So I just went on my girlfriends ipad....

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I followed this thread all day yesterday and it kept me very entertained. I feel for sure for the OP. That is just shitty, sorry man.
I went home last night and told my wife all about it and showed her the funny comments and memes and even that video someone made. fast forward to this morning, I was making my lunch and she was getting ready in the bathroom. I went to tell her bye and give her a kiss. I commented on her dress she was wearing and how good she looked. she looked at me and said "Well I fancy a dick today."
I almost lost it. That's why I love my wife.
Thanks for sharing, made me feel better. Keeper for sure! lol
 
So.. Went to get my wife's phone for her and saw a notification on her screen for snapchat someone named "Jess B" said "send me a pic" but when you actually see the user name it's Jeff B; she renamed the account to appear female. Also there's a phone number in her contacts for a "Jess B" but when you call it, a voicemail came up with a guy named Jeff. Cool day. I know if I confront her about it she will freak out. Maybe it's nothing but it seeks suspicious. We have 2 kids together too

god dammit, fuck cheaters.
 
Been following this thread for a day and a half. I never thought one thread could have so many legendary moments.

OP, you're handling this like a champ. Just keep standing your ground. You got this.
 
I followed this thread all day yesterday and it kept me very entertained. I feel for sure for the OP. That is just shitty, sorry man.
I went home last night and told my wife all about it and showed her the funny comments and memes and even that video someone made. fast forward to this morning, I was making my lunch and she was getting ready in the bathroom. I went to tell her bye and give her a kiss. I commented on her dress she was wearing and how good she looked. she looked at me and said "Well I fancy a dick today."
I almost lost it. That's why I love my wife.

She got a sister?
 
Man this thread....I feel for you OP. I hope everything works out for you as you seem like a good guy and are handling this all very maturely and rationally.

Being cheated on, physically or emotionally is tough. I'm sure in time you'll move on and be happily sending new people pictures of your own penis (just make sure they aren't already in a relationship).
 
Alright, so when I left this thread last night, everyone was just thirsting after OP. Apparently nothing massive happened, but anyone wanna give me a quick fresher?

Also, I see apparently USA is possibly starting the same discovery.
OP called his parents and is moving his shit, his girlfriend tried getting in the house last night but it was probably her loud mouth friend trying to get through the door.
 
I keep receipts for everything I buy (hence my username lol) I tend to exchange things often as I find faults in them, I went through countless PS4's for example in search of a "silent" one lol.

There's only really two things I'm taking, which is the sofa and bed, as well as my gaming stuff, clothes etc are a given obviously.

I did pay for other stuff like kitchen appliances for example but I'm not as bothered about that.

If I was really petty I'd pack literally everything I paid for but I'm not going to go that far.

If you really wanna mess with her head.....take the ice trays. lol
 
I followed this thread all day yesterday and it kept me very entertained. I feel for sure for the OP. That is just shitty, sorry man.
I went home last night and told my wife all about it and showed her the funny comments and memes and even that video someone made. fast forward to this morning, I was making my lunch and she was getting ready in the bathroom. I went to tell her bye and give her a kiss. I commented on her dress she was wearing and how good she looked. she looked at me and said "Well I fancy a dick today."
I almost lost it. That's why I love my wife.

Cracking up at work over here.
 
I followed this thread all day yesterday and it kept me very entertained. I feel for sure for the OP. That is just shitty, sorry man.
I went home last night and told my wife all about it and showed her the funny comments and memes and even that video someone made. fast forward to this morning, I was making my lunch and she was getting ready in the bathroom. I went to tell her bye and give her a kiss. I commented on her dress she was wearing and how good she looked. she looked at me and said "Well I fancy a dick today."
I almost lost it. That's why I love my wife.

Damn this thread just gets better....
 
I followed this thread all day yesterday and it kept me very entertained. I feel for sure for the OP. That is just shitty, sorry man.
I went home last night and told my wife all about it and showed her the funny comments and memes and even that video someone made. fast forward to this morning, I was making my lunch and she was getting ready in the bathroom. I went to tell her bye and give her a kiss. I commented on her dress she was wearing and how good she looked. she looked at me and said "Well I fancy a dick today."
I almost lost it. That's why I love my wife.
True love.
 
This thread made me decide to never get into a relationship with anyone. NEVER.

As well it should! Honestly, relationships are terribly overrated and require too much damned work.

To satisfy your sexual needs, there are plenty professionals who will be more than happy to service those at a cost that will be far less financially or emotionally taxing over the long-term than being in a relationship.
 
So.. Went to get my wife's phone for her and saw a notification on her screen for snapchat someone named "Jess B" said "send me a pic" but when you actually see the user name it's Jeff B; she renamed the account to appear female. Also there's a phone number in her contacts for a "Jess B" but when you call it, a voicemail came up with a guy named Jeff. Cool day. I know if I confront her about it she will freak out. Maybe it's nothing but it seeks suspicious. We have 2 kids together too

Hate to see this happen when children are involved. Takes it a whole another level.
 
Dude. I feel like I could've written this. My ex stated it was for attention. She enjoyed the attention she was getting from the guy...(and then she went to the Dominican republic on valentine's weekend and had sex with him) Once trust is broken, I think the only way to make it work is if the person who cheated is VERY OPEN about their life. It also means you gotta work with them. I stayed with her afterwards for 3 months. It was so stressful on me and I couldn't sleep because I couldn't get over what happened.

But through my experience I find that if there's one event of cheating or E-cheating...then likely there are plenty more. The other cheating events are just waiting to be concealed.

haha I was reading the post and thought I could have written it too. My ex-gf did the exact same thing and broken down and said almost word for word the same thing.
 

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Truly blessed.
 
So.. Went to get my wife's phone for her and saw a notification on her screen for snapchat someone named "Jess B" said "send me a pic" but when you actually see the user name it's Jeff B; she renamed the account to appear female. Also there's a phone number in her contacts for a "Jess B" but when you call it, a voicemail came up with a guy named Jeff. Cool day. I know if I confront her about it she will freak out. Maybe it's nothing but it seeks suspicious. We have 2 kids together too

Talk to her calmly about it, both about her renaming that guy and your concerns overall. You both should be able to talk about this sanely.
 
Hope you have receipts for everything you're taking out of there. If not a receipt, try and find the bank statements reflecting the purchase.

Not sure what the hell you're going to do about the dog. Personally, I'd just take the L on it. You're already taking the furniture (rightfully so btw).

What a nightmare. I went through something like this once, except it was apart of a divorce. At least you don't have to go through that aspect of all this.

Keep us posted, OP.
 
So.. Went to get my wife's phone for her and saw a notification on her screen for snapchat someone named "Jess B" said "send me a pic" but when you actually see the user name it's Jeff B; she renamed the account to appear female. Also there's a phone number in her contacts for a "Jess B" but when you call it, a voicemail came up with a guy named Jeff. Cool day. I know if I confront her about it she will freak out. Maybe it's nothing but it seeks suspicious. We have 2 kids together too
Call a lawyer, you may not end up having to pay child support.
 
It is rough. I can definitely understand being jaded. It really messes with your head. I think "is everyone like this?!?!"

Right now I am pretty much anti-relationships too. I do get calls from my ex still, but I ignore them. I keep thinking of all the lies. I feel I can't trust anyone. I guess this can help us be more aware of crap from people.

Now I try to think of the positives of being single. Doing whatever you want; going to museums, gaming, events, buying stuff for yourself, having more money, not having to report to anyone, finding interests etc...it's our time to heal.

Good to hear man. And I'm right there with you.. devoting all the energy I have to myself rather than a relationship. It's lonely but I have a large backlog of games so at least there is that
 
I found out my ex wife was cheating (I'm going to assume multiple dudes) on me as well OP. I emailed one of the guys who was kind enough to send a dick pic and asked for any pictures she sent him. He said he didn't get any and proceeded to apologize. That was a super fun time in life. I pulled every record I could, phone/text/cc statements etc. I still have all that shit zipped up in a file.

After being out of the relationship and looking back it's a pattern. I wasn't the first to be cheated on by her and I doubt I'll be the last. Good riddance.
 
This fking thread is now making me paranoid about relationships altogether...

Yeah, and it keeps piling up too. I was already pretty sure it wasn't worth the trouble before, but now I'm 100% convinced. lol

Hope everything ends up well for you, OP. If anything you can take solace in knowing you just made the Thread Of The Year.
 
So.. Went to get my wife's phone for her and saw a notification on her screen for snapchat someone named "Jess B" said "send me a pic" but when you actually see the user name it's Jeff B; she renamed the account to appear female. Also there's a phone number in her contacts for a "Jess B" but when you call it, a voicemail came up with a guy named Jeff. Cool day. I know if I confront her about it she will freak out. Maybe it's nothing but it seeks suspicious. We have 2 kids together too

If you have a wife and 2 kids together, you'd likely know whether or not she has a friend named "Jess" by this time in your relationship. Time to check out those cell phone records, dude. Sorry....I know it sucks. Went through a pretty similar scenario. And she denied, denied, denied, despite absolute proof once I started digging.
 
There here at about 4pm it's 3:10pm.

I've not packed anything, they're gonna help me. My mum did say that she doesn't think I should take the furniture. Just my clothes and stuff.

Man, it's YOUR shit. Take it. It's not being petty, it's YOURS. Don't do her any favors. Fuck that.
 
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