on the husband's side though.

Haha, true.

 

[NotTheGuyYouKill]

(10-10-2014, 07:10 AM)

I think you're all getting screwed with.

Sterling detective work, son.

 

[VanWinkle]

(10-10-2014, 07:10 AM)

I think you're all getting screwed with.

Hmm maybe that's the "we were working through things" thing he was talking about.

 

[Kambing]

(10-10-2014, 07:10 AM)

I think you're all getting screwed with.

Shit just got real

 

[timetokill]

I think you acted too quickly OP. You should've seethed a bit longer and come up with a plan that was truly memorable.

Ah well, live and learn.

 

[Sai-kun]

hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

 

[kitchenmotors]

(10-10-2014, 07:10 AM)

I think you're all getting screwed with.

oop

 

[cuevas. PhD.]

(10-10-2014, 07:10 AM)

I think you're all getting screwed with.

Shiiieeeeet

 

[Servbot24]

We're assuming people want what we want. Maybe she prefers to be oblivious.

Maybe the wife also cheats. Maybe she abuses the husband. Maybe she cuts herself, and will now commit suicide. Maybe she'll hurt their kid, or husband, or them both. Maybe she'll become so emotionally detached that she neglects her family and this has some long term effect on the kid. Who knows?

I still think the right course of action was to eject and separate entirely rather than inject more turmoil into the situation.

You can't live life in fear of infinite "what if" scenarios. You could just as easily make up things that might happen if the lie continues. May as well leave fate up to truth.

 

[Metaroo]

.... Gaf...?

 

[diaspora]

(10-10-2014, 07:10 AM)

I think you're all getting screwed with.

I'm in a 10 month relationship with this girl who is incredible in several ways but at the same time poisons me a lot.

ruh roh

 

[luckyboyceo]

(10-10-2014, 07:10 AM)

I think you're all getting screwed with.

I wanted to believe.

 

[Tabris]

(10-10-2014, 07:10 AM)

I think you're all getting screwed with.

Man WTF. Can't trust anyone on the internet. I was actually invested in finding out how this went - and it was all made up.

EDIT - Maybe he got back with his ex-girlfriend? Well that still adds another dynamic to this whole conversation.

 

[farisr]

(10-10-2014, 07:10 AM)

I think you're all getting screwed with.

Looks like it. Looks like OP is looking for a tag or a ban. (not sure if this is bannable). Though the topic will probably get closed any minute now.

Edit:

Could be the rough patch he mentioned.

possibly. But I wouldn't call being broken up for a few weeks and dating someone else a "rough patch"

But yeah, now it's just that much harder to believe even if he says that this is what happened during that since this information wasn't in the original post. It'll be a #teamreal #teamfake kind of thing now.

 

[kitchenmotors]

I knew it. This story had BULLSHIT written all over it.

 

[udiie]

MNight.jpeg

 

[Coldnoodle]

(10-10-2014, 07:10 AM)

I think you're all getting screwed with.

 

[Crabernacle]

...but I was told there would be scorched earth.

 

[Hagi]

(10-10-2014, 07:10 AM)

I think you're all getting screwed with.

OP what have you done..

 

[Via Purifico]

 

[Tertullian]

(10-10-2014, 07:10 AM)

I think you're all getting screwed with.

Oh shit oh shit he got me gud.

 

[jts]

(10-10-2014, 07:10 AM)

I think you're all getting screwed with.

 

[-duskdoll-]

Hmm maybe that's the "we were working through things" thing he was talking about.

I think so too. Believe.

 

[Servbot24]

Looks like it. Looks like OP is looking for a tag or a ban. (not sure if this is bannable). Though the topic will probably get closed any minute now.

Could be the rough patch he mentioned.

 

[Altered Juice]

(10-10-2014, 07:10 AM)

I think you're all getting screwed with.

get bodied

 

[LeleSocho]

(10-10-2014, 07:10 AM)

I think you're all getting screwed with.

boooo op booooooooooo

 

[hunnies28]

(10-10-2014, 07:10 AM)

I think you're all getting screwed with.

DetectiveGAF always delivers.

 

[Tadaima]

(10-10-2014, 07:10 AM)

I think you're all getting screwed with.

Dear OP,

 

[kitchenmotors]

I think so too. Believe.

He said he was kinda new to the dating thing tho. I don't think so.

Call out her LIES.

 

[Revoh]

Yeah, we broke up that time for a few weeks. It was unrelated to this mess. I went looking out for her and we decided to give it another shot.

 

[redhood56]

Edit: never mind.

 

[Tabris]

EDITED - I edited to just 1 boo this man after the explanation.

 

[RM8]

¿Por qué?

 

[Vincent Alexander]

I think he should have a chance to explain first.

 

[jayu26]

This thread has achieved God status.

 

[The Purple Pill]

Call the guy's wife, and inform her of what you know, and then cut off your GF, she sounds like more trouble than she's worth.

Revenge, is a dish, best served cold.

EDIT: oh wait, we got trolled?

 

[kmax]

Shit just gets better and better.

We're reaching gold status.

 

[Mr.Ock]

(10-10-2014, 07:10 AM)

I think you're all getting screwed with.

Why does something like this always have to come out?

 

[not_so_special]

are people seriously telling the guy to put its nose on anoher marriage? u live in real life? if your girlfriend cheats you..just leave..dont start any wars..no..it will get worse..just leave man..its just a girlfriend..no your wife..u dont have any children..its a fucking golden bridge to a better future

all the people claming revenge are ....lol people..grow up...real life its not a game

 

[Vincent Alexander]

Yeah, we broke up that time for a few weeks. It was unrelated to this mess. I went looking out for her and we decided to give it another shot.

There we go. Can I ask why you two broke up?

And fuck that guy. Yes. Tell his wife. She's an adult and all the what-ifs and maybes don't matter. Let her know, and she can take it from there.

 

[Makki]

If you guys were on and off then she wasnt taking it seriously then

 

[Mollymauk]

Nothing stokes GAF's fury like an unfaithful woman.

 

[Coldnoodle]

Yeah, we broke up that time for a few weeks. It was unrelated to this mess. I went looking out for her and we decided to give it another shot.

 

[-duskdoll-]

He said he was kinda new to the dating thing tho. I don't think so.

Call out her LIES.

Maybe she was his first girlfriend and didn't know how to meet someone after they broke up...

 

[Servbot24]

Nothing stokes GAF's fury like an unfaithful woman.

That's because it fucking hurts.

 

[sam777]

(10-10-2014, 07:10 AM)

I think you're all getting screwed with.

He played us like a damn fiddle.