How Long Does Sex Normally Last?

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Morrigan Stark said:
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Sounds awful and tedious, sorry. 3-4 hours? I have video games to play!
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It was a joke. Kekeke.
 
Interesting. 5 minutes is "I'm really embarrassed so let me do something else to make up for that quick nut" in my world. Whatever works I guess. I would have considered that a waste of a good condom unless the express goal was something that short (time constraints) which also happens. It's just usually not the goal for me.
 
I feel like I'm a special cornflake. My first time I couldn't finish at all, so we went at it until we were tired.

With my current gf it must be around 15 mins. Keep in mind i could finish earlier and we change positions, but when she asks me to keep going i dial it down.

Doggy is my cryptonite, I dont think i could last more than 3 mins of that continuosly.
 
How often are you marathon men fucking in a week? It's a rare day that my girlfriend and I don't do the deed, but if it took us close to an hour to get our shit done I'd be cutting that way back. Occasionally we'll have a lazy weekend watching movies and boning, where we'll fuck all day, but during the week? Who has time?
 
Salacious Crumb said:
How often are you marathon men fucking in a week? It's a rare day that my girlfriend and I don't do the deed, but if it took us close to an hour to get our shit done I'd be cutting that way back. Occasionally we'll have a lazy weekend watching movies and boning, where we'll fuck all day, but during the week? Who has time?
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It all comes down to how you choose to spend your time. You might spend an hour or so watching TV, reading, ect to wind down at night, others might spend that time licking buttholes and getting their dick sucked instead.
 
Those say say they penetrate for 20+ minutes continuously are probably full of shit. At a certain point you must not be liking what's going on if it takes THAT long.
 
mocolostrocolos said:
Yup, 5 minutes for a quickie sounds good to me.

Some quickies are way more satisfying than long term sex experiences.
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This has some truth to it. Some of the best sex I've ever had was waking up in the morning with raging morning wood and banging one out quick with her, even with morning breath.
 
Slightly off topic, but not worth it's own thread.

I recently hooked up with a friend after some drinking. As we were unbuttoning and removing each other's clothes, she reached to take off my Apple Watch. I said "Leave it on, I want to track the activity" with a wink. She teased me for a bit over it lol.

But I legitimately wanted to track the activity. Would you, or have you ever had sex (the kind you spend a couple hours fucking naked in bed, not the quickies some of you are talking about it) with your smartwatch on? If not, would you consider it a faux pas?
 
A quickie for me means clothing isn't even being taken off all the way... Sub 4 minutes for sure.

I usually put Radiohead "King of Limbs" on start to finish. It's the perfect sound and amount of time for a good bang sesh
 
Tabris said:
Slightly off topic, but not worth it's own thread.

I recently hooked up with a friend after some drinking. As we were unbuttoning and removing each other's clothes, she reached to take off my Apple Watch. I said "Leave it on, I want to track the activity" with a wink. She teased me for a bit over it lol.

But I legitimately wanted to track the activity. Would you, or have you ever had sex (the kind you spend a couple hours fucking naked in bed, not the quickies some of you are talking about it) with your smartwatch on? If not, would you consider it a faux pas?
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You are fucking Patrick Bateman.
 
Tabris said:
Slightly off topic, but not worth it's own thread.

I recently hooked up with a friend after some drinking. As we were unbuttoning and removing each other's clothes, she reached to take off my Apple Watch. I said "Leave it on, I want to track the activity" with a wink. She teased me for a bit over it lol.

But I legitimately wanted to track the activity. Would you, or have you ever had sex (the kind you spend a couple hours fucking naked in bed, not the quickies some of you are talking about it) with your smartwatch on? If not, would you consider it a faux pas?
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Apple watch doesn't have active heart rate monitor, does it? It doesn't really track anything, does it? I always wear my up3, and it knows I'm not sitting still, but it can't do more than that. I really do want to wear my chest heart rate monitor once during sex, though, so I can relate. But not with someone the first time you have sex, though
 
I rarely last for more than 2-3 minutes. It sucks :(. I've been with my partner for a few years, and we have sex regularly, so it's not like time is improving it. I'm told my balls are pretty large as well, so maybe that's doing something. I've been tempted at times to get on SSRIs just to make my dick less sensitive.
 
With a condom, I can't orgasm. So that makes me last forever. My best case scenario for a sleepover is 45-1hr of fore play / getting down, spooning leading to more sex in the middle of the night, then breakfast time nookie. Middle of the night just being very quick and morning like 20 minutes.
 
pompidu said:
Depends on the position.

Doggy style, i can go forever.idk y
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Pretty much the opposite. Everything else I'm fine*, but doggy never fails to finish things.

*by fine I do of course mean the gaf standard, 6'4", 9 inches, 1-3 hours with my smoking hot gf

SillyEskimo said:
It all comes down to how you choose to spend your time. You might spend an hour or so watching TV, reading, ect to wind down at night, others might spend that time licking buttholes and getting their dick sucked instead.
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Gotta get down with the booty eating renaissance
 
DistortionOfReality said:
Pretty much the opposite. Everything else I'm fine*, but doggy never fails to finish things.

*by fine I do of course mean the gaf standard, 6'4", 9 inches, 1-3 hours with my smoking hot gf
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most guys I know put their GF on all fours to get the job done quick. Have her grab her asscheeks and spread em, while her face is buried in the matress for extra feels.
 
butzopower said:
I rarely last for more than 2-3 minutes. It sucks :(. I've been with my partner for a few years, and we have sex regularly, so it's not like time is improving it. I'm told my balls are pretty large as well, so maybe that's doing something. I've been tempted at times to get on SSRIs just to make my dick less sensitive.
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Not to sound like an infomercial, but there has got to be a better way. Fucking with your serotonin receptors to possibly get a side effect of fewer orgasms is not the way to go.
 
Maybe it's the condom, I don't know, but I have a hard time finishing the job whenever the girlfriend and I do it. We don't do it very often, but when we do, it almost takes too long. We've talked about it and maybe we're just too focused on the finish line. Like maybe focusing on orgasming just undermines the whole activity and it actually prevents me from doing so.
 
Silent_Ocarina said:
Maybe it's the condom, I don't know, but I have a hard time finishing the job whenever the girlfriend and I do it. We don't do it very often, but when we do, it almost takes too long. We've talked about it and maybe we're just too focused on the finish line. Like maybe focusing on orgasming just undermines the whole activity and it actually prevents me from doing so.
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If you are only focusing on the end you are missing the entire point, and your mind is less involved with the actual present moment. You are in a way, distracting yourself.
 
If its been a few days, I can usually last about 10-15 minutes. If I masturbate the day before, or earlier in the day, closer to 30 ish
 
Eating pussy and sucking dick can last as long as we're enjoying it, but the actual activity of fucking is only enjoyable for me for up to 30-35 minutes. Anything more than that and sex quite literally becomes a chore for me. I also recently got out of a relationship of 3.5 years, so I got used to having sex with her for approximately 20-25 minutes, at which point it was her stopping anyway because once she had several orgasms, she said she was too sensitive and felt sore. I got used to that time frame.
 
Subpar Spatula said:
Those say say they penetrate for 20+ minutes continuously are probably full of shit. At a certain point you must not be liking what's going on if it takes THAT long.
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It's not impossible. It's pretty common for me though I'm probably not taking into account that switching positions which is a great way to "step off the ledge" ( as I call it) and go for another several minutes.

And it's all based on your partner. Some people I know really like to go all night others like a quickly and for me it's really based on the mood. Sometimes I just want something one and done other nights I want to go until I'm exhausted. Mood goes a long way in determining how long it'll last.

I didn't want to post here because clearly those that beat the average are bragging.
 
Tabris said:
Slightly off topic, but not worth it's own thread.

I recently hooked up with a friend after some drinking. As we were unbuttoning and removing each other's clothes, she reached to take off my Apple Watch. I said "Leave it on, I want to track the activity" with a wink. She teased me for a bit over it lol.

But I legitimately wanted to track the activity. Would you, or have you ever had sex (the kind you spend a couple hours fucking naked in bed, not the quickies some of you are talking about it) with your smartwatch on? If not, would you consider it a faux pas?
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Fuck I hadn't thought of it.

My girlfriend is coming over tonight. I'll have to leave it on and see if she noticed.

I'll chime in on the topic at hand and say sex with my girlfriend has been mostly about exploring our sexuality, as we got together when she was a virgin and I had had nothing but standard quick in and out in five minutes sex.
We can spend twenty-thirty minutes having sex in different positions we like or want to try, without either of us in any real 'danger' of finishing because that's not our goal at the moment. When we decide it's time to finish up, she'll start clitoral stimulation (protip: bring toys into your sexual adventures. Don't be a fuckin square) And have her first orgasm after a while. after her first orgasm things go pretty quick, but I consider all of the above to be "sex" and it's a large chunk of time.

There's something to be said for the value of a well timed quickie tho.
 
I knew it would be a good laugh to read this thread in it's entirety.

Porn stars.

Porn stars everywhere.
 
TheOfficeMut said:
Oh, and I can only enjoy sex on an empty stomach, otherwise I'd feel too full.
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Biiiiiiig one for me. I know people like to wine and dine and even had a few offers for that but I always turn it down. I can't enjoy it if I'm full. Halfway to empty for me depending on what we do ;)

And of course if I'm high then naturally everything is longer. 30 min just to put it in alone easily. shit even kissing feels earth shattering with some good weed. God bless weed.
 
While we're asking questions of womanGaf I wonder how many women have really finished from strictly internal vaginal stimulation, because my girlfriend finds it to be literally impossible.
 
MrToughPants said:
I literally just had sex 15 minutes ago...started at 615pm and ended at 730pm...Didn't cum since I had to piss. :(
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See guys, this is not a bragging post, is a call for help.

When I had antidepressants I was the same, it was terrible.

Sdkkds said:
As someone who last's about an hour I wish I only lasted 10-15 mins.

- I have never had a girl make me cum from oral
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I was the same until a hooker broke the spell.

Chris rock explained it well: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GSw80ShdBF4

Now I understand why people enjoy head more than pussy sometimes.
 
Lasting too long isn't a great thing, it can be incredibly frustrating. I actually found out why I was having so many issues reaching my climax in a timely matter, I was THINKING too much. Not thinking about the act, but thinking about other things and the end goal of sex. My objective was just to cum because it feels so great, but in the midst of wanting that end goal, I wasn't fully enveloped in the actual love making of the present moment. When I realized that, everything changed. All my conscious attention was redirected from meaningless thoughts to the whole range of sensations experienced during sex. It began to feel more pleasurable because I was so in the moment I was truly one with the experience. The sights, the sounds, the aromas, the sensations of touch, all become clearer when you stop thinking about the destination.
 
Can I just share that if you image google search "missionary position" the first several results are two clothed male Mormon missionaries in various positions.




What shut up I'm new to this
 
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