Girlfriend emotionally cheated on me

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Sn4ke_911

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OP after finding out what's going on in this thread.

Someone change the youtube pics with pics from this thread.

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jts

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this shit is getting good. but I have soon go to bed. how about one last story twist for me until I read everything else tomorrow to catch up?

Here's what's gonna happen, you'll go to bed, shit will hit the fan so hard that the thread will be deleted and no one will be allowed to talk about these events even via PM.

Better stay awake, son.

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Revoh

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how do we even know the OP was still 'with' the woman when he started going through all of her emails,skypes, etc?

Because I only read her logs from December which as I explained was the month the relationship got stronger.

You all need to chill the fuck out
 

Tadaima

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Revoh
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(09-25-2014, 05:14 AM)
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I broke up with my girlfriend for good yesterday.
I'll be honest... I didn't see a future with her.
I'm 25 and she's 28.
She's a single mom (has a kid, 8 years old) and even though we get along really well, things started getting serious and I'm not ready for that kind of commitment. She was devastated, I've never seen someone cry so much.
I'm calm because I know I did the right thing, I had to be 100% honest with her.
Dating single moms is fucking hard.
We dated for 6 months.

Hmmm?

Actually, things do add up.

9/25: "Broke up yesterday"; "dated 6 months"
10/10: "Broke up with my ex GF a few weeks ago"
12/27: Mentions problems; "dated 10 months"

A contradiction is this (10/10):

I recently asked a girl out and took her out to dinner, we had a great time and at the end of the night I went for the kiss and she rejected me.
We went out again and had another great time but I didn't go for the kiss because I didn't want to be shut down again (I actually said her this, in a funny way), she kissed me on the cheeks and we called a night.

Against this (12/27):

She knows I don't fuck around with other girls, I've told her several times my iPhone code and she can look at it whenever she wants.
I could sense she was hiding something.
At this point I let things be. That was 3 months ago.
 

Lebron

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You went out with other girls while she talked to a guy who was more interesting than you could ever be. I don't get why you mad.
 

VanWinkle

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I think I believe that. But there's a lot more facts to the story. He dumped her due to committal issues. She was devastated. She is a single mother.

Maybe she was getting back at him in a shitty way?

Yeah. It's weird he only mentions the other guys kid and not hers in this thread tho.

True.

I still think he's telling the truth with this stuff, even if he did leave out a few important details in the OP.
 

I'm an expert

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Because I only read her logs from December which as I explained was the month the relationship got stronger.

You all need to chill the fuck out

dude you're talking about how she's poison when it's an on and off relationship with a single mother where you date other women in between.. Why the fuck were you catching feelings in the first place

post some pics or let it go
 

Servbot24

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You went out with other girls while she talked to a guy who was more interesting than you could ever be. I don't get why you mad.
Sounds like he a saw another girl while he was single, and she was talking to the guy while they were together.
 

Revoh

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You know what's funny, I literally told her that I went out with a chick but nothing happened and she was kinda cool with it. Those were the most depressive weeks of my year, so I guess I'm heading that way again after this shit ends.
 

Makki

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You know what's funny, I literally told her that I went out with a chick but nothing happened and she was kinda cool with it. Those were the most depressive weeks of my year, so I guess I'm heading that way again after this shit ends.

Nothing happened because your date didnt let it happen though
 

Hagi

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You know what's funny, I literally told her that I went out with a chick but nothing happened and she was kinda cool with it. Those were the most depressive weeks of my year, so I guess I'm heading that way again after this shit ends.

To be fair it's not like she slurped that guys milkshake.
 

DY_nasty

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No it's not, he was pursuing other girls when they were broken up, not while they were dating.

i'm just saying

for some people its 'off and on' but to the other person in the relationship they still think its alive and strong and whatnot

going by the history on display so far it looks to be VERY clear that she's moved on since that last ordeal
 

Principate

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You know what's funny, I literally told her that I went out with a chick but nothing happened and she was kinda cool with it. Those were the most depressive weeks of my year, so I guess I'm heading that way again after this shit ends.

Kinda if your in this mess she clearly wasn't all that cool with it. That's not to say it's your fault I don't have enough information for that. Depends on how clean the break up was.
 
relationship is only 10 months old, and not even steady during that time to the point where he goes on multiple dates with other women, and homeboy wants to go all "Waiting to Exhale" because she e-flirted with some other dude. Should have just let it go, OP.
 

C.Dark.DN

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True.

I still think he's telling the truth with this stuff, even if he did leave out a few important details in the OP.
I'd be discussing having to say goodbye to the kid as well in this thread. And the job ending discussions would end with not being able to fuck up her income to mess with the kids life.
 

Revoh

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Sounds like he a saw another girl while he was single, and she was talking to the guy while they were together.

This. I don't know why you guys are all worked up about it. We took a break. I don't care if she fucked other guys that time. The problem this thread is talking about is about recent events
 

Tabris

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With everything said, that wife still deserves to know. That's the person who's cheating spouse is the true issue. Only thing he has done out of bounds so far is say he could destroy her career / get her fired. That was obviously ridiculous but he didn't actually go through it. May have been hyped up by GAF's scorched earth without the full story.
 

Rur0ni

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You went out with other girls while she talked to a guy who was more interesting than you could ever be. I don't get why you mad.
Pretty much. Like I said before, she opened up to a guy who she actually wanted, and he had to see it. Sucks for him. And now he's told the wife, who knows what will happen next. How messy.
 

Azuran

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This. I don't know why you guys are all worked up about it. We took a break. I don't care if she fucked other guys that time. The problem this thread is talking about is about recent events

OP, I want to BELIEVE, but GAF has let me down so many times. I don't know if I can take another disappointment.
 

Furyous

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You should dump her, get her fired, and ruin the guy's marriage. At this point it's time to move on. If she wants to cheat that badly then free her and let her live that life.
 

DY_nasty

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This. I don't know why you guys are all worked up about it. We took a break. I don't care if she fucked other guys that time. The problem this thread is talking about is about recent events

well i mean if the issue was commitment level then i mean... just in my experience, you typically can't go off and on with a single mom like that (still bullshit you're going for her job of all things and you know she's got kids come the fuck on. that's extra trifling)

feels like there's more to this that you either haven't put out or don't know yourself

either way, i'd probably just play it safe and treat this like a good time to break up instead of going for blood
 
relationship is only 10 months old, and not even steady during that time to the point where he goes on multiple dates with other women, and homeboy wants to go all "Waiting to Exhale" because she e-flirted with some other dude. Should have just let it go, OP.

Oh my god...

I literally spit out my coffee.
 
This. I don't know why you guys are all worked up about it. We took a break. I don't care if she fucked other guys that time. The problem this thread is talking about is about recent events

She was probably wrong, but the fact that you were going on dates just a couple months before tells me the relationships wasn't nearly strong enough to warrant the mess that followed. A few months of an up and down relationship ending=say peace and move on, not contemplating getting her fired and getting yourself involved in some other stranger's problems. Sounds way over the top.
 

I'm an expert

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This. I don't know why you guys are all worked up about it. We took a break. I don't care if she fucked other guys that time. The problem this thread is talking about is about recent events

yeah but in the back of her head she knows this relationship sucks. The other dude is an adult with kids and a failing relationship, something she relates to..hence their adult convos being nothing like yours. To her you're just a little kid filling in the gap. You shouldn't take this shit personal anymore, drop it and move on
 

VanWinkle

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This. I don't know why you guys are all worked up about it. We took a break. I don't care if she fucked other guys that time. The problem this thread is talking about is about recent events

True. And she definitely is the one at fault here in this situation. She shouldn't be doing this while you two are together.
 
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