So I just went on my girlfriends ipad....

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OCD Guy said:
No she's with her friend locally.

The reason I think this is because her friend that lives down the road ( a few blocks) is the one that text me.

She's got a loud mouth on her, and always interferes though. I don't really like her, but have always tolerated her because she's her friend.

But she's got no respect, like I ask people to take shoes off, she never would, and she'd do things like touch my tv (yeah first world problems) but I don't want paw prints on it, there's no reason to touch it.

And when she'd stay round the white sheets would be brown the next day.
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The shade. I gotta remember that last line. Use that shit some day.
 
OCD Guy said:
For me though it's more than just a dick.

She has been having sexual conversations with someone behind my back.

It's not a small deal to her either, if it was she'd have opened up to me, instead of a fake look of surprise and hesitation in her voice when I confronted her.

I appreciate I went straight it but honestly I was sitting there looking at her out the corner of the eye as she smiled while staring at her ipad and I snapped.

For me the trust is broken, whether she's had sex or not is not relevant, I don't think it's right to have the sort of conversation that she had when you're in a relationship.
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Have you given her an opportunity to open up about this sort of thing before, without being accusatory?

(Not's Post #3 in the 50-page relationship thread)
 
OCD Guy said:
No she's with her friend locally.

The reason I think this is because her friend that lives down the road ( a few blocks) is the one that text me.

She's got a loud mouth on her, and always interferes though. I don't really like her, but have always tolerated her because she's her friend.

But she's got no respect, like I ask people to take shoes off, she never would, and she'd do things like touch my tv (yeah first world problems) but I don't want paw prints on it, there's no reason to touch it.

And when she'd stay round the white sheets would be brown the next day.
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Man this thread keeps delivering.
 
OCD Guy said:
No she's with her friend locally.

The reason I think this is because her friend that lives down the road ( a few blocks) is the one that text me.

She's got a loud mouth on her, and always interferes though. I don't really like her, but have always tolerated her because she's her friend.

But she's got no respect, like I ask people to take shoes off, she never would, and she'd do things like touch my tv (yeah first world problems) but I don't want paw prints on it, there's no reason to touch it.

And when she'd stay round the white sheets would be brown the next day.
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I'd block her number asap. Did she run off with the ipad?
 
OCD Guy said:
No she's with her friend locally.

The reason I think this is because her friend that lives down the road ( a few blocks) is the one that text me.

She's got a loud mouth on her, and always interferes though. I don't really like her, but have always tolerated her because she's her friend.

But she's got no respect, like I ask people to take shoes off, she never would, and she'd do things like touch my tv (yeah first world problems) but I don't want paw prints on it, there's no reason to touch it.

And when she'd stay round the white sheets would be brown the next day.
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What does this mean? Like, they would literally be brown?
 
Pack your shit and leave pronto! Do you have friends/family nearby who can help you move your stuff and crash with until you figure this lease business out?
 
Lashley said:
"Who do you think you are, going down her stuff, cunt"

Blaming OP for reading the cheats messages
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Idiot said:
Ex's Friend is saying that OCD Is in the wrong for snooping & discovering ex being a cheat.
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GavinGT said:
Translation: "Who the fuck do you think you are going on her iPad, you cunt?
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kavanf1 said:
Translation: Who do you think you are to have gone through her stuff, you cunt?
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Thanks for the translation. I was getting dumber by the second trying to read it.
 
GavinGT said:
Can't you rent a U-Haul truck or something and throw all your stuff in there? You'd have to wait until the morning, but still.



"You wanna fuck with my stuff? Then I'll fuck with your stuff!" *breaks everything*
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I've got work tomorrow, and I can't just take a day off, it was my day off today.

So I'm in a bit of an awkward position.

She knows that I'm anal over my stuff (well ocd), her revenge along with her friends would destroy my stuff.

I might have to call the parents and get them to come here tomorrow, she won't react to them, and it's the safest way to get some of my stuff.
 
OCD Guy said:
I'd love to but it's actually impossible.

It's currently 11:30pm here, and I've got nowhere to go, and no way of transporting my stuff. I drive a tiny 2 seater, so couldn't even fit my clothes in there, let alone furniture, pc, consoles etc
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Call off work for tomorrow and rent a van or hire some movers first thing in the morning.

OR...Text the friend back and ask politely if your GF plans to stay with her, or if she prefers you to move out. If she's going to not come back, get the landlord to change the locks. If she wants you to move out, then do it tomorrow.
 
OCD Guy said:
She has one of her good friends nearby, if I was to wager on it I'd say she's gone there.
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Now's your chance to grab stuff you value and get out of there. Leave her in the dust. Right now she's trying to find a way to turn this all around on you, and judging by your comment earlier about feeling you've done something wrong, it's working.
 
OCD Guy said:
No she's with her friend locally.

The reason I think this is because her friend that lives down the road ( a few blocks) is the one that text me.

She's got a loud mouth on her, and always interferes though. I don't really like her, but have always tolerated her because she's her friend.

But she's got no respect, like I ask people to take shoes off, she never would, and she'd do things like touch my tv (yeah first world problems) but I don't want paw prints on it, there's no reason to touch it.

And when she'd stay round the white sheets would be brown the next day.
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So basically she picked the friend that would be best at trying to spin the shit like it's your fault that you accidentally discovered the dick she left open on her ipad.

Honestly, I know it sucks but the good is that when people treat ya like shit then don't show remorse, it just makes it so much easier to tell em to fuck off and be done with it.
 
OCD Guy said:
I've got work tomorrow, and I can't just take a day off, it was my day off today.

So I'm in a bit of an awkward position.

She knows that I'm anal over my stuff (well ocd), her revenge along with her friends would destroy my stuff.

I might have to call the parents and get them to come here tomorrow, she won't react to them, and it's the safest way to get some of my stuff.
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Work will understand if something comes up
 
OCD Guy said:
I've got work tomorrow, and I can't just take a day off, it was my day off today.

So I'm in a bit of an awkward position.

She knows that I'm anal over my stuff (well ocd), her revenge along with her friends would destroy my stuff.

I might have to call the parents and get them to come here tomorrow, she won't react to them, and it's the safest way to get some of my stuff.
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Sick day tomorrow.
Minibus taxi now, take your shit to parents
 
OCD Guy said:
I've got work tomorrow, and I can't just take a day off, it was my day off today.

So I'm in a bit of an awkward position.

She knows that I'm anal over my stuff (well ocd), her revenge along with her friends would destroy my stuff.

I might have to call the parents and get them to come here tomorrow, she won't react to them, and it's the safest way to get some of my stuff.
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You can't call out? Seems a justifiable reason to me.
 
Not said:
Have you given her an opportunity to open up about this sort of thing before, without being accusatory?

(Not's Post #3 in the 50-page relationship thread)
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At this point you're beginning to worry me that you're trying to make yourself feel better for cheating on someone in your own life.
 
OCD Guy said:
They're Essex girls, so you can probably imagine the accent.

I don't talk like that, I've got more of a London accent (not posh).

When they talk they're like "You alright babe *mwah*" (say that in the Essex accent and you can imagine how annoying it is)
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Do you work in the Square Mile and she used to commute in from Essex? I only ask cos I'm reminded of a friend who was too damn nice for his own good, met a girl at work (who travelled in from near Southend) and she treated him incredibly badly. She grabbed my junk when a few of us were out, to my shame, in the Pitcher and Piano opposite Liverpool Street Station.

Anyway, that aside sorry to hear your tale. Fucking sucks.
 
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