So I just went on my girlfriends ipad....

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OCD Guy said:
I get what you're saying, and it is bad to do that.

Unfortunately internet dating seems to be really artificial hence why some people get overlooked. In the short time I've been on there (you're talking maybe over an hour) it's quite clear that no one is reading my profile, simply looking at the pictures.

I can tell because they're asking me questions they'd know the answer to if they actually read the profle.

Unfortnately we live in a supoerficial society where people now strive to have lots of instagram likes, and feel what they own is what defines them.

This breeds a culture where people love you when you're up and will turn on you without a second thought when you're down.

Again my comment did not show any clear maliciousness to anyone, it was a remark in response to someone who assumed I was being messaged by supermodels.

When that couldn't be further from the truth.

Maliciousness would have been me shaming them, going into detail etc, and I'm just not like that.
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What the hell happened to this thread?!

I'm still down to Co-op Alienation with you if you're still awake by the time I get home. PSN Figboy. Should be home within the hour (630PM PST). Maybe it'll help take your mind off of shit.
 
Figboy79 said:
What the hell happened to this thread?!

I'm still down to Co-op Alienation with you if you're still awake by the time I get home. PSN Figboy. Should be home within the hour (630PM PST). Maybe it'll help take your mind off of shit.
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I'll probably be in bed by then.

It's 1:40am right now, but I'm going to send you a request anyway so when you're next on send me an invite.

I normally just play with randoms but it will be good to try playing with a gaffer.
 
Figboy79 said:
What the hell happened to this thread?!

I'm still down to Co-op Alienation with you if you're still awake by the time I get home. PSN Figboy. Should be home within the hour (630PM PST). Maybe it'll help take your mind off of shit.
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17 wanted to take some pot shots along with his buddies.


BladeoftheImmortal said:
He messaged that to his gf/ex?
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No he told her that, when he couldn't hold in his anger. After she picks up the ipad and goes about things awkwardly.
 
FullMetaltech said:
I can only imagine how many were lost in the process.
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And how many were opened by unsuspecting children / significant others. I've actually never heard of polaroid slanging but I feel dumb for being surprised about it.

OP needs to get on Tinder, too soon to be looking for another ship. Weed out the super flakes if you must.
 
OCD Guy said:
I'm not confident enough to approach anyone.

Even on pof I've not messaged anyone, I'm just browsing the profiles.

Being insecure if I send a message and don't get a response I'll start having all sorts of questions wondering why they've not replied. Even though I know that no matter what you look like you're NEVER going to appeal to everyone, different people like different things.

If someone is attracted to a certain race, or certain hair colour, whatever the case is and you don't fit that criteria it doesn't mean they think you're revolting, you're just not their type.

But insecure people assume the worst.
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Trust me, you totally are. It's the most nervewracking thing you can possibly do, and it's completely normal for your brain to tell you not to do that at all costs to avoid awkward rejection or just awkwardness in general. You're going to find though that even if you get rejected, the girl is going to be flattered that you even had the balls to ask. Nobody does it anymore, and it's the quickest way to set yourself up with a bunch of dates. Rejection actually feels good once it happens, you realize how little it actually affects you. The hardest one is the first, and after that it's smooth sailing. Go into it expecting to get rejected or expecting nothing at all, be yourself, and you never know. The best people (the kind you want to date) imo don't tend to use online dating. They don't have the time or can't be bothered with it.
 
The Beard said:
They're called jokes. We're having fun. Even OP has a sense of humor despite what he's going through. Lighten up dude.
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To clarify: I'm not joking. It'd be a damn shame to see that TV get smashed by his ex or her new bae.

I'm more concerned with salvaging his personal property than the relationship. At least his TV was always reliably present when he needed it.
 
Just get anything expensive out of the house. Call your nearest friend and ask him if he can help store it temporarily. When she comes home, she will probably bring her friend with her and they're probably ready to do some damage. Turn the tables. She obviously has a plan. Don't give them the satisfaction.
 
OP I'd recommend maybe having a camera or something going overnight in case she comes in drunk smashing shit. Unlikely, but you never know.
 
OCD Guy said:
I'll probably be in bed by then.

It's 1:40am right now, but I'm going to send you a request anyway so when you're next on send me an invite.

I normally just play with randoms but it will be good to try playing with a gaffer.
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Sweet! Because of the time difference, we may have to arrange playing on the weekend, since I work 8-5pm during the weekday, and do t get home until 6:30 (fucking LA traffic). I don't remember the last time I played with a gaffer (that sounds fucking dirty as shit...). I think it was back when Ps All Stars came out or was in beta.

I usually don't game online much because of my schedule, but Alienation is fun as hell.
 
OCD Guy said:
I'm not confident enough to approach anyone.

Even on pof I've not messaged anyone, I'm just browsing the profiles.

Being insecure if I send a message and don't get a response I'll start having all sorts of questions wondering why they've not replied. Even though I know that no matter what you look like you're NEVER going to appeal to everyone, different people like different things.

If someone is attracted to a certain race, or certain hair colour, whatever the case is and you don't fit that criteria it doesn't mean they think you're revolting, you're just not their type.

But insecure people assume the worst.
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honesty is always the better option

you have created one of the best catchphrase i've ever heard

go and send every girl that barely interest you "fancy seeing some more pictures of people's dicks?"
 
OCD Guy said:
I'm not confident enough to approach anyone.

Even on pof I've not messaged anyone, I'm just browsing the profiles.

Being insecure if I send a message and don't get a response I'll start having all sorts of questions wondering why they've not replied. Even though I know that no matter what you look like you're NEVER going to appeal to everyone, different people like different things.

If someone is attracted to a certain race, or certain hair colour, whatever the case is and you don't fit that criteria it doesn't mean they think you're revolting, you're just not their type.

But insecure people assume the worst.
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Here's the thing: the best looking people I've met in my life were also the most insecure.
Don't even remotely try to get validation through your looks...it's a goddam rabbit hole.
I know 7/10 girls who play many 10/10 guys like a fiddle, because mating does not work like game reviews and Goty awards. No one is untouchable because of attractiveness.
 
Get your stuff op, ask a friend to be a storage unit, ask your parents.

Seriously. If she's childish enough to run to a friend and play the victim, she may be childish enough to go ham on your property.

If she's a screamer...bruh, you're a man. I can't say there, but here in a America police almost always side with the women, even when she's wrong.

They'll ask you to leave.

Gaf is fun and all. But get your possessions and leave. People be crazy.

And locking her out? If she likes to argue, you think that chains gonna stop her?
 
Jack The Nipper said:
one of those things where people put too much emphasis on sex just like money and many other things. sex is more natural than the feelings you have

All she did was see some penis. I have to ask, why does it bother us so much for a person to go fuck when that is instinct of it all.

I mean, boils down to maybe she is a lot better around you for everything else but her getting some moans in would kill all of that and make you go away from her forever?

Not that I am saying what is right or wrong simply offering a perspective.

You can have sex with a man as a man and not be gay but to simply do it. For me, I wouldn't do what you are doing in the same instance, I'd just say something like do you want it? refering to his penis and more in a silly way and not a care or not care way
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Jack The Nipper said:
one of those things where people put too much emphasis on sex just like money and many other things. sex is more natural than the feelings you have

All she did was see some penis. I have to ask, why does it bother us so much for a person to go fuck when that is instinct of it all.

I mean, boils down to maybe she is a lot better around you for everything else but her getting some moans in would kill all of that and make you go away from her forever?

Not that I am saying what is right or wrong simply offering a perspective.

You can have sex with a man as a man and not be gay but to simply do it. For me, I wouldn't do what you are doing in the same instance, I'd just say something like do you want it? refering to his penis and more in a silly way and not a care or not care way
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OCD Guy said:
I've not heard from her, or tried contacting her yet.

I need to text her to let her know I've put the chain on the door. As if she comes back she won't be able to get in.

To be honest I'd imagine she's staying at her friends now.
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Good job OP, you handled it well

Hope the mods bless him with a amazing title after today.
 
Well checking my phone to see that a poster wanted to start "making my life hell" was real fun.

Thanks to those of you who shut that down even if they didn't know if it was me.

Anyways OP, as someone who has had rhinoplasty: you most certainly don't need it and it's not worth the complications.
 
Pau said:
Well checking my phone to see that a poster wanted to start "making my life hell" was real fun.

Thanks to those of you who shut that down even if they didn't know if it was me.

Anyways OP, as someone who has had rhinoplasty: you most certainly don't need it and it's not worth the complications.
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I did try and put a stop to that as soon as I noticed it.

That escalated very quickly.

The thing is the link to my post clearly showed that I was commenting on your photos.

The post showed me quoting you.

But I think people just focused on the pictures and put 2 + 2 together and got 5.

With regards to the rhinoplasty yeah I have heard about the possible complications which have put me off slightly, I had a consultation with the same surgeon that performed the otoplasty as she is very caring and compassionate and has never come across as only making suggestions to squeeze money out of me.

I had many consultations before choosing her and many surgeons I had just made me feel like all they cared about was getting paid.
 
Reading the OP's story gave me the same gut check I had when I found out I was being cheated on.

Excruciatingly miserable feeling that is only repaired by going out and getting laid.
 
Jack The Nipper said:
one of those things where people put too much emphasis on sex just like money and many other things. sex is more natural than the feelings you have

All she did was see some penis. I have to ask, why does it bother us so much for a person to go fuck when that is instinct of it all.

I mean, boils down to maybe she is a lot better around you for everything else but her getting some moans in would kill all of that and make you go away from her forever?

Not that I am saying what is right or wrong simply offering a perspective.

You can have sex with a man as a man and not be gay but to simply do it. For me, I wouldn't do what you are doing in the same instance, I'd just say something like do you want it? refering to his penis and more in a silly way and not a care or not care way
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Everything about this sounds like a hippie-guru from the late 60s just showed up in a Gaf thread.

Dude, this may work for 0,00001% of the world population for obvious reasons.
How about the rest of us ping-ponging between a biological and a social/cultural drive?
 
OCD Guy said:
I did try and put a stop to that as soon as I noticed it.

That escalated very quickly.

The thing is the link to my post clearly showed that I was commenting on your photos.

The post showed me quoting you.

But I think people just focused on the pictures and put 2 + 2 together and got 5.
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No worries. Not your fault. You can repay me though by not getting rhinoplasty! Spend your money and time on something useful. :P
 
Chiggs said:
Reading the OP's story gave me the same gut check I had when I found out I was being cheated on.

Excruciatingly miserable feeling that is only repaired by going out and getting laid.
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Yeah the feeling you get is hard to describe, it just felt like I went a bit lightheaded and my stomach turned abit.

Almost like it wasn't real.

I defintely don't feel as angry now, still a bit all over the place as everything just feels like it's up in the air still.

We've not really spoken, I've not heard from her, and I still need to find out where I stand with regards to withdrawing from my tenancy agreement.
 
Chiggs said:
Excruciatingly miserable feeling that is only repaired by going out and getting laid.
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This is true.

There's no point in being in a relationship anymore it seems, it always falls back to cheating. And looks don't matter much either. I've seen the partner that is far uglier cheat just as often as i've seen the better looking one, male or female.

If you're going to cheat i think ya might as well just come out and say you want to have a free weekend or open relationship. Make things far simpler that way.
 
OCD Guy said:
Yeah the feeling you get is hard to describe, it just felt like I went a bit lightheaded and my stomach turned abit.

Almost like it wasn't real.

I defintely don't feel as angry now, still a bit all over the place as everything just feels like it's up in the air still.

We've not really spoken, I've not heard from her, and I still need to find out where I stand with regards to withdrawing from my tenancy agreement.
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Not to marginalize the moment for you, but if that's really your picture making the rounds on this thread, you're going to be a-okay on the dating/relationship scene.

Still, sorry you went through it.
 
♫ I'm in deep with this girl but she's out of her mind
She said babe I'm sorry but I'm crazy tonight
She got a black shirt, black skirt and dickpics stuck in her head... ♫
 
OCD Guy said:
Yeah the feeling you get is hard to describe, it just felt like I went a bit lightheaded and my stomach turned abit.

Almost like it wasn't real.

I defintely don't feel as angry now, still a bit all over the place as everything just feels like it's up in the air still.

We've not really spoken, I've not heard from her, and I still need to find out where I stand with regards to withdrawing from my tenancy agreement.
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Not to be negative but you still have a lot of grief to endure :/
 
Never understood why men or women who just want to sleep around bother with relationships. Just go and get laid every week and not cause so much grief to people who actually want to maintain a serious long lasting relationship.

It's like they feel like they have to because society deems it so. Hopefully people will be more open about it in the future and not waste peoples time like what happened to the OP.
 
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