Cause I've seen some SHIT in my life and I've been there for my friends during situations like this.
I had a pick up truck, I was the go to mover during emergencies.
So I just went on my girlfriends ipad....
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I had a pick up truck, I was the go to mover during emergencies.
If this is real, I'm going to need a source.
It's fucked up but not all that shocking TBH.
People in general have a hard time thinking they are ever wrong or could be a bad person. Blame shifting/deflection is pretty natural for some.
Plus, I mean, she was texting other dudes and flirting back with a guy sending dick pics. You kinda have to assume she's a bit selfish or apathetic towards others feelings at time.
that's practically every episode of family feud
Slayer-33
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Hahahaha
Odds are she's out spinning a story with someone that she'll hope you'll believe or she's trying to hook up with one of her side sausages so she'll have a place to weasel into.
The fact she bolted into the bathroom and went silent is a good indication she's probably been up to more than just that chat. She didn't know what to say or how to react because she has no idea how much you know.
The fact she bolted into the bathroom and went silent is a good indication she's probably been up to more than just that chat. She didn't know what to say or how to react because she has no idea how much you know.
Sho_Nuff82
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Wait, still? You want to salvage this?
Come on, you are posting the "this is fine" meme in paragraph form. The house is on goddamn fire and you're telling OP to sip his coffee and relax.
Lolol fucking christ
I don't get it?
I was just asking her to come out so we can talk. No response at all, when she did eventually open the door she just pushed me out the way and asked me to leave her alone.
I changed it in good humour.
Just want to make clear that it wasn't a mod or anything.
jellies_two
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This is like a slow motion version of the black mirror christmas special : where the peanut gallery watch and coach in real time the guy about to let's just say make unfortunate choices. OP just Facebook live video it you don't seem too concerned about privacy as it is.
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you must not be great at social interaction if you're this perplexed with basic friendship
Hahaha that's excellent.
So did anyone find that pic of op and his (ex)gf (I'm curious but lazy)
I bet it's the landlord's dick!
OP, I'm really sorry about your day. I know it sucks.... she's guilty af and knows it so she's just too embarrassed to even bother with trying to BS you
Art Teitlebaum
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Shitty drawing? You're GAF's Leonardo.
Yeezus H. Christ
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oh snap!
The only way to deal with a situation like this is calmly.
I have no idea if they want to. But if they love the person, then it absolutely is something you work through.
Relationships don't last because nothing bad happens. Relationships last because consenting adults work through problems and strife like fucking adults, instead of coddled children afraid of hard work.
Braag
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I went through the exact same shit as OP few years ago. Accidentally found pictures of some other dude on my ex's laptop (lots of pics of them kissing together and the dude laying on bed naked and shit) I knew they were fairly fresh pics cause she had a tattoo which she had taken about 6 months after we had started dating.
I knew the guy from the photos was her friend as she had told me about him before and that he lives in another city and that he is a good friend of hers but she never told me that she has a romantic relationship with him.
Just like OP I backed the pictures up on my phone and confronted her later. She got extremely mad at me and pretended she has no idea what I'm saying. It wasn't until I shoved the pictured in front of her that she calmed down and realized it's no use playing dumb. Anyway I packed my shit and left her, the first 6 months after the break up were pure torment but I ignored her and decided that it's over between us.
Looking back at it now, leaving her was on of the best decisions I've ever made.
So I definitely recommend you end it OP. It wont be easy but it'll be the better option in the long run. You'll find someone much much better like I did.
I knew the guy from the photos was her friend as she had told me about him before and that he lives in another city and that he is a good friend of hers but she never told me that she has a romantic relationship with him.
Just like OP I backed the pictures up on my phone and confronted her later. She got extremely mad at me and pretended she has no idea what I'm saying. It wasn't until I shoved the pictured in front of her that she calmed down and realized it's no use playing dumb. Anyway I packed my shit and left her, the first 6 months after the break up were pure torment but I ignored her and decided that it's over between us.
Looking back at it now, leaving her was on of the best decisions I've ever made.
So I definitely recommend you end it OP. It wont be easy but it'll be the better option in the long run. You'll find someone much much better like I did.
She has one of her good friends nearby, if I was to wager on it I'd say she's gone there.
Give this man the keys to GAF GOLD now!!!
diablos991
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Get pics and video of the apartment condition before leaving. Document everything with the landlord. She could thrash the place while you're still on the lease.
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i'll say it again: OP is not in high school, so he probably doesn't care about stupid gossip bullshit like that. your friends will still be your friends
There's nothing to say. Nothing I could add to this will have any effect.
We live in this world, and have seen this thing. We are all one.
Mammoth Jones
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Get your shit out now before she destroys or steals it out of spite....
Go to home depot and rent a truck if you have to.
Go to home depot and rent a truck if you have to.
Michael F. Assbender
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No! She's going to make herself the victim! Leave the house now! Do not come back unless you've got sympathetic friends with you!
Do you have incredibly low expectations in relationships, trust and honesty have no value to you in relationship. So you go back running to a girl who cheats on you?
Good job man that'll make a girl really value you.
Abstruse Moose
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Hopefully random dick guy doesn't show up to kick OP's ass.
I think the poster mentioned the dick guy had a motorcycle as his profile pic.
Oh my god hahahahaha
Zombie James
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Why do people keep insisting the OP should leave? She's the one that needs to be leaving.
Not to sound like a dick but you must have a really low bar for self respect in an agreed upon monogamous relationship.
A perfect 10 with a magnetic personality isn't enough to look past blatant betrayal and deception IMO.
Still, thanks for saving me the effort. (I actually think the first link was perfectly acceptable).
Yep. Had to deal with a similar situation in the past. As others have said, you're done here- it's on her now. Pack your stuff (or more ideally tell her to pack hers depending on how your housing is set up) and bail. Sucks horribly right now, but it doesn't sound like there's anything to salvage.
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MonkeyMan29
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Just trying to get an idea if she seemed emotionally upset about the situation or if she was just trying to weave her story with Dickbike.
Kill Your Masters
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Looking at your previous posts I feel like you are trying to justify your own (perhaps bad) decisions in life through OPs situation.
OP should find someone who respects him and is worth his time. Not waste even more time on someone who may be ready to cheat on him if it didn't happened already.
This.
Also: call up your bros, move your shit, crack some beers with said bros, relax.
Vigilant Walrus
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OP don't feel bad. If she tries to turn things around on you, that is just.. Atypical of cheaters.
Sometimes you hear a narrative of "I only did it because you didn't pay attention to me". Regardless of what her story is, she did what she did, and instead of talking about it like an adult she just went ahead and said fuck it.
Sometimes you hear a narrative of "I only did it because you didn't pay attention to me". Regardless of what her story is, she did what she did, and instead of talking about it like an adult she just went ahead and said fuck it.
Hero_of_the_Day
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What are you wanting to talk about? You started this thread by saying there's no coming back, so what's there to discuss? Pack your shit, and get the fuck out, right now. Don't stick around for drama.
Here's an image to help motivate you. The last time you had sex with her, she was thinking of that dick you just saw a picture of. Now if you're okay with her getting warmed up elsewhere, more power to you. If not, start packing. Start with most valuable things first. I'd also find a copy of the lease if you have one, so that if she calls the cops, you immediately have that in hand to show them.
That opener had no shot.
FlashbladeGAF
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She doesnt even want to talk...No reason to waste anymore time on her.
Take pictures for the landlord, get your OLED and PS4 to safety and move on.
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