So I just went on my girlfriends ipad....

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Could you afford rent on your own?

If so bag up her shit and change the locks.
Or she may try brinkng the new dick over there tonight.


What I'm mostly surprised by is that she didn't even try to apologize, that is super fucking foul
 
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bring your most valuable possessions to your parents right now and stay there, a storm is coming

but put a print out of the dick outside the apartment door before you leave
 
She was going to do this to you. A few of us warned you. But it's really not your fault.

This is why when he said "I'm done" on like his 2nd post he shoulda hit the ol dusty trail.

If she's interested at all in staying together op it's because of comfort or security or laziness. Don't deal with any of that shit. Just go figure your lease put or kick the betch out and move on. You're done here.
 
Nah homie my EX tried to pull this shit and I fell for it. Caught her cheating with some dude (well, someone told me) and she tried to pin it on me like it was my fault.

Ended up staying with her for four more miserable months.

Drop her. She's garbo.
 
She's getting backup. Probs her new dick bf. Or, she's not coming back at all. Get out now OP. You did nothing wrong. I've seen this happen. I watched this happen.

Oot.
 
If she stepped out, now would be a really really good time to get your valuables out of the house. Call your best mates and have them help you get stuff out of there and ideally to your parents place. Go from most expensive/personally valuable to least, and if there are enough of you keep one person there at all times to make sure she doesn't destroy anything else.

There's nothing left there for you. Get out now and minimize your losses.
 
Moved halfway across the country and lived with my gf at the time. There was some guy online that was always trying to chat her up, I didn't really think much about it. Until I saw the conversation she was having with him while I sat next to her. Dick and all.

It went just like the OP, except I was there.

I moved back after a month.
 
There's pictures of her (and me) on these forums.

I'm surprised detective gaf hasn't already found them on here http://www.neogaf.com/forum/showthread.php?t=1072682

And found my oled and photoshopped a dick on it http://www.neogaf.com/forum/showpost.php?p=164196907&postcount=816

Ok well I was trying to talk to her through the locked bathroom door, she was ignoring me, she came out of the bathroom pushed me out of the way told me to "leave her alone" and has gone out.

So not much I can really do at this stage. Why is it that I now feel like I've done something wrong.

She obviously needs time to come up with a story. But if I was innocent I'd explain it.

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Hang in there man. She is in the wrong and is engaged in mental gymnastics of trying to not be the bad guy in this. Give her time to vent. Either she will come back and talk or she will call someone to help her get her stuff. Chill, maybe go to the movies/watch a movie to get your mind off it a little.
 
Don't be ridiculous.
This girl did not even apologize and said "leave me alone" when he did NOTHING wrong.

She is up to something and if mystery dick (let's call him Richard) is a smooth talker he will talk her into bringing him back there.

Shit is about to go down.
 
There's pictures of her (and me) on these forums.

I'm surprised detective gaf hasn't already found them on here http://www.neogaf.com/forum/showthread.php?t=1072682

And found my oled and photoshopped a dick on it http://www.neogaf.com/forum/showpost.php?p=164196907&postcount=816

Ok well I was trying to talk to her through the locked bathroom door, she was ignoring me, she came out of the bathroom pushed me out of the way told me to "leave her alone" and has gone out.

So not much I can really do at this stage. Why is it that I now feel like I've done something wrong.

She obviously needs time to come up with a story. But if I was innocent I'd explain it.

Nothing more said
You haven't done something to deserve secretive cheating.

There might be something going on that led her down that path, but that's still her fault for not bringing it up.

If (other than this) she has been absolutely worth fighting for, then you need to talk through it and figure out how to improve your relationship and communication, which leads to a better sex life.

If the above doesn't improve things, and she wants to sleep with other people just because she feels the urge, then you need to decide if you're okay with that, perhaps even involving yourself.

She hasn't stolen all your money. She hasn't taken away your kids. She hasn't ruined your life. It's sexting with someone.
 
Ok well I was trying to talk to her through the locked bathroom door, she was ignoring me, she came out of the bathroom pushed me out of the way told me to "leave her alone" and has gone out.

So not much I can really do at this stage. Why is it that I now feel like I've done something wrong.

She obviously needs time to come up with a story. But if I was innocent I'd explain it.

Nothing more said


Fuck that for a game of soldiers. You've nothing to feel bad about. Just take this response as now knowing what an utter jeb she is.
 
This girl did not even apologize and said "leave me alone" when he did NOTHING wrong.

She is up to something and if mystery dick (let's call him Richard) is a smooth talker he will talk her into bringing him back there.

Shit is about to go down.

Why would it? Both of them can fuck off, OP didn't do shit to anyone
 
I doubt she's bringing the new guy back to the apartment, that's like taking it from a 10 to a 50 without any of the intermediary steps.

But she's probably going to see that guy to try to figure out her Plan B since she knows her current living situation is no longer valid.
 
Moved halfway across the country and lived with my gf at the time. There was some guy online that was always trying to chat her up, I didn't really think much about it. Until I saw the conversation she was having with him while I sat next to her. Dick and all.

It went just like the OP, except I was there.

I moved back after a month.

Did you spend the month enjoying the local?
 
Holy shit op, is your name Kane?

Have you recently been sending dick pics over WhatsApp by some chance?

Oh my god this could go a million different ways and almost all of them tickle my senses

It's a small world after all.

She returns with dick guy who turns out to be another gaffer and they just look at each other give a cool "'sup dude" and settle in for some FIFA on the OLED completely ignoring cheater girl.

Edit: oh god not a top of page post....
 
op looks handsome, I'm sure once time has done its healing he can find a new partner that is mature in no time.

but you should pack your stuff and head to parent's place ASAP
 
Moved halfway across the country and lived with my gf at the time. There was some guy online that was always trying to chat her up, I didn't really think much about it. Until I saw the conversation she was having with him while I sat next to her. Dick and all.

It went just like the OP, except I was there.

I moved back after a month.

same.

Had a GF, she was always chatting with some dude. I was curious, but she meant it was nothing, and i should chill, so i believed her.

Yeah...bad idea.

Left me three weeks later, and at this point i don't have to mention anymore who her new lover was, right?
 
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