Girlfriend emotionally cheated on me

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Odd... Kids from the family are involved. I don't believe it was right for op to do that if kids are involved. Now they get to suffer through the screaming, crying and toxicity of it all. Sure the dude and his gf essentially caused it, but I feel op did it for his own selfish benefit of "vengeance". I would have left it up to the dude to tell his wife what happened to save the kids from going through the more traumatic shock the wife got from op....
 
Odd... Kids from the family are involved. I don't believe it was right for op to do that if kids are involved. Now they get to suffer through the screaming, crying and toxicity of it all. Sure the dude and his gf essentially caused it, but I feel op did it for his own selfish benefit of "vengeance". I would have left it up to the dude to tell his wife what happened to save the kids from going through the more traumatic shock the wife got from op....

Was going to happen sooner or later. The husband is cheating on the wife... And this probably isn't even the first or last time. The wife deserves to know.
 
Ok, so the person responded and it's actually her nephew. He sent me his aunt (the wife) number so... here we go. I'm going to let her know I've left her a message on her FB profile.
 
I would have left it up to the dude to tell his wife what happened to save the kids from going through the more traumatic shock the wife got from op....

How naive are you to think this guy is going to tell his wife he's cheating on her? lol

OP did the right thing.
 
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Ok, so the person responded and it's actually her nephew. He sent me his aunt (the wife) number so... here we go. I'm going to let her know I've left her a message on her FB profile.

Your ex told the guy and he is pretending to be a nephew. He gave you another girl number.

Why would a nephew have access to his aunt's account?
 
Your ex told the guy and he is pretending to be a nephew. He gave you another girl number.

Why would a nephew have access to his aunt's account?

No dude.
I've found the nephew's FB account. Found a post with his phone number. Sent him a message via Whatsapp and he sent me his aunt's number. I can see their Whatsapp avatars and everything matches up. Relax, take a seat
 
Your ex told the guy and he is pretending to be a nephew. He gave you another girl number.

Why would a nephew have access to his aunt's account?


It's a trap!

The nephew is the husband. The plan has been foiled. Your girl told the guy.

Look up the number on google and see where it goes first!!
 
Your ex told the guy and he is pretending to be a nephew. He gave you another girl number.

Why would a nephew have access to his aunt's account?

You may be missed this post:

So I been looking at the wife's FB profile and found a person with her last name, so I click on his profile and start looking around, I found a post from some time ago where he posted his cellphone number so now I've sent him a message via Whatsapp. He might be her family, I don't know. I just want him to let the woman know I've sent her a message. Let's see where this goes.
 
OP, when you have the update of the wife, put a a title with all bold letters. So we posters know its important to read...

I feel like actually getting popcorn to watch all this unfold.
 
The wife received the message on Whatsapp but hasn't read it yet. Her last connection was 15 hours ago so it could take a while to hear from her.
 
The wife received the message on Whatsapp but hasn't read it yet. Her last connection was 15 hours ago so it could take a while to hear from her.

OP, what if your ex told the guy, and now the guy has a check on the wife. Thus, your messages will never be received, because he has deleted them. :(
 
OP, what if your ex told the guy, and now the guy has a check on the wife. Thus, your messages will never be received, because he has deleted them. :(

OP already said he will call the wife on monday if he can't reach her otherwise. I doubt the husband can cut all communication.
 
Suspense is fucking killing me!!! I found this thread 1 hour ago, read the whole thing and now I can't stop refreshing!!!

Did you send a text to/call the wife yet? The nephew gave you her cell right?
 
Thread of the year.

Part 1
- Op stuck in shitty situation
- Takes GAF's advice
- Has the balls of steel to take a stand


Part 2
- Has told the cheating husband's wife of the cheating
- Now the guy's nephew knows
- If no response, will call on Monday


What a ride, and it's not even over yet. Bravo OP, you'll be a stronger person at the end of all this. You already are.
 
Odd... Kids from the family are involved. I don't believe it was right for op to do that if kids are involved. Now they get to suffer through the screaming, crying and toxicity of it all. Sure the dude and his gf essentially caused it, but I feel op did it for his own selfish benefit of "vengeance". I would have left it up to the dude to tell his wife what happened to save the kids from going through the more traumatic shock the wife got from op....
Yeah right. And he would have given her an unicorn as an apology.

So if your SO cheated on you, you wouldn't want to be told by someone else.
 
That's not exactly right though.
My penis thread has nothing to do with my current ex.
I was with another girl at that time.
My ex never mentioned my penis, it helps that she is small as fuck though, really petite.
Anyways... hopefully the wife sees the FB message today.

Better hope your ex doesn't tell the guy, who goes into his wife's facebook and deletes it.

She rarely uses it you say? Bet he knows how to get in though. "Oh the password is our our son's birthday".
 
similar thing happened to me, where i ended up finding out what she was saying to this guy. she was telling her sister that what she was writing this guy was just criminal. so after a few days of spying i got all the info i needed.

left work that day, ended the relationship right there and then. do it man. be calm, dont mention anything, just say you need a break or something. and just leave. it will be the best thing to ever happen to you, for you to make that decision and be a man about it. at least for that moment.

then you can be like me and threow everything at her face afterwards and call her out on the skype thing and stuff.

edit: just read the update. good work op, i am very proud. you did the right thing and had the balls to do it.
 
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