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Is that your way of saying your penis is shaped like the mcdonald's logo?
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did i convince you to play trails in the sky?

Kind of, sort of. I like the story structure you described a lot, which has me even more interested now. The main problem is that I don't have anything that can play PSP games at the moment, nor do I have a Windows PC. However, I plan on getting a new computer in early 2016 that will likely have Windows on it (either by itself or by bootcamping it), so I'll add it to my Steam wishlist and think about buying it then. (I'm following the same approach with the Ys series) Thanks for your description!
 
Always wanted to try the TiTS game but then I realize I have wayy too much game I'd like to play/have to finish and very little time to play them so taking on an apparently huge jrpg is kind of daunting.

Anybody have tattoos they ragret?

I only have a small on on my shoulder blade, it's kind of a souvenir from my one year trip to the US. I tend to forget I even have it since I never see it directly.

Almost got more after the first one (apparently it's a thing, you get "addicted" to tattoos and you always want more), but thankfully I got over it because seeing the design I wanted back then, it would have looked dumb.
 
i was looking at rent offers on craigslist and saw that a lot of the ones in the city thats close her have "lgbt friendly" or "lgbt welcome" and i thought that was cute
 
Always wanted to try the TiTS game but then I realize I have wayy too much game I'd like to play/have to finish and very little time to play them so taking on an apparently huge jrpg is kind of daunting.



I only have a small on on my shoulder blade, it's kind of a souvenir from my one year trip to the US. I tend to forget I even have it since I never see it directly.

Almost got more after the first one (apparently it's a thing, you get "addicted" to tattoos and you always want more), but thankfully I got over it because seeing the design I wanted back then, it would have looked dumb.

The addiction comment is so true. I have two (one last year in May, one this past February) and I'm so ready for #3 and beyond. To make sure I don't get too carried away, I'm limiting myself to one a year.
So this coming January, it's so on...

Given that I want to be a lawyer
and think tattoos on necks, hands, faces don't look that great, nor do I think a sleeve would look good on me personally
, I'll probably just get like five more small ones in select areas and then I'm good.
 
The addiction comment is so true. I have two (one last year in May, one this past February) and I'm so ready for #3 and beyond. To make sure I don't get too carried away, I'm limiting myself to one a year.
So this coming January, it's so on...

Given that I want to be a lawyer
and think tattoos on necks, hands, faces don't look that great, nor do I think a sleeve would look good on me personally
, I'll probably just get like five more small ones in select areas and then I'm good.

So a peen tattoo?
 
I only have a small on on my shoulder blade, it's kind of a souvenir from my one year trip to the US. I tend to forget I even have it since I never see it directly.

Almost got more after the first one (apparently it's a thing, you get "addicted" to tattoos and you always want more), but thankfully I got over it because seeing the design I wanted back then, it would have looked dumb.
Is it embarrassing or anything, or you've just concluded since that tattoos aren't your thing, including that one?
 
Tattoos are addictive, I'm on 5 so far including whole back and half sleeve. I've already got several more planned too, it's just time and money stopping me getting them all.

And no, I don't regret any of them.
 
Kind of, sort of. I like the story structure you described a lot, which has me even more interested now. The main problem is that I don't have anything that can play PSP games at the moment, nor do I have a Windows PC. However, I plan on getting a new computer in early 2016 that will likely have Windows on it (either by itself or by bootcamping it), so I'll add it to my Steam wishlist and think about buying it then. (I'm following the same approach with the Ys series) Thanks for your description!

Well hopefully by the time you play it Second Chapter will be out and then you can just jump right into it without a harrowing wait for the conclusion to the cliff hanger.

Sad that there's probably no way we'll get Third though.
 
Guys, I have a blind-date with someone and we decided to make it a hiking date. I was really excited about the whole thing till I realized I'm potentially gonna be all alone with a total stranger out in the mountains/woods.

Would I be a crazy, Paranoid-Peter if I hit the dude up and asked that we do coffee or whatever (anything in a public place) for our first meet up instead?
 
Guys, I have a blind-date with someone and we decided to make it a hiking date. I was really excited about the whole thing till I realized I'm potentially gonna be all alone with a total stranger out in the mountains/woods.

Would I be a crazy, Paranoid-Peter if I hit the dude up and asked that we do coffee or whatever (anything in a public place) for our first meet up instead?
A hike sounds like a bad blind date, and I totally get your reservations about it.
I'm sure the guy would understand too. Coffee (in a public place to boot) is way safer (and makes more sense for a first date)

Plus I can't imagine you'd have much fun if you were constantly worried.
 
Guys, I have a blind-date with someone and we decided to make it a hiking date. I was really excited about the whole thing till I realized I'm potentially gonna be all alone with a total stranger out in the mountains/woods.

Would I be a crazy, Paranoid-Peter if I hit the dude up and asked that we do coffee or whatever (anything in a public place) for our first meet up instead?

Sounds fine to me. You don't have to explain why, since I think that's a reasonable first date anyway, and if he asks, you can easily make up some kind of a reason. If things go well, that'll make for a funny story later ("Before I met you, I used to think you might be a murderous psychopath!"). You could potentially be honest about your reasoning, too, but that would take a certain dynamic and tone. Regardless, I think you're fine with changing it and are making a sound decision.
 
Guys, I have a blind-date with someone and we decided to make it a hiking date. I was really excited about the whole thing till I realized I'm potentially gonna be all alone with a total stranger out in the mountains/woods.

Would I be a crazy, Paranoid-Peter if I hit the dude up and asked that we do coffee or whatever (anything in a public place) for our first meet up instead?

plug phone into backup battery. turn on high mode for location. download app that tracks your location in real time. (y) good luck have fun. stay safe.
 
Is it embarrassing or anything, or you've just concluded since that tattoos aren't your thing, including that one?

No not really embarrassing, I still like it. Tend to show it to people when drunk, I'll try to post a picture later today if you want.
It's just been about 7 years since I got it so I don't think about it much anymore, it was a fun experience, I just don't feel the need for more right now :)
 
Sounds fine to me. You don't have to explain why, since I think that's a reasonable first date anyway, and if he asks, you can easily make up some kind of a reason. If things go well, that'll make for a funny story later ("Before I met you, I used to think you might be a murderous psychopath!"). You could potentially be honest about your reasoning, too, but that would take a certain dynamic and tone. Regardless, I think you're fine with changing it and are making a sound decision.

Sounds good to me too. If the date goes well, apologize and decide to go on a hike for a later meetup.
 
What's a good thing to put down on "Most Private Thing I am Willing to Admit" on OKCupid? I'm actually not very comfortable talking about private things to people I will ever meet in real life. Though putting nothing looks bad, and putting certain things could be oversharing.
 
What's a good thing to put down on "Most Private Thing I am Willing to Admit" on OKCupid? I'm actually not very comfortable talking about private things to people I will ever meet in real life. Though putting nothing looks bad, and putting certain things could be oversharing.

Maybe keep it light and put something you're scared of that isn't a big deal (spiders, heights) or a hobby you have that may seem surprising if you never went out of your way to mention it.
 
So it seems I'll be starting a second Bachelor degree (even tho I'm finishing a Post-grad degree right now) in a new city next September. Dunno if I'm excited or bummed. :/

I need to buy a Mac from school at almost 4K$CDN, even though my PC from last year is better. Fuck.
 
What's a good thing to put down on "Most Private Thing I am Willing to Admit" on OKCupid? I'm actually not very comfortable talking about private things to people I will ever meet in real life. Though putting nothing looks bad, and putting certain things could be oversharing.
I put 'If you have to ask, you'll never know...' on my bio, which lead to a ton of people asking. My answer changed from person to person.
 
What's a good thing to put down on "Most Private Thing I am Willing to Admit" on OKCupid? I'm actually not very comfortable talking about private things to people I will ever meet in real life. Though putting nothing looks bad, and putting certain things could be oversharing.

Putting "I'm actually not very comfortable talking about private things to people I will ever meet in real life" or a more humours version thereof might not be the worst thing ever. But then again I'm a sucker for the meta/snark aspect of it and I'm not sure of what vibe you're going for.
 
No not really embarrassing, I still like it. Tend to show it to people when drunk, I'll try to post a picture later today if you want.
It's just been about 7 years since I got it so I don't think about it much anymore, it was a fun experience, I just don't feel the need for more right now :)

Good you don't regret it, show it to us!

What's a good thing to put down on "Most Private Thing I am Willing to Admit" on OKCupid? I'm actually not very comfortable talking about private things to people I will ever meet in real life. Though putting nothing looks bad, and putting certain things could be oversharing.

I put that I own a blanket with sleeves and I have never received any responses
 
Thanks for the feedback guys.


I put that I own a blanket with sleeves and I have never received any responses

Oh god like a snuggie? This sounds magical and supplying us with a photo is only the gentlemanly thing to do. (I'm picturing it with a McDonalds Grimace pattern.)
 
So in a couple of days I have a meetup/date(?) with a guy I'd been talking to for about a month off and on. We'll be going to the river that cuts through the city I live in (I've taken pictures that I posted earlier in the thread. This will be the first time I'll be
non-sexually
hanging out with a new guy since everything with my friend that I was crushing on who has gotten serious with another guy happened. I definitely feel like this will be good for me, and I want to try to get the most out of this experience, while still having no explicit expectations. I want to just enjoy this guys company and get to know him, and hope he'll do the same for me.

Speaking of friend and his boyfriend, the DC Pride Parade is coming up this weekend. It looks like the plan is going to be that we head out Friday night, stay there all of Saturday for the parade, and then leave Sunday morning or afternoon. I'm pretty excited for the weekend out now that it's getting closer, but I won't lie that I'm still nervous about the whole situation of hanging out with my friend and his boyfriend (who I still haven't met yet so Friday will be the first time).

We've still been talking and hanging out regularly, and up until a few days ago I felt like I was becoming more used being able to handle the idea of them together (ie hearing him share minor concerns about the relationship, giving my thoughts if he asked for them, general encouragement). But the last time we hung out, I was curious and asked him about what it was like when they made it official. It's not my first time being curious about stuff like that, so I was surprised that him describing it made me come very close to crying for about a minute. I didn't cry fortunately, but it was the first time I came close to crying about the situation. Hearing about them getting more committed and even me admitting my feelings I had for him didn't lead to this reaction yet this one question out of the blue in an otherwise casual conversation almost did it for me. I should add that I don't necessarily mind the idea of shedding tears about this situation if it was more private or even with other friends, but I'd rather not do so in front of him, and I REALLY don't want to in front of both him and his boyfriend.

I plan to try to personally avoid bringing up the deeper aspects of them being a couple, and instead treat it as one old friend and a new person to get to know. I actually feel like I'd do best trying to focus a good chunk of my conversation on the boyfriend, just so I can better know him as a person. And as I've said before, I really do want to get the most out of this experience, so at the actual parade I'll likely break off at some point and do my own thing. But between the ride up and back, time at the place we're staying, and probably other stuff too, there'll certainly be time where all three of us (and only the three of us) will be together in one place. So I need to make sure that it doesn't become something that gets too awkward in one way or another. In the meantime, it's a very good thing that this date/meetup/hangout/whatever with the guy at the river will be happening in between now and then.

HippieHobo, did you ever decide if you were planning to go the Parade yourself?
 
Hey, some news that's related to two things I love, LGBT news and house music!

Producer 'Ten Walls' gets dropped from his agency and multiple festivals after a homophobic rant on FB

Honestly, this makes me really happy. I was really sad to see the rant he went on, because I really really love his music, but I'll never play his stuff again and certainly wouldn't go see him live. I'm happy about the response that festivals have given, and it's good to see that they won't tolerate that kind of bullshit from the people they hire to play.

edit: i fixed my avvy, ty dragonbabe :3
 
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