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[Tankard]

jesus man how long did it take for them to find you after making a profile? 90 seconds or what? so THAT'S what it's like to be attractive?

Must be nice, indeed.

 

[Jonneh3003]

Fuck off with that shit. It's exactly what I'm talking about.

This thread needs to be locked. It's about to get even more disgusting even faster.

Cheers, OP.

There are very few in support of OP's ex and there's a reason for that. She betrayed him, she's untrustworthy. Good people don't cheat.

 

[Vic]

There's something wrong with saying someone could get a "more attractive" looking SO? Especially in the context of this thread it seems silly to get peeved about that.

I don't mind that tbh, let's just not get TOO low with the comments.

 

[Hero_of_the_Day]

Well, this thread it clearly nearing locked status. Please make a new thread when your ex's friend smashes your shit. Include pics.

 

[Xamtheking]

Fuck off with that shit. It's exactly what I'm talking about.

This thread needs to be locked. It's about to get even more disgusting even faster.

Cheers, OP.

Can't I think a female human being as a bad person based on the actions they have taken?
Regardless of gender, race, or any other factor, this doesn't seem like a great person to be around.

 

[InfiniteBento]

People posting OP's girlfriend....holy shit guys come on dont be tasteless

Oh shit and now OP is talking to other ladies already

This thread is too much.

 

[DodgyGeezerFella]

Come on OP you can do better than POF .... eeesh.

 

[Elginer]

OP is a gawd damn stud.

That "fancy seeing some more dick?" line is gonna live in infamy lmao.

Best to move on and take that OLED with ya!

 

[kinggroin]

There's something wrong with saying someone could get a "more attractive" looking SO? Especially in the context of this thread it seems silly to get peeved about that.

Yes, I think so anyway. We have female members here and I could totally see some being offended by this upgrade talk.


Why not just stick to, "She's an asshole, upgrade to a better person"?

 

[msdstc]

I appreciate the compliments, but I'm actually insecure, and I mentioned in another thread (detetctive gaf incoming) that I was actually bullied and had cosmetic surgery, comments have stopped but the insecruity is still there.

Plus when someone goes elsewhere it doesn't do much apart from feed the insecurities.

Can I ask what surgery?

 

[17 Seconds]

Can't I think a female human being as a bad person based on the actions they have taken?
Regardless of gender, race, or any other factor, this doesn't seem like a great person to be around.

you know literally almost nothing about her. she's shitty in this situation, no doubt. that's all you know.

 

[Spine_Ripper]

I didn't know SuaveGAF was a thing

 

[Negaduck]

OP "fancy seeing some more dick?" !

That's a username tag line if I've ever seen one.

 

[Oveja Negra]

This thread has reached highs that I never imagined.

I salute you, OP.

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[Coal]

Today I learned there is a Jersey Shore in England. Amazing.

 

[RoySFNR]

I don't want this thread to go south already. We're yet to reach the point where the girl calls OP and kinda but not really tells him how she has been a shitty girlfriend but she'd do anything to have him back.

This story needs a conclusion.

 

[Brandwin]

Whoa, a lot of posts since I left work a few hours ago.

Can someone summarize or point me in be direction of what happened?

Last I saw he asked her about fancying dicks. She ran into bathroom with iPad.


Edit. Nevermind I see it's been summarized
already

 

[StalkerUKCG]

Man, your username sure does match your posts. HAHA

It's all stuff OP has posted himself in this thread... but yea

 

[OCD Guy]

Can I ask what surgery?

I had an otoplasty, and I'd like a rhinoplasty too, oh and veneers.

Veneers is something I'm going to do, not sure about going through with the rhinoplasty.

The recovery from the otoplasty wasn't great. I can only imagine the rhinoplasty.

 

[Not]

Can't I think a female human being as a bad person based on the actions they have taken?
Regardless of gender, race, or any other factor, this doesn't seem like a great person to be around.

As long as you don't think a real life human being behind a computer thinks another real life human being, especially a woman, "deserves" Internet harassment just for potentially cheating on a guy you've never met.

Because I'll tell you who the real bad people are in that scenario.

 

[Baleoce]

You work fast.

To be fair if I looked like OP I don't think I'd waste much time either xD

 

[Two Words]

What's with all of the physical appearance comparisons of OP and GF? I agree OP can do a lot better than his current cheating GF. Why make it about how she looks?

 

[Vic]

Every bulletpoint in that resume should be a link to the original post.

 

[Cabbagehead]

seriously, this thread got really weird

He's not scared away and it's all in good fun. Bunch of prude seekers.

 

[17 Seconds]

To be fair if I looked like OP I don't think I'd waste much time either xD

the over the top fawning in here is really weird

 

[Furio53]

What's with all of the physical appearance comparisons of OP and GF? I agree OP can do a lot better than his current cheating GF. Why make it about how she looks?

There's been a few. But this is what guys say to each other to make the person hurting feel a little better and help move on. It's a thing.

 

[bodyboarder]

So here is the run down for people
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Much appreciated.

Holy shit being in the southern hemisphere and waking up to a 54 page thread wtf is going on (I've read the summary, but still).

Same, I thought it was a necro bump or something.

 

[Yeezus H. Christ]

you're a good-looking chap OP

 

[avaya]

Who is the girl on his left? She looks much better.

Still screams Essex.

 

[kinggroin]

What's with all of the physical appearance comparisons of OP and GF? I agree OP can do a lot better than his current cheating GF. Why make it about how she looks?

Thank you

 

[Hydrus]

I don't want this thread to go south already. We're yet to reach the point where the girl calls OP and kinda but not really tells him how she has been a shitty girlfriend but she'd do anything to have him back.

This story needs a conclusion.

The conclusion is the OP is gonna bang one of those POF chicks.

This thread and the "Did I just get dated?" Thread are the threads of the year for me! Lmao!

 

[ShipTheCheese]

As long as you don't think a real life human being behind a computer thinks another real life human being, especially a woman, "deserves" Internet harassment just for potentially cheating on a guy you've never met.

Because I'll tell you who the real bad people are in that scenario.

That horse you're on is starting to get proper high.

We are here to support OP who is dealing with some serious shit. The pics of his ex is stuff that he himself has linked to.

 

[Ravek]

I had an otoplasty, and I'd like a rhinoplasty too, oh and veneers.

Veneers is something I'm going to do, not sure about going through with the rhinoplasty.

The recovery from the otoplasty wasn't great. I can only imagine the rhinoplasty.

Have you talked to any of your friends or any mutual friends of you and your now ex? You'd be surprised, unfortunately, what your friends know and not tell you.

I went through nearly the exact same scenario with my now ex wife, so that's why I'm asking.

 

[The Beard]

Never thought I'd be jealous of a guy who just found out his gf has been shopping for a side dong.

But damn, those looks, that line ("Fancy seeing some more dicks?"), and that 55" OLED?

OP is 2cool 😎

 

[OCD Guy]

What's with all of the physical appearance comparisons of OP and GF? I agree OP can do a lot better than his current cheating GF. Why make it about how she looks?

That's the thing about looks.

You often see celebs who cheat and people are like how could he cheat on her or things like that, but no one knows what people are like behind closed doors.

And eventually you see past the looks, and just see the person, they just become "normal".

Obviously attraction is important, and while looks will open the door, the way someone is is what determines whether the door will stay open or slam in their face.

People are saying I can do better, but her ex was a real good looking guy, and even if some people think I look better than her, she still went elsewhere.

Have you talked to any of your friends or any mutual friends of you and your now ex? You'd be surprised, unfortunately, what your friends know and not tell you.

I went through nearly the exact same scenario with my now ex wife, so that's why I'm asking.

No I've not had much contact with anyone. I've spoken to a couple of people about it. They're obviously on my side and pretty much said "fuck her".

Anyway there's still a few obstacles, I've put the chain on the door, but still not text her. And I need to obviously find out where I stand with the flat, and the best way of moving my stuff, plus I've got work.

I wish this happened two days ago so I could have spent my day off sorting stuff out, oh well.

 

[Media]

Wow this thread is really long. Is there a Mandrake summary or something? Why 29 pages when the answer should really be just confront and then move on?

Sad I have been sick all.

Edit: Went back a page. Yeah OP, wow, yeah, go out and find someone new, you are smoking as hell. Damn. Did a double a take.

 

[avaya]

Google image search means GF is destined to find this thread. One day. It is known.

 

[Experien]

The conclusion is the OP is gonna bang one of those POF chicks.

This thread and the "Did I just get dated?" Thread are the threads of the year for me! Lmao!

Except he isn't up for paying for the PoF account so maybe not?

 

[Siphorus]

Man you guys weren't kidding when you said they're like Valley Girls. I would have thought that picture was taken in the OC if I didn't know they were from Essex.

 

[Randomizer]

Can I ask what surgery?

He mentioned not liking his ears and nose so perhaps those? Cosmetic ear surgery I wouldn't even consider a big deal.

Also surgery or not OP you are very attractive and I know you are insecure but people here aren't bigging you up because of the situation. You literally are a very fit guy who will have no trouble finding someone better looking and with better morals. But I suggest you don't have a proper relationship for a long while just some casual stuff. Good luck.

 

[Replicant]

I see GAF on thirst-fest.

I had an otoplasty, and I'd like a rhinoplasty too, oh and veneers.

Veneers is something I'm going to do, not sure about going through with the rhinoplasty.

The recovery from the otoplasty wasn't great. I can only imagine the rhinoplasty.

Veneers is fine. Many adults use braces too these days. Otoplasty, eh.

BUT DO NOT GO THROUGH with the rhinoplasty if you don't have to (ie. if you don't have medical necessity). Lots of things can go wrong with that kind of procedure. There's nothing wrong with your nose.

 

[Dryk]

Wow I wish I could be attractive for a day, cant believe how easy it is. Im lucky to find a match in one month on tinder and then it turns out to be a bot

I choose to take consolation in the fact that people that who have wanted to date my unattractive arse haven't wanted to cheat on it. There may be some causation there I'm not sure.

 

[GreatestHits]

I can't actually see the profile though, I'd need to "upgrade" and there's no way I'm paying for that, especially when the PSN sales have been absolute fire.

Your priorities are in order, good sir

 

[Baleoce]

I just know I'm gonna wake up in the morning and something will have happened to the OLED.

 

[Two Words]

There's been a few. But this is what guys say to each other to make the person hurting feel a little better and help move on. It's a thing.

So say he can do better than an disloyal girl, not imply his current GF is too ugly for him.

 

[Aselith]

Good people don't cheat.

Well, that's not true

 

[Fahzgoolin]

ShallowGaf arrived shamelessly loud and clear.

 

[TimeEffect]

Wait, so she turned this into being the victim? OP allowed the tables to be turned?

This thread moved too fast and Im out of the loop

 

[Not]

That horse you're on is starting to get proper high.

No. There are mountains of precedent for this escalating. It needs to stop.

 

[Aselith]

That... kind of looks like your ex

He's got a type, ok?!?

That horse you're on is starting to get proper high.

We are here to support OP who is dealing with some serious shit. The pics of his ex is stuff that he himself has linked to.

He's not making good decisions posting her up. You're not being helpful, you're enabling bad choices.