I'm still upset, I thought that said sexiest for a while
Haha for real? You don't care that she pushed you down stairs but you'd care if she called you a bitch cause it disrespects your manhood? Cmon now. This has to be a joke.
My GF called me bitch 3x then came into BR and when I wasnt ready said "Fuck You"
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I'm still upset, I thought that said sexiest for a while
Haha for real? You don't care that she pushed you down stairs but you'd care if she called you a bitch cause it disrespects your manhood? Cmon now. This has to be a joke.
hydragonwarrior
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There's probably a reason why she calls you a bitch. You'll probably find out more if you can figure out what she thinks a bitch is.
Hoho for breakfast
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edit... figures it wasnt really her. Damn. And OP you still gave no context. What do you think she'd say was the reason she called you a bitch three times? I mean honestly if she's unapologetic you should fuck her and then immediately drop her and ask who the bitch is now.
Or maybe you deserved it? Or maybe she at least thought there was a valid reason. What's the damn context?
Or maybe you deserved it? Or maybe she at least thought there was a valid reason. What's the damn context?
GhostWriter24
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You sound like a terrible person.
And yikes, lots of emasculating "maybe you don't realize you're a bitch after all" posts. Sorry I asked for the advice.
Seriously ignore people saying that shit, holy crap I don't even understand how it's allowed.
GhostWriter24
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Neither do I. It's fine, I'll ignore it.
The Silver
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i wanna see the alternate universe version of this thread with all the exact same posts but the genders reversed, would be a graveyard like no other.
This is the first time it has happened, what it calls for is a sober discussion on what the fuck was going on and the feelings involved. If the OP wants to call it off, that's fine, but if he found her incredible before this whole incident it may be worth having an adult conversation over.
the point i'm trying to make is, relationships have different dynamics..maybe she has a different understanding of your relationships dynamic. which is why you guys can easily talk about it and work through it. my relationship has a dynamic that...doesn't give a shit when either of us say crap like that. and if i ever crossed the line, i'd get called up on it. i wouldn't get dumped. just like I wouldn't dump her.
So you are just ignoring all view points that go against yours? what was the point of the thread?
Yeah people saying "maybe you actually are a bitch" is totally constructive. What?
He's ignoring people who are emasculating him for not having sex - literally, that's what he said he's ignoring - read the posts.
Eppy Thatcher
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Not saying this is a pattern or behavior or her "real" self coming out when she's drunk but I dealt with WAY too much of this type of bullshit (crazy fuckin pointedly angry mean drunk shit) with apology fucking and all the rest the next day. You're a few years younger than I am so maybe you have it in you but I bailed on all of those bad habits and found myself someone who is actually FUN to be around when they get fucked up.
Night and day man. But hey... .maybe she had a bad day/got a terrible phone call/has shit on her mind before she started getting sauced and it tainted the whole thing. Gonna have to talk sober to find out but if this type of shit bothers you and it's not the normal back and forth when you guys are drinking/partying with people... well ... that's no good, bruh.
Night and day man. But hey... .maybe she had a bad day/got a terrible phone call/has shit on her mind before she started getting sauced and it tainted the whole thing. Gonna have to talk sober to find out but if this type of shit bothers you and it's not the normal back and forth when you guys are drinking/partying with people... well ... that's no good, bruh.
GhostWriter24
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I'll ignore the abusive behavior, sure. Why not? Should I dignify it with a response?
Can't give much advice besides a proverb we have. It translates roughly to: "What you think while sober, you say out loud while drunk"
Or, being drunk shoyld not excuse her behavior. It's up to you to see if you can give her a second chance. I probably would not.
Your advice boils down to, "I get called a bitch all the time."
Alex Stroud
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Sounds like she had a bit too much to drink. Wouldn't sweat it.
So will you be talking with her about this tomorrow or are you done with her?
So many assholes in this thread.
Ironically, some of them might even call out for equality, diversity and Womans right.
Piss taking this is.
OP: Maybe she has a drunken problems. I know alot of people who do 180 personality wise, when tipsy, and try to talk to her about in the morning. If she doesn't care, move on. Person such as this is not worry of your polite attention.
Ironically, some of them might even call out for equality, diversity and Womans right.
Piss taking this is.
OP: Maybe she has a drunken problems. I know alot of people who do 180 personality wise, when tipsy, and try to talk to her about in the morning. If she doesn't care, move on. Person such as this is not worry of your polite attention.
No it doesn't, I am rarely if ever called any names except in really heated fights and it's more being called an asshole or something, stop trying to troll me with your crappy relationship advice.
No I mean, you havent replied to anyone that has said wait until you're both sober or anything like that, you've only replied to people that have the same opinion as you, fair enough to ignore the abuse.
I was about to cover your back saying there is no need for response to all the peeps saying bullshit here, but I've changed my mind.
This isn't aboud dignity. Are you in relationship? One step closer to breakup if you boil it inside and don't let it out.
Aztechnology
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Sounds like a really strong over reaction. Surely your "manhood" isn't that fragile op.
God Dayumm
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I feel like I'm taking crazy pills.
What has he overdone?!
I think you are taking pills that cause unnecessary outrage
Jesus, people here are so black and white and just look to be outraged by things
I mean there's a distinction between a relationship that throws around insults in a casual/play manner "LOL U FUCK!", and calling someone bitch in a genuinely angry tone at a party just to be derogatory and condescending.
Context is everything. And clearly this isn't the norm between OP and his gf, so i'm thinking the latter is the likely situation.
Context is everything. And clearly this isn't the norm between OP and his gf, so i'm thinking the latter is the likely situation.
Sickboy007
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This thread is rancid, don't take it personally OP. If my GF treated me like this at a party, sex would be the last thing on my mind, I would be livid.
What the fuck?
How is being bewildered by some of the shit people are saying in here, outrage
ChawlieTheFair
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Strangelove77
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I dunno, I think being pushed down the stairs by your girlfriend is a bit worse than being called a "bitch."
I wouldn't appreciate it.
I wouldn't appreciate it.
TickleMeElbow
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Damn yo this thread is almost as crazy as that "worst ways you've been dumped" thread.
People telling stories about slapping their gf, getting shoved down stairs, calling their gf fat at a party, spending shared savings on engines and calling each other cunts and Hitler.
This shit's like an episode of Maury lol.
People telling stories about slapping their gf, getting shoved down stairs, calling their gf fat at a party, spending shared savings on engines and calling each other cunts and Hitler.
This shit's like an episode of Maury lol.
Horse Detective
Why the long case?
My professional response:
If you think this thread is emasculating, oh boy howdy you probably won't enjoy her speech when you tell her why you're breaking up.
If you think this thread is emasculating, oh boy howdy you probably won't enjoy her speech when you tell her why you're breaking up.
Because every relationship is different, they are complex things, not black and white good or bad.
I repeat: How is being bewildered by some of the shit people are saying in here, outrage
Or you just one of those people that like to call "outrage culture" on everything
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